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Old Boyfrienddss.
Okay so this is the deal, I dated this kid for like 6 months he was my first love and we were each others first (noo i dont mean sex ) just kissing and just loving each other. Whatever, that sounded DUMB so ANYWAAY. So whatever, he is this big shot in our school.. and I had always crushed on him. Okay.. well 65% of the girl population in my school hated me while we were dating, beacuse they all loved him and I couldnt take it anymoer and broke up with him(also my bestfriends had crushes on him and hated that we were dating) . It was really hard for both of us and it sucked. So its been about 6 months and I'm dating someone new ( who i loveee ) and he is dating the bestfriend of mine who wanted us to breakup in the first place.. We've talked and I miss him and he misses me but we're both happy right now. I just know we have unfinished buisness but i love my boyfriend and , dont want to breakup with him. SORRY THIS IS SO LONG !!!
Okay so what should I do ?
I was thinking I would just wait untill we're both single and maybe hook up again. MAybe not
HELP.
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It's interesting that this ended in a good way. Normally, when all your gal pals are all interested in one guy, and you're dating him, they could be mean and try to backstab you and force you to break you two up.
When you're both single again, you should hook up again. If you're still in school while you do this, I would wait until school is over for the year (or when high school is done). Things are good for you now, so don't do anything to change the situation. You have someone that loves you and you love, and if that fails you have someone else (hopefully) to go for.
Hope this helps.
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Hollister babe does have a point...but at the same time its only human to have feelings about someone else....As far as I can tell you though, you need to think over your relationship with your boyfriend now. If you love him sooo much, how would it make you feel if you know that you hurt him? If you guys love eachother then stay together...but when you say you are going to wait untill you are both single to hook back up, how can you be sure that you really love this guy that you are with now? Love is forever, and its scary to think that you are thinking that you will be ending things anyways, because that doesnt sound like TRUE love. I say that it is YOUR life..YOUR happiness...and you need to take care of yourself, if you think that you are going to fing love with one of them more then the other...no matter who that person is you should go for it. Nomatter what you do hun, people will ALWAYS get hurt. Dont listen to what the crowd says and take ALOT of care befor going into this...I see the biggest of all consequenses on the side where you leave your boyfriend now and go with this other dude...your bestfriend will be hurt and you could possibly loose out on a friendship and not to mention that your man now will be hurt. At the same time, I dont want you to be unhappy by sticking with someone and wondering "What would it have been like if..." Do what makes YOU happy....
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I don't know how you can say you love your current boyfriend, but you're talking about hooking up with your ex boyfriend..? That just doesn't make sence. You shouldn't of let people pressure you into breaking up with someone that you love. No one should ever do that to you, especially your so called "best" friends. If you really love your boyfriend, you wouldn't even think about hooking up with someone else. I know you miss your ex but you guys should just be friends. I can't stop you from doing something you want to do, but before you do anything with your ex, make sure you won't regret it later. You might lose someone you love over some left over feelings. Just think about it. This is something you can help yourself better than any of us on this website.
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