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Heyy guys!!

I'm Maura :) I love to hang out w/ my friends and go shopping!! I've been through it all so ask me a question and I'll help u out :)

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guys i dont know what to do, ive screwed up my life these past couple of weeks, im failing everything, my mom cries all the time and thinks im a disapointment, i've lost all of my friends, and i miss my old ones..

does anyone know what im talking about? anyone who can tell me how it worked out for you? how you got over that whole bad period in your life and moved on, started over again?

i know life is up & down, but it feels like lately it's been DOWN DOWN DOWN DOWN, VERY VERY DOWN. NOTHING BUT DOWN.

you know? and it feels like there's no way out, im failing everything, i cant make it right, its too late, ill end up not going to a university and end up on the street...family hating me, no friends.. it just feels so hopeless.

please.. if you know what im talking about, help me through it.


thannkks people. i pray for everyone of you, even though you're strangers :) (link)
Okay I know that it is hard to get through times like these but you just need to take itone step at a time maybe go in after school and ask for help from the teachers, give a lending hand around the house, and ask who use to be your closest friend to go to the movies. It may seem like the end just think of it as a new beginning! Try to take it one step at a time and everything should work out!

Hope I helped just hang in there it'll get better ask me if you have any more problems,
Maura


I'm 13 I way 125, I'm 5'0. I hate my weight, It makes self conscious like you couldn't believe [along with my acne] I want to loose weight a healthy way, this hopes of along with clearing my acne up.
I'm goaling to loose atleast 5 pounds this month.
I'm going to join the YMCA and I'm going to run track ,go to the pool on the weekends, cardio, and probably join a class or more.
I'm cutting out soda [which will be easy, I hardly ever have soda]
the hardest thing will be junk food, because thats all my family ever buys.

Any suggestions? Any opinions? Good or bad, I want to/need to hear it.
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I have and still am in the same situation. What I do is I try to run a mile every two night and then take a break. As for the eating habits just try to go with your mom to the grocery store and suggest buying apples or something like that. In the long run your whole family might thank you for making them healthy! But as for your weight its good for your age and as long as you exersice and keep healthy you'll be fine.

hope i helped,

Maura


okay im getting older and my birthday is coming up soon.and im taking piano lessons.but every week when the time comes around for me to take them.i never want to. Is it that i don't like piano?? or do i think im too old.
i've been playing for 7 years and i don't want to give it up.but theres a feeling inside of me that never wants to play piano..maybe my teacher.idk.please help me.i really don't want to give it up. (link)
Hey,

I was in the same situation about a year ago and I chose to quit! But I have regreted it ever since and although I hated to practice I have now relized that I loved to do it. So don't make the same mistake I did and stick with it or you'll regret it in the long run.


Maura


I've got this amazing friend, John. I always joke around with him and everything with him and my best friend, Deanna, over the computer, but when it comes to actually hanging out.. it's a different story. While Deanna and I constantly are together, John only seems to want to talk to us when it's either conveniant for him, or when it's not in person.
For example, John, Deanna, our friend Alex and I all went to the movies to hang out. Well, Deanna, Alex and I all had a great time. We talked, laughed and everything, but John seemed to just completly be concentrated on the movie only, and when he wasn't, he was texting with some of his other friends. He pretty much didn't talk to us all until one of his newer friends met up with us at the therter..
He has made all these new friends, and I'm fine with him having friends, but he seems to be forgetting Deanna and I. He also seems to be more arrogant, because all of these girls happen to be alot prettier, and more popular than us.
He's just seemed to change.. and I really miss the old John, who I used to be able to joke around with, not having to worry about confrontation.
And I'm not flipping out all of a sudden, either.. This has been an on-going thing, and I've talked to him about it a few times. I don't pin blame or anything, but he's still not getting that he's not being the kindest person lately..

Please tell me what I should do.. I know not to push him away or anything, but.. what do I do to get everything like it used to be?

Thank you in advance, Sam (link)
Hey,

I think right now that your friend is propably just going threw a phase which hopefully he will get out of but you just need to try to remind him of the good times you use to have. Also to show him that your not trying to hold him back why don't you ask if some of his new friends want to come along to show him that your supportive and you want to be friends with his friends to.


Maura


Hey,
last night my best friend called my cell phone at around 10 and told me that her mom has colon cancer. When I heard this i started crying because I know my friend and her mom are really close.
So my question is, what can I say to my friend? I mean i dont really even know how to react to this, its one of those things you never think will happen to you. Does anyone know what the chances that her mom will die are? Thank you so much
-marsbars (link)
Hey,

I myself have dealt with my friend's parent having cancer and I know how hard it can be on a person. But all he/she really needs is to know that you are there for her no matter how she feels. So let her know!

Maura


There's a really really REALLY hott guy in my class...let's call him...tim. Well, Tim is a really popular guy who is really nice and well, HOT :)...basically, if you looked at him, your heart would melt...lol. And, well i'm not a popular person..It's not like i'm a total geek or anything but i'm not the most popular girl in my class...im just normal...

ANYWAY...

At my friend's halloween b-day party, my friend told him "You and Em would make a great couple...you should ask her 2 dance"...
Tim didnt ask me or anything so I thought that he didnt like me....

Since then, he's talked 2 me a little bit and I even saw him looking at me a little bit...does this mean he likes me? I doubt this but what do you think? He broke up with his girlfriend a while ago but at the party i saw them dancing together...

Should I give up now while I'm ahead? Any advice would be GREAT!!!

Thanx!!!
*~*EM (13/f) (link)
Hey Em,

I know that it is hard to sometimes like a guy that you consider out of your reach but just remember although you may think he doesn't notice he might just. Also make it a point that everyday you talk to him a little and this will get him to notice you more!

Maura




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