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i've f*ed up my life
guys i dont know what to do, ive screwed up my life these past couple of weeks, im failing everything, my mom cries all the time and thinks im a disapointment, i've lost all of my friends, and i miss my old ones..
does anyone know what im talking about? anyone who can tell me how it worked out for you? how you got over that whole bad period in your life and moved on, started over again?
i know life is up & down, but it feels like lately it's been DOWN DOWN DOWN DOWN, VERY VERY DOWN. NOTHING BUT DOWN.
you know? and it feels like there's no way out, im failing everything, i cant make it right, its too late, ill end up not going to a university and end up on the street...family hating me, no friends.. it just feels so hopeless.
please.. if you know what im talking about, help me through it.
thannkks people. i pray for everyone of you, even though you're strangers :)
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First off im sorry to say but there's no such thing as a friend. I lost all of my friends about 3 years ago... and they never came back, nor did i make any new ones. Trust me life does go on. Try to enjoy life with the few good things you have. Everything will be ok eventually.
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ok. it's going to take alot of effort! and when I say alot i mean ALOT. try studding VERY hard, and if you still fail, ask the teachers if there's anything you can do for extra credit and if you can get a tutor to help in something that you really stink at.
then you need to figure where you went wrong (smoking pot for an example) and if your still doing it stop. now! it's going to be hard, but it's better than having no life at all.
Don't get mixed in with bad crouds.... if you were in a gang... there's really not much help for you... usually families shun you for being in a gang.
also, try to get back yor old friends and if they still dont take you back, try to get new friends.
do more around the house to help your parents and then try to get a tharapist.... it might help.. treat your parent's with alot of respect... thats all i can think of right now
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okay well first id like to let you know that I know exactly waht you're going through. All of my close friends that i've had for the past 3 years hate me, and dont talk to me over a boy. And I was very down for a couple of weeks, then I took up running. I'm not saying just go out and run, cause that might not be the thing for you. But i am saying to try to find something that relieves stress and kinda takes your mind off things..
that is a temporary fix however. Now You dont want to hear this, but this problem isnt going to go away over night, but in order to keep yourself going and not ending up in a dark hole, work hard on school, focus on that for a few weeks to try and get your grades up. You're not going to end up on teh street, and if you set your mind to it you can go to any university you want to. So keep your chin up through the grades, everythign will turn out okay.
Now for friends, i imagine your in highschool, so I'd like to let you know that friends is the most complicated subject of all time, in my opinion. I'm very sorry to hear that you've lost all of your friends, but reach out to those who you talk to. like aquaintances and be their friend. I promise if you need it they will be there for you. Start to eat lunch with them, and just talk to them in your classes and such, and they can become your new friends.
Now if you dont feel like making new friends, you can try to talk to your old friends and see whats up and whats happened. if it's anything you did, i would try apologizing. If this doesnt work, then the friends werent your true friends to begin with. Heres a quote for you, its one of my favorites...
"Best friends are the people who are there for you unconditionally. They're the people who never question you and support you no matter what the circumstances are. They are the people worth living for."
This is difficult to hear, but think of it this way. At least you are finding out now who your life long friends are going to be.
Your mom will be fixed as soon as you show her that you can focus on teh positive things in your life, and get your grades up.
Now keep your chin up, and dont worry. Everything will be okay, and remember. god is on your side.
Love always,
breanne
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Okay I know that it is hard to get through times like these but you just need to take itone step at a time maybe go in after school and ask for help from the teachers, give a lending hand around the house, and ask who use to be your closest friend to go to the movies. It may seem like the end just think of it as a new beginning! Try to take it one step at a time and everything should work out!
Hope I helped just hang in there it'll get better ask me if you have any more problems,
Maura
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