Ilove to help people with their problems, I uusally am good with female problems, but SOME men problems I can handle, like if it's a medical problem for males... I really can't help you in that category, but if it's like relation ship problems and stuff like that then I would be one of the best people to ask!
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Well I like this boy and we're going out hes 20 and im 16. (he just now turnt 20 on Dec, 12) but anyways my parents now my step dad and step mom knows to. they like him. but i'm worried about the age differnce. i really like this boy hes amazing hes such a sweetheart. he goes to chruch he dont cuss or drink or anything like that. is it such a bad thing that im dating him. we just started dating today. I really want to be with him. I think hes the right one.... please help me
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Well, if you think he's the right one then age really shouldn't matter. as long as you two don't ever try to "Get Physical" because that's illeagal. him being an adult and you being a minor. but yeah, age shouldn't matter. if your parents like him and he loves you and you love eachother then I think he's the right one.
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Well to make a long story as short as possible, I've been under stress lately. My mom doesn't talk to me, my sister moved out a while ago, and she just told me that she and her boyfriend are moving far away soon becasue he's joining the Army.
I love my boyfriend more than anything, we have a great relationship and I know he loves me. But Something has been wrong lately. Whenever I have to leave his house I get really depressed, and all these terrible thoughts come to my head, I can't stop them, like that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's not attracted to me. I can't stop these thoughts, and I wish they would go away. I know they're ridiculous and I can't take it anymore. It's happened so amny times before, I'll be doing something, and somethign he'll say or so will automatically make me think that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's annoyed with me. I'm so scraed to disagree with him or raise my voice or tell him not to do something because I'm terrified that he'll get mad, and it kills me to think that I could upset him. (I'm like that around most people, I hate thinking that I could have upset someone because I can't stand the idea that someone could be mad at me.) My boyfriend has this habit of pinching my butt and honking my boobs, and I really wish he wouldn't. I dunno how to tell him to stop though, I'd rather just be around him without all the pervy physical stuff.
I dunno whats wrong with me. Please give me advice, information, reassurance, anything!
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ok,I know you don't like this but you really are in a deep hole. ok,you look at yourself in the mirror and pretend the mirror version is him. tell him what you like and what you don't like him to do. keep practicing and then try it with a picture. out loud. then when you're sure you've got the right words to say to him take a deep breath, cry first if you want to. and then tell him. calmly and slowly. You'll feel much better after that.
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I am a 15 year old female and I constiantly get made fun of at school for my bra size. I am a 36C and I just need some advice on how to handle the harrasment I am getting from my peers at school. (link)
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well, I could say ignore them but that's not much help. well, I'll tell you what. my cousin had a "Small" bra size at your age. but by the time she turned 18 she had a bigger bra size then all of her class mates in collage. They're only harrasing you just to get a rise out of you. they're jerks and just think. one day, they'll be working FOR you. what goes around comes around. they'll get their turn of harrassment. just think. it doesn't matter the size of the bra, it's the size of the brain that counts.
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i like this girl, but she wont go out with me because of her religeon(she is a jehovas witness) my question is, what are te rules they follow on dating, and the opposite sex and is there a way around them? thanks in advance (link)
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have you done research on the internet about the religion? my dad used to be jahova witness, he's not anymore. he's cristian like me and my mom.
but seriously, you should think about asking her what exactly is wrong with dating in the jahova witness.
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okay. well me & ALOT of girls in my grade [& i mean it when i say alot, i mean the majority of the girls] think our science teacher is a total perv. he tries to touch our asses all the time & calls us things like "babe" or "hun". one time he even said "the only time ill get excited is when you have to give me CPR". he also coaches the girls basketball team & we think its only because he likes the girls. one of my friends said he was trying to look down her shirt [which was very low-cut & you could see alot if you know what i mean] once. he always makes remarks in ways where you can tell he is referring to our boobs or our asses. well, one of my friends went to the guidance counciler about this & told her all of what i told you. she said we needed evidence. so now the principle is getting involved. i really dont want to see him fired because he is really funny & he lets us listen to music in study hall but i think its best that he doesnt work at our school anymore. im also afraid that if i get into this & talk to the guidance counciler too, that he will hunt me down & rape me. im being totally serious. a couple of my friends think we are totally crazy & think we should drop this whole thing. we are trying to make them see what we are saying & its kind of working. did we do the right thing by telling the guidance counciler? i feel reallybad about the whole thing & i dont know if we should continue this. (link)
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lol i read this in a book once. it was KIND OF like this. but yes, you did do the right thing, but some schools don't want to do anything about it because it might get a little out of hand and they don't like that. but if you're feeling scared tell you're mother or father about what you told us and see if they can do something about it. they're your parents, they need to know. and if you've already told your parents and everyone else and you're STILL feeling unsafe then maybe you need to confront the police about it. or the child protective services. this is serious.
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i can get sort of nervous around guys. so i tend to stay away or just not really talk to them unless sometimes i just let my gaurd down and everything is fine but i still laugh nervously. the other day i was with this guy i like and i think it was okay but i still dont know. what do you think i should do about my nervousness???? (link)
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be yourself, don't try to act like someone your not. and if he doesn't like the REAL you then maybe he isn't worth it.
when you're going to talk to a guy you take a deep breath, and ask a few questions like, "What's your favorite type of music" stuff like that. Make a list of things you already know about him and then list (on a separate piece of paper) things you would LIKE to know about him. then, catch him when he's alone and try to STAY CALM. he should be mature enough to not laugh in your face if you tried to talk to him. and if you call him use the things you don't know about him and talk about that. ok?
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Please dont send me to any websites.
Okay, I missed my period last month and this month.
I really crave pickles with bagels & cream cheese, pickles and chocolate, pickles and crunchy peanut butter, and soda. And I HATE PICKLES!...
Also ..I weighed like 132 a few weeks ago and now Im like 150...wtf????
I dont know..I took 2 home tests.. but they were only $1.39...and they were really cheap...But they were (-)...My health ins hasnt kicked in so i cant goto the doctor. plus my family would kill me...
what do u think/
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well, my mother craved hotsauce. and SHE doesn't even like it... I dunno, did u have sex with anyone recently? maybe if you really want to find out. I'd go to your doctor and tell them this and see what they can do, and see if they can give you a good pregnant tester. if it still is negitive it could just be you're extreemly hungry... or if you're over 40 you "COULD" be going through THE CHANGE. but i thik that's very unlikely. maybe you should ask your doctor first.
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I need to find a poem that is title Crystal Meth? (link)
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look in google. type in poem the type in apostraphies "Crystel Meth"
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loli was trying to send that to you in response to your question (link)
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what response where you trying to send?
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http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=1168919041 (link)
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I'm sorry but what question? but thanks for the video!
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guys i dont know what to do, ive screwed up my life these past couple of weeks, im failing everything, my mom cries all the time and thinks im a disapointment, i've lost all of my friends, and i miss my old ones..
does anyone know what im talking about? anyone who can tell me how it worked out for you? how you got over that whole bad period in your life and moved on, started over again?
i know life is up & down, but it feels like lately it's been DOWN DOWN DOWN DOWN, VERY VERY DOWN. NOTHING BUT DOWN.
you know? and it feels like there's no way out, im failing everything, i cant make it right, its too late, ill end up not going to a university and end up on the street...family hating me, no friends.. it just feels so hopeless.
please.. if you know what im talking about, help me through it.
thannkks people. i pray for everyone of you, even though you're strangers :) (link)
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ok. it's going to take alot of effort! and when I say alot i mean ALOT. try studding VERY hard, and if you still fail, ask the teachers if there's anything you can do for extra credit and if you can get a tutor to help in something that you really stink at.
then you need to figure where you went wrong (smoking pot for an example) and if your still doing it stop. now! it's going to be hard, but it's better than having no life at all.
Don't get mixed in with bad crouds.... if you were in a gang... there's really not much help for you... usually families shun you for being in a gang.
also, try to get back yor old friends and if they still dont take you back, try to get new friends.
do more around the house to help your parents and then try to get a tharapist.... it might help.. treat your parent's with alot of respect... thats all i can think of right now
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Ok well I think I should start shaving my vagina, but I don't know how without it hurting. What exactly do you do? I imagine that it will hurt very badly and that it will itch a lot. Is there any way to do without it itching or hurting. Please someone tell me the full details.
THANK YOU! (link)
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actually, shaveing it is a REALLY bad idea, it will itch like mad for a few days. waxing is a really good technique... it may hurt a little, but only for a small while. it's worth it. AND it wont itch. but if your under 14 i suggest you dont do it.. ur too young
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I guess I'll start with some background information first. I'm 21, married, have two kids, working two jobs, and in college full time. I've been away from home and on my own for two years. My sister (I'll call Ann) is 25. She still lives with my parents. She doesn't go to college, and pays no bills.
So, why does my mom now so blatantly prefer Ann over me? I can have plans with my mom for weeks, but if Ann decideds wants mom for something, my plans will be canceled...even if I've put money into tickets or reservations.
I ignored it til today. I really need a new pair of shoes. The ones I'm wearing now are held together with tape, and my feet show through. I've been looking for new shoes for days, but I have funy-shaped feet and I can't find any. My mom promised me (now that I finally have extra money) that she would help me find shoes today. But, oops!, Ann wants ANOTHER purse and NEEDS my mom's opinion. I won't have time off again to find shoes until two weeks from now. Ann is free every morning (and knows I'm not).
Why does my mom always choose her over me? (link)
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you should try telling your mom how you feel and that you feel left out, and tell your sister how you feel to and how it kinda hurts inside
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hi, i suffer from panic attacks and recently my stomach has been knotting up. are there any safe exercises that i can do to destress myself? any advice would be gratefully received (link)
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maybe you should tell your doctor or mom, maybe you should als try pooping more, I've had something like a knot before... it was just a build up, I know it's true, but it's health!
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So basically I woke up this morning at 3:50 am && i threw up. && also this morning at 6 && 7 am.
This is the first time i have felt sick like this. I had sex a few weeks back && also on Thursday. I was wondering if you are pregnant && you have morning sickness, does it come day after day or just once && that's it, because i really doubt that i am pregnant but waking up throwing up this morning really scared me. Can someone help please.
P.s. i haven't had any other pregnancy "symptoms"
&& this is the first time i have thrown up like that. (link)
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you should try taking the pregnacy test JUST incase, OR it might be that you really are sick! I've thrown up like that before and I never had sex!
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so i thought i loved this one kid. but i know now i dont. and then i started liking this other guy but no i never did. he's sort of a jerk but then i met this guy and he's amazing but
he's gay =[
what should i do. i know i obviously wont have a chance with him but ugh. thanks for any advice (link)
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.... give up hope on ever getting with him. gays usually don't go back. but hey! theirs pleanty more fish in the sea! you'll find a great guy and he wont be gay!
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I have dyed dark brown hair thats a little past my shoulders and is super thick. (which i hate)
What are some websites that have just pictures of really punk/scene/emo hairstyles? You know edgy stuff. I don't really wanna change my hair that much since its so damaged from bleach and other crap. But I can flex on the legnth.
Thanks! (link)
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do what I do, let your hair down, and have a patch of hair over your one eye it gives you that sexy yet punk/emo look
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How do I get over being as self concious as I am? It's like I refuse to sign up for all the homecoming events or dance at the pep rallies. I'm really not a shy person, just a little unsure of myself. I constantly tell myself to stop caring, but at times I feel like I look majorly stupid. I usually could act like I'm fearless, but I'm tired of acting. I really want to be secure with all of my actions!! Is there any piece of advice that I could replay in my head that would make me stop with the concern? (link)
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listen to the little voice inside you, DO IT!! you can, it takes a little courage, but trust me, you'll feel better after you do it. don't back down! get in there! you're perfectly fine, no one will laugh at you! and if they do they're really jerks. try your best and the only time your a loser is if you don't try
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Ok I love desperate houswives and im addicted. I am recently in the mid east and i dont get abc or anything like that. But then i remembered that I could watch the whole episode online on abc.com but then when i went to go watch the season premere it said it was only available to viwers in the usa so now im hecka bummed! Does anyone know where I can download full lenghth episodes everyweek. And dont say limewirer cause my limewirer sucks and doesnt work. Well thanks in advance. (link)
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... youtube?
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in middle i checked out this book from my school library ireally liked. it was a poetry book and one of the poems was called "Dust" and another was something like "Why Nobody Pets the Lion at the Zoo". anyway, now i have to memorize a poem for one of my classes and i want to do one of htose ones since i liked those poems but i can't remember the name of the book. it had a really long name that ended with "a note to (or from) a friend" or something like that. i really wish i could remember the name so i could find it. i think it also had one called "Valentine" and one about superman in it. if you can help, please do. (link)
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If you can't find it then I would give up and find another one. one spacific poem is not the end of the world. try finding a new poem.
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