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nervousness around guys
i can get sort of nervous around guys. so i tend to stay away or just not really talk to them unless sometimes i just let my gaurd down and everything is fine but i still laugh nervously. the other day i was with this guy i like and i think it was okay but i still dont know. what do you think i should do about my nervousness????
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Dear nervous,
You shouldn't be nervous around guyz, if anything they should be nervous around you. Just don't think of all the negetive things that would happen if you say something wrong and think of all the positive things. Alot of guys like girls who are confident in themselves. Just think in your mind when you're walking down the halls that you are gorgeous and you will appear gorgeous. So just have a little more confidence when you confront a guy.
And I always find that little confidence when I look the guy stait into the eyes, it tells him that you're confident and it reassures yourself.
-Beanie
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be yourself, don't try to act like someone your not. and if he doesn't like the REAL you then maybe he isn't worth it.
when you're going to talk to a guy you take a deep breath, and ask a few questions like, "What's your favorite type of music" stuff like that. Make a list of things you already know about him and then list (on a separate piece of paper) things you would LIKE to know about him. then, catch him when he's alone and try to STAY CALM. he should be mature enough to not laugh in your face if you tried to talk to him. and if you call him use the things you don't know about him and talk about that. ok?
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Heellow. I totally understand. Most girls are usually nervous around guys they like. If they're not, there's something wrong with them. But why be so nervous around all guys? It's alright to be nervous around the guy you like though but hey...cool it man...there's no need to be so self conscious around all the guys.
Most guys don't really study you from top to toe like a specimen on microscope. Just act like yourself and make yourself comfortable around them.
Before you go out, make sure you look good and after that, forget bout how you look and just concentrate on what your guy friends have to tell you and heck-care bout worrying how you look like or behave in front of them. Just listen attentively to them and yea, let your guard down baby! Don't worry so much bout it man. Enjoy yourself with no constraints. Keep practicing that and you'll find that you'll stop being self conscious and nervous.
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It's okay to be nervous around guys. It's just a reaction. Just act cool and forget about your nervousness. Think about something else and don't try to impress them either. Just relax. Good luck!
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It is hard to act casually around a guy that you like. If you find yourself running out of things to talk about start asking questions about them. (everyone loves to talk about themselves) then try to relate to it with a story of your own and pretty soon you will have a full blown conversation going. About the nervousness, remind yourself that they are normal people and if they are talking to you that means they want to not that they feel obligated to do so.
good luck!
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it is nomal to be nervous around boy especially the ones you like, but as soon as you start talking to him you will find that you have something in common with him,than you will forget all about your nervousness and start being yourself with him.this things takes time but as time go on i am sure your nervouness will go away.
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