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ok so i really want this shirt and cant find it anywhere!! some one help
I dont know if this like works but try (:
http://weheartit.com/entry/4912779
www.polyvore.com is an awesome website that allows you to browse through tons of clothes sold online. I've tried researching on the site for that particular Misfit shirt. It appears it's a typical band shirt altered. The sleeves are cut off & the neckline is trimmed. Have you tried contacting the person who posted that photo?
my boyfriend is annoying..
he's a year younger than me (i'm 18) and he's only been in 1 relationship prior to me. i honestly feel like i have to teach him everything. how to act, what to say, what to expect blah blah blah..
i'm a huge feminist. i believe that women can pay for their own things and i dont like getting anything without me earning it..
he always buys me things. no matter what it is. candy, water, pencil, book.. at first it was sweet, but now its to the point where i want to yell at his face like "seriously stop! i can buy stuff for myself. i dont need to depend on you for money" i've tried talking to him about it once but he keeps doing it..
another thing that irritates me about him is that he wont accept the fact that i have personal stuff that i dont want to tell him about. like just now.. he asked me what i'm doing tomorrow and i said just personal stuff. not a big deal. none of his business. then he starts accusing me of lying. asking if another guy is involved. i tell him the truth- no. i'm not hiding anything from him. its personal and i prefer not to share it with him.. he still wont leave it alone. then he starts b*tching me out about hiding things from him and how he has to know these things.. i b*tched him back out saying "its my life. you dont need to know every single thing that happens. there are things that i want to keep to myself. and this is one of them. its nothing bad. i'm not cheating on you. i'm not doing anything bad. its just something i dont want to share with you. so leave it alone." and he just wont stop bugging me about it.
its gotten so bad to the point where i told him "when you finally learn how to respect me and treat me right- come talk to me. because right now you're acting like an overcontrolling jackass"
i just dont know what to do anymore. we have been dating for about 3 months and he's very sweet sometimes and i like him a lot, but there are times when i just want to yell at his face and cry because he is so annoying and causes a lot of drama and fights..
what do i do? everytime we try to talk about it, we end up fighting. help!!
You already know what the answer is...the best thing that you can do is introduce him to someone else. You seem better off in a solitary lifestyle. You seem too independant to be in a relationship, especially w/ young hopeless romantic. Why attempt to date when you're not ready to include someone in your life? You sound like a very strong woman. Was this a relationship founded on sex? Three months isn't very long to be in a serious relationship...if you're not ready to take the next step w/ him by working on your communication (and respect) then it's time to move on.
Best of luck Chicka.
last year this kid that was two years ounger than me liked me. he asked me out, and i immidiatley said no because i thought my riends would laugh at me and call me a freak or something, that and i thought he was too young for me. So, this year, ive changged alot, and ive learned to not let what people think get in your way. so we recently hung out and ic ame to find he was funny and sweet. But he has a "girlfriend" (that he denies, becuase i think he still likes me). Thing is i almost nevr see him, and we go to different schools, but when we do see eachother, you know that feeling that i know we both feel. But there are obvious problems. what do i do?!
keep it strictly platonic. Don't bring up the subject of liking him unless you two can talk about it casually. You don't want to create a love triangle for this lad & make yourself miserable. There's no harm in spending time w/ him. Take advantage of hangingout w/ him. Depending on how close he is w/ you vs his girlfriend, he will decide whether he wants to pursue something w/ you. It'll take a few months, but it's impariative that you stay patient.
Good Luck :0)
ok so my name is brittany and i am 13.. my bestfriends name is kayla and she is 13 as well.. the guy she is datings name is grey and he is 16. ok well she said she is inlove with him and he said he is inlove with her.. but what they both dont know is im inlove with him. i cant get him out of my head and i feel so much for him... they have been going out now for about 2 months and havent even had one fight yet. now every site i go on to get advice about this gives me the same answer.. like "you have to move on to other guys" "your to young for him anyway" "healing takes time" i dont want to tell him that i like him cause i dont want to get shot down. and i love kayla to death and dont want to hurt her.. but i CANT help my feelings.. do you think they will be together for a long time.. like get married? knowing that they are young ..do you think they will move on to other people? i REALLY need to know what i should do.. do i have a chance with him at all? like if i cry and tell him or if i cry in the rain and tell him then i run off... do you think i have a chance? i dont think i do at all... I REALLY NEED ADVICE
I really doubt that your best friend will marry this guy.Two months isn't a long time. If they aren't fighting that shows that they are mature. For a 13 year old to be dating a 16 year old is a big difference. If they are comfortable w/ one another & respect is given then I have no place to judge. You are in a extremely tough situation. You mustn't tell any of them how you feel. If you value your friendship then don't tell your best friend because it will only make her feel insecure. You'll be putting her in a situation where she'll have to sacrifce her happiness or your's. Don't tell the guy because he'll either go back & tell your friend, he'll feel weird hanging around you or you'll stroke his ego (making him feel like he has power over you).
I was head over heels for my best friend's (in high school) boyfriend. I made the mistake of telling her, which then led to accusations & strain on our friendship. I thought the two of them were going to get married. You can never make a call like that because lots of things happen before you even hit your twenties. Opinions change, you learn new things. You learn what you like in a person & what you don't like. I never told her boyfriend, but 6 years later I did & I found out that he liked me to. The timing was perfect because we were both available. My advice to you is, you can't do anything about it now, but hope that he's available in a few years (don't wait immidiately after your best friend breaks up w/ him. That's disrespectful towards your friend.)
Hang in there. Journalling or venting to another friend is going to be a common thing right now.
Hi, i am 14 and i have just started high school two weeks ago. I am in a new school, and only a few of my friends are here with me. I have some new good friends and i know my way my around the school. I have a problem though. In my math and drama class, i only know about two people. Everyone else in the class is friends with eachother and hang amongst themselves. My friend and I are alone, while everyone else is in their groups, talking and everything. We would try and sit and meet them, but they are not good people. Almost all the girls are bitches and the boys, well their always talking about sports or girls. I dont know, we seem like such loners in the class, but we really dont want to be involved with bad people, we are way smarter then that. That is in my drama class. Now, in my math class, i know about two people but they sit ahead of me and i sit around the back like a loner while everyone sits and talks with their old friends. Please, i need some adivce! What should i do? Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you
From experience I know that not talking to anyone in class during a social period can feel really akward. Why bother trying to put forth the effort of impressing these people? What are you going to gain from it? I use to occupy my time drawing or writting. What was interesting was that when I was wrapped in my own little world someone always asked me what I was doing. I'd answer & it always led to a conversation.
How do you show someone that you love and care about them, in a way that they will appreciate, when they don't want you to?
My ex broke up with me. At first I thought I wanted to date her again. Okay, maybe I do. But I later discovered it was more than that. It was about my inability to express my love to her in a way that she would appreciate. This is what causes the heartache. The dating is just an added bonus to the aspect of reciprical love. So know then, the question becomes deeper than how do I get my ex back. Instead it is how do I show her that I still care about her, without irking her more. In the end it seems that everything you do in the beginning is wrong. I.E. Writing lots of corny letters, becomes harrasment after a breakup. Sending gifts, are no longer seen as expressions of love, but as trying to buy love. And showing up unnannounced on the doorstep, is seen as creepy, instead of simply surprising. Why is this? And furthermore, on the deeper note, how do I show my care to her, when she doesn't want me to?
I first want to apologise for answering this question very late. I'm not sure if this will be any help to you now, but it never hurts to share one's opinion.
When you are in a relationship w/ someone you get accustomed to certain things. When you breakup it's hard to get use to the fact that things can't be the way the were. The only way can show that you truelly care about her is not spending time w/ her during the first two weeks of the breakup. This will give her the space she's needing (the one who does the breaking up generally are the ones who just need time be independant). This will also give you time to "detox". Those couple of weeks will feel like you are going through rehab. You will have withdrawls & will crave to be w/ her. You'll feel miserable, but in the end you will thank yourself for not getting in contact w/ her because you have avoided saying anything that will jepordise a chance of staying close. Depending on the reason of the breakup, you can try to talk to each other. Remain friends, show her you have a life. If you become unavailable to her this will show her that you are strong & stable...you don't need someone to validate your life. If you care about her let her know by listening to what she says. If you two don't get back together, use that as a chance to get some feed back as to why. What is it about you that she pushed away. A platonic conversation relaxes the both of you & you'll find yourselves a bit more content.
Since this advice is passed due I am curious to know how you handled the situation. Did you two get back together or did you go your seperate ways? Were you able to remain friends? Were words shared fired & you can't speak let alone look at each other? Just remember what ever happened, it happened for a reason.
How would I go about getting my parents to get me a puppy (a toy/miniature one)
I've been asking them for years (it's been 9-ish years now, I'm 16) yet they think up some excuse since my brother neglected his cat :(.
You will need to prove to your parents that you are more responsible then your brother & ready to take care of a living creature. Telling them wont do anything. Negotiate w/ your parents. See if they will allow you to have a gold fish or hampster. If you can show them that you are able to take care of that creature then make an agreement that at a certain date you can have a small dog. Be aware that owning a dog is a HUGE responsibility, it's not like owning a cat or any other animal. A dog (no matter the size) is like a taking care of child. Their always needing something. Though you may not be carrying the finacial responsibilities, your parents will. Buying a pure breed is exspensive, let's not forget buying the dog bedding, food, license, accessories, shots & any other vet treatments.
Take into consideration & really listen to what your parents "excusses" are. If you feel they are being unfair, negatiate. That's all a kid has when it comes to convincing an adult.
Best of Luck!
thank you
your welcome :0)
soo i have this friend..i like her alot but shes soo shy all the time. and i was recently talking to this guy from her school and he said that she was actually kind of a loser because she never talked to anyone. whenever she does talk, she's always kind of awkward and i can't really have a good conversation with her without some awkwardness in it. if you get wat i mean!? she would be likeee such a fun person if she got a better personality.. how can i help her so she can make more friends at school and such?
Typically girls are shy because of fear. She's probably afraid to be herself because she doesn't want to be judged. People are talking crap about her yet she hasn't done anything. That's very harsh of your friend to title her a loser just because she lacks confidence. It's comments like that that will make a girl over analyse herself & forget her true nature.
If you like this girl, dismiss that comment & focus on finding the root of her shyness. You might unlock something that this girl has never been able to share. Your friendship will grow. She will grow to trust you. You have to be firm & be there for her...a pillar...stick up for her, listen to her. The key to start helping someone get out of their shell is to embark in fun activities. It'll be frustrating in the begining because she will resist, but if you are head strong & keep encouraging her she will in time loosen up.
hey girls again....13/f...."canadian"...i kinda have a crush on this guy...hes really good-looking but i dont know how to start a converstaion! Hes been in my school for 2 years and ive seen him around everywhere so it would be really weird if i just went up to him and said "hi, whats your name?"...im not the shy type i just dont know how to start a converstaion with him! also,im not really friends with any of his friends, just one of my good friends SOMETIMES hangs out with him...how should i start the convo?? thanks soo much
Nerves get in the way of a good love story. Literally stop day-dreaming about this guy, that way it's easier for you to be casual if you run into him. You don't know him, he doesn't know you...you have nothing to lose. If you wipe him from innocent day-dreaming, your nerves will calm & you'll find it easier to approach him. It seems your afraid because your wanting to meet him w/ intentions...that's a stomach twister.
So you know someone that knows him...that's great. You can work this to your advantage. I'll need a bit more details to help you have a great meeting, but remember it's all about timing & confidance.
If you're daring you can say to him in passing something really flirtatious.
I like you're work. I hope to be a good advie giver as you. :)
With time & life experience you will.
i went out with this boy and he broke up with me after three dayz i feel so crush ed he also told 1 of is friends" i only went out with her because she liked me" my feelings are so hurt right now i dont know wut i should do he said he broke up with me because it just was not working out i need help
A crush will do just that "crush you". It sounds like the boy is immature, he's probably still trying to figure out the new world of hormones. Guys will say or do something that to them may seem noble, but from a female view can be hurtful. In this case, the guy originally didn't think of asking you out until you initiated the act. It was in your favor that he agreed. Not many girls even get that chance.
What you need to do now is not let him know that this is getting the best of you. You can easily do that by keeping a smile on your face (especially when he's around). Focus your attention into other things you love. This is important because you need to keep your mind off this guy in order to get over him. Most importantly, you need to remind yourself everyday that you're better then him. Your confidence alone makes you a sexy lady.
Is it illegal in EVERY state to be asked your hair color or your weight on your State I.D. and Drivers License? I am for certain that it is illegal in some states, but is it an American law that every state must follow?
Each state has an established set of laws seperate from federal (but most comply with federal)I'm not aware of it being illegal to having such info on an ID. I know the Flordia driver's license doesn't list the individual's hair color or weight. My first assumption would be that both can easily change. It is unlawful to have incorrect information on an ID (fraud). Search online under your state regulations, but I highly doubt it's every state.
Hey Ive been hearing some rumors that the legal driving age has changed in Florida (Where I live) Its supost to be 16 for liscense and 15 for permit like usual but my friend said that she herd that they changed the legal age for liscences to 18. Is that true? I really need to know because I will be planning on getting a date to get my liscence thanks!!
Keep in mind that it's been an unspoken tradition to scare teenagers into thinking they can't get their license. In the state of Florida "Every person under 18 years old MUST hold a Learner’s License for one year – there are NO exceptions to this law.
No person may drive alone with a Learner’s License – regardless of age." ~(http://www.hsmv.state.fl.us/ddl/teendriv.html)
What this means is that if you're 16, that no longer means you can show up to the DMV & take the driving course to get your actual license. If you've never had a learners permit (& your younger then 18) then by law you have to have your restricted before getting the real thing.
The youngest age to get a learners permit is 15 years old. Technically your friend isn't correct because if a 15 year old were to get their learners permit then by their 16th birthday they can get their drivers licenses....it's all about timing.
ok this is prolly a stupid question.
but what are some REALLY good kissing tips?
i need ta know pretty quickly.
thanks soo much. anything will help.
Make sure your breath is always fresh. Brush your teeth as needed & keep mints. Don't chew gum because the saliva creates bacteria & produces bad breath. When you go into kiss keep contact until the final moment. This will build anticapation & both your addrinalins will be going. There's many different ways to kiss. I would recommend buying the book 'The Art of Kissing'. by William Cane
I am thinking about taking a girl i like to the Panic! at the Disco concert coming to Charlotte, NC. I've been to concerts before, but never been to a concert date like with a girl. How do these work out? Could I have any tips on how to make this date successful?
If you know that this girl will enjoy going to the concert you shouldn't be sweating bullets. It's a casual affair. Just approach the girl when it's convienant. Tell her that you have tickets & is it possible if she could go with you. There shouldn't be any pressure. A date can be viewed as anything, it's to what level of intamicy you want to bring to it. going to a concert is perfect because you will be spending time together & getting to know one another. After the event is over, see about going to a Denny's or some kind of diner where the two of you can actually carry a full conversation. If she decides to buy a soda...pick up the check without even asking. It's the chivary that wont go unnoticed. You don't have to announce that the two of you going on a date is a date, unless you need that title.
how do you prove love to someone you love?
you shouldn't have to PROVE that you love someone. True love is an act that abides by it's own. If you are trying to get someone's attention & show them how you feel about them then sure, gifts & such will due the trick.
Whatever you do for love should not be done for a reward it should be done out of pure happiness. Those types of acts will not be forgotten because they will be memories imprinted on both your hearts. If you truely love someone you will be strong for them when really you're falling apart.
ok so theres this girl in one of my classes and i think shes beautiful and i like her but i no if i were to ask her out that she would say no. so what should i do?
P.s. im a little over weight to just to let you know
your lack of confidence is what's going to turn a girl off. Do your friends think your funny? If you can make the girl laugh then there's your ticket to flirting. You need to first be able to approach her because how are you two going to be friends let alone boyfriend/girlfriend.
Weight shouldn't be an issue, unless the girl is shallow. If you address that you are insecure with how you look that will reflect back & again that will destroy your chances.
If you ever get flustered around her, take a mental deep breath & think of her as if she was one of your fellow buddies. Keep in mind the female always wants what she can't get. If you throw all your feelings out to her in one shot then there's nothing for her to chase.
Best of luck
hey iam 17 and iam going to universal studios in october and my mom said i could go since my cousin is taking me,but she said i couldn't ride any of the rides while iam there.I mean what's the point of even going if i can't ride the rides that's the whole point of even going she treats me like iam a baby but iam not how can i convince my mom to let me ride some of the rides thankyou.
You're going in October? You & your cousins could go to Halloween Horror Nights in the evening? At least then there's more to do then rides.
Universal Studios only has one rollercoaster & that's the mummy. Islands of Adventures is where the rollercoasters are. Have you asked your mom why she doesn't want you to go on anything? Find out the reasons. That's really where you'll find your answers too.
Like so many other teenage girls, I want to be a model or movie star.
I was wondering how to get into either buisinesses, and tips on how to be good. Also, how can I convince my parents to let me audition if i do find something?? How do I know if I am good enough?? Or pretty enough?? How do I audition??HELP!!!
THANK YOU!! f/13
Being that you're only 13 years old you need to think about how much you want to be dedicated as a career vs a hobby. Your parents number one concern is going to be your education. Starting out your best thing is community theater. This will help you build a resume & perfect your talent.
The entertainment business is nothing but rejection. You will need to form a solid core for yourself. You need to be able to walk into a room & think you own it...the confidence is what will drive as much as talent.
Modeling is a bit simpler (depending on what style modeling you want to get into) to start being that your young. You will need a portfolio. This is a compulation of photos (professional looking, not snap shots taken around the house)that could be used for marketing. If you can't afford to hire a photographer, then find someone you know who's how to take really good pictures. There's a great website out: www.modelmayhem.com
It's set up like myspace.com, it's free & intended for serious models looking for work.
Both fields you should get a headshot. Keep your eyes open for opportunites through department stores (modeling their clothes). DO NOT accept any offers from people that say they can help you get work if you pay them & certainly do not travel to an unfamiliar place without checking the background of the business.
A note to always remember if in the future you decide to get an agent (not needed until you're wanting to go on TV shows or movies) a real licenced agent will not see any profits until your 1st paycheck. You don't pay any money up front. There are loopholes through that & it's usually regarding photoshoots. However that can be avoided too.
Think small & work your way. Best of luck!