i went out with this boy and he broke up with me after three dayz i feel so crush ed he also told 1 of is friends" i only went out with her because she liked me" my feelings are so hurt right now i dont know wut i should do he said he broke up with me because it just was not working out i need help
LagunaBabe answered Friday September 29 2006, 9:57 pm: Look, this guy is not even worth being hurt over, he's really not. If that's the only reason he went out with you, then consider yourself lucky. For finding out now, instead of later. Because that really shows what kind of person he is, he made you believe he liked you, then broke your heart. When he could have just been honest with you. Trust me, there are some really good guys out there waiting. Especially, better than him that will treat you right. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
linearfilm answered Friday September 29 2006, 8:59 pm: A crush will do just that "crush you". It sounds like the boy is immature, he's probably still trying to figure out the new world of hormones. Guys will say or do something that to them may seem noble, but from a female view can be hurtful. In this case, the guy originally didn't think of asking you out until you initiated the act. It was in your favor that he agreed. Not many girls even get that chance.
What you need to do now is not let him know that this is getting the best of you. You can easily do that by keeping a smile on your face (especially when he's around). Focus your attention into other things you love. This is important because you need to keep your mind off this guy in order to get over him. Most importantly, you need to remind yourself everyday that you're better then him. Your confidence alone makes you a sexy lady. [ linearfilm's advice column | Ask linearfilm A Question ]
cougargurlie answered Friday September 29 2006, 8:27 pm: If he broke up with you he is the one with the problem not you. He probably wants you to feel bad so don't let him get to you. If he broke up with you that fast he is not thinking becuse he didn't even get a chance to know more about you. So it's not your fault and you should'nt be sad. You will be better off with out him.
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