hi
im 14 years old..& yess a girl((hence the MISShelpful))
basically im on this site to use some of my free time helping other ppl figure out their problems.
usually i can relate & thats how i give my advice.
so..ask me whatever, whenever :]
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alright, so first off i'll say i'm 13/f and I'm turning 14 in about 2 weeks. My best friend's birthday is in January, last year she didn't have a birthday party because her mom said she was too old and mature for birthday partys... well, lets say that I still want to be a kid and still throw birthday partys. I just thought about some ideas that I could have for the party. Here they are-
Hollywood theme-
everyone dresses up as a celebrity, then we have a red carpet at home where each person walks down and then they have to do what the celebrity does (example- christina aguilera- that person would have to sing) and then later do a craft project, we take cement and shape it into a star, then have each person put their hand and foot prints in, and also their signature, then let it dry and then they can keep it. Pretty fun huh?
well my question is... does this idea sound too childish? and are 14 year olds still allowed to have birthday partys? I really dont want my friends to go home after this party, saying "Oh my gosh, she threw a party that 7 year olds would!" I want a party that makes my friends say "WOW! That was amazing!" but still think I'm not childish.
oh yeah, and another idea was to split everybody into teams, then tye-dye T-shirts with team names, then play night games that have teams included... then when everybody is cold, we make a bon-fire and make 'smores. Does that seem too childish to you people for a 14 year old??????
THANK YOU FOR TAKING YOUR TIME TO READ THIS... REMEMBER, MY BIRTHDAY PARTY WILL BE IN 2 WEEKS, SO I SHOULD HAVE SOME IDEAS SOON! (link)
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hah. i am 14 years old..and mabey im just a big dork but all of your ideas sound awesome. i mean everyone likes a good party and mabey you could do something that mixes things up. lyk for exaple you could do the hollywood theme party but also include like a 'dance' portion where everyone ((guys & girls)) just dance & chill. otherwise i say go for it!! and in case yer still searching fer a last minute idea, just ask around some of yer friends and see what they are up for. im sure that all of yer ideas combined will result in a great party.
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This might be long, but please read and help. My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. He was my first real boyfriend and we learned so much from eachother. I lost my virginity to him, and we had more great times than bad. He said the relationship wasn't the same and needed to start focusing on himself. It was a complete shock to my heart. We hadn't talked for weeks, but finally I made the first move and called him. I wanted to just catch up and see if maybe we could be friends. He seemed up for it and we hung out together. The only thing he seemed to want was sex and he was just being mean to me. He was never like that before. I held my own, but I'm even more hurt. I just can't seem to let him go no matter what. I wake up depressed and go to bed depressed. I can't believe that this boy has control over my happiness. Is there anyway you can be friends with someone you had a really intense relationship with? How do I even go about moving on? Nothing is working. (link)
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first of all, im sry that yer in this situation at all. i rlly am :(
but you need to kno this, guys are not worth it. i have had my feelings messed up ovr a guy & he never knew or seemed to care..it hurt, and it took time BUT im in a new relationship now and happier than ever. im guessing yer a teen, and us teens go thro a lot. & tho yer ex is acting lyk a jerk im guessing hes confused too. but that still doesn't give him the rite to treat you lyk shit.
i guess what im TRYING to get at is that I KNO YER CONFUSED AND STILL HAVE FEELINGS FER HIM,BUT, YOU HAVE TO TRY TO MOVE ON ..it'll take time and will be had defintitly, but in the end you'll find someone better and be happy that you did
xoxo
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Hi. im currently trying to put togeather a band. i kno just about everyone is trying to do this these days but this has been a dream of mine forever. how do you suggest i go about doing this? (link)
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hmm.its funny you asked this!one of my close friends has just made a band.the way she went about doing it was meeting new ppl, ones she knew specifically played instruments and was totally blunt about it. she went rite up, and asked. of course hanging out before hand would help too! if you do this you'll meet cool new ppl and have yer dream band! good luck!
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I don't know what to do and I can't cope so please help me if you can...
The truth is...nobody likes me. I'm not saying that in a 'feeling sorry for myself' way. It's fact. I work in an office where I overhear people bitching about me, where people lie about me and where they arrange nights out and I'm the only one not invited.
I can't do anything about it really because none of it can be proven and my Manager already believes the lies that have gone round about me because he's confronted me about them. There's nobody above him I can go to and I can't leave because I need the money and having looked around, I know I can't get the same anywhere else.
I can't seem to do anything right. Work is bad enough. I try SO hard and have done hours and hours of overtime, which I even refused to accept payment for because of personal reasons but I still mistakes. Constantly.
To make matters worse, I'm a complete failure in all other aspects of my life. I can't keep our home clean. I can't do a whole host of other things I should be able to do and the only things I ever really work at, I fail at and I'm so fed up of being such a loser and a failure that all I can seem to do is cry right now and not stop.
My boyfriend tries so hard to help me cope but I feel so miserable all the time and there's nothing anyone can do because the problem is with ME.
So, I guess my question is, how can I be happier? How can I stop feeling so bad about everything I seem to suck at?? And how do I find people who care about me, because other than my boyfriend, I don't think anyone does. (link)
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Consider joining a group where you can talk to others who feel the same way as you. Also regarding the office thing try to find yer faults (im prtty sure there aren't THAT many) and try to work on correcting them. Rememeber that you are loved and yer family and friends are ready to talk to you when you are ready and to give you advice!
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ok I'm really confused right now, i Dont know what to do right now. I like my boyfreind brandon, but he can be a huge asshole. he tells me what and what not to do, he critisizes me, and even yells at me, plus he has problems of his own and i can't deal with him and his problems AND my problems alltogether.he also hides things from me, lies to me, and sneaks about everything. I can't ever beleive him. all my freinds say i should dump him, but i still like and care for him. plus he's not ALL bad. i really enjoy being with him. There's also a guy named Russell who seems to be interested in me, and ditto for me. Me and him talk alot on the phone, and he helps me with alot of problems, and I like him too, but i dont want to leave brandon then go out with russell right after, but if i wait for a while then break up with brandon, then russell gets a girlfreind and loses interest in me, then that would SUCK ASS TOTALLY. i dont know what i should do. should i break up with my boyfreind, or give him 1 last chance. If i DO give him 1 more chance, then this will be the 3rd chance i have given him, and im TIRED of playing games with him. what the hell should i do?? (link)
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This rlly sounds lyk a problem. All i can tell you is that you need to decide weather your relationship with brandon is worth it. You say you have a good time with him, well does he spend more time making you happy or making you angry,hurt, or confused. I say think abou this and do what yer gut tells you. And if this Russell you mention is worth it he'll wait until yer ready to get into another relationship.Good Luck!
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