last year this kid that was two years ounger than me liked me. he asked me out, and i immidiatley said no because i thought my riends would laugh at me and call me a freak or something, that and i thought he was too young for me. So, this year, ive changged alot, and ive learned to not let what people think get in your way. so we recently hung out and ic ame to find he was funny and sweet. But he has a "girlfriend" (that he denies, becuase i think he still likes me). Thing is i almost nevr see him, and we go to different schools, but when we do see eachother, you know that feeling that i know we both feel. But there are obvious problems. what do i do?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? linearfilm answered Monday November 26 2007, 10:00 pm: keep it strictly platonic. Don't bring up the subject of liking him unless you two can talk about it casually. You don't want to create a love triangle for this lad & make yourself miserable. There's no harm in spending time w/ him. Take advantage of hangingout w/ him. Depending on how close he is w/ you vs his girlfriend, he will decide whether he wants to pursue something w/ you. It'll take a few months, but it's impariative that you stay patient.
olivia13 answered Monday November 26 2007, 9:54 pm: if you really like this guy then try talking to him. even though you guys have major differences and it could be hard, you guys could probably get through it. i'm sure if he still really has feelings for you then he won't mind changing up a few things to spend time with you. like i said, just have a heart to heart with this guy and who knows what will happen. hope i might have helped.
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