Well I like this boy and we're going out hes 20 and im 16. (he just now turnt 20 on Dec, 12) but anyways my parents now my step dad and step mom knows to. they like him. but i'm worried about the age differnce. i really like this boy hes amazing hes such a sweetheart. he goes to chruch he dont cuss or drink or anything like that. is it such a bad thing that im dating him. we just started dating today. I really want to be with him. I think hes the right one.... please help me
-confused
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HypnotizexMe answered Tuesday December 19 2006, 12:09 pm: i personally dont think age difference amtters. As long as you are happy about it, and that u love him, i think its fine =] 20 and 16 arent that much of an age difference. If this is a 12 year old and a 16 year old, it would not really work.. but i think yall would be fine. If your parents liek him, and YOU like him, go for it!! Hope it helped =] good luck
jenn-hansen answered Tuesday December 19 2006, 12:41 am: Dear Confused,
I just recently got out of a relationship with an over 20 year age difference. I don't think that there is anything wrong with an age difference, based on your personalities. I do not know either of you...but, I am willing to bet that you are more mature for your age because your thoughts tend to go for what is important, ie...church, marriage, and a solid relationship. I would not let the age difference bother you, don't listen to what other people say. Just tell them how you feel about this guy, and they should eventually understand. I hope this helped.
Geneva answered Monday December 18 2006, 10:45 pm: Well, if you think he's the right one then age really shouldn't matter. as long as you two don't ever try to "Get Physical" because that's illeagal. him being an adult and you being a minor. but yeah, age shouldn't matter. if your parents like him and he loves you and you love eachother then I think he's the right one. [ Geneva's advice column | Ask Geneva A Question ]
xo_minela answered Monday December 18 2006, 10:39 pm: Oh my god, Trust me It`s perfectly fine for you and him to go out! 4 years is nothing big at all, because as you`ve probably heard the guy should be about 3 years older, but sometimes girls marry guys that are younger and that`s perfectly fine too. When you really like someone number`s don`t matter. My dad`s 5 year`s older than my mom & they are very in love with eachother. =) 4 years is truly not a big deal. There`s people who marry that have a 8 year diffrence in their age, but they don`t care because they love eachother, nothing but loving eachother matters in a relationship! Good Luck & I wish you 2 the best! =)) ♥ ♥ [ xo_minela's advice column | Ask xo_minela A Question ]
massieblockglu answered Monday December 18 2006, 10:38 pm: Ok, I'm only 13, so I don't know. But I think as you grow older, age difference don't matter that much anymore. So if he's The One. It would be nice. And it's not such a big difference. My friend's parents have an 8 year age difference. [ massieblockglu's advice column | Ask massieblockglu A Question ]
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