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E-mail: jenn-hansen@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: DeWitt, IA
Occupation: Nanny
Age: 20
MSN: jenn-hansen
Member Since: December 19, 2006
Answers: 58
Last Update: March 8, 2007
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the first time was the only time lubrication was involved. and the other nights i wasnt really all that turned on. but i mean i dont know. so i thought it might be soreness but i wanted everyone elses advice. one girl said i was doing it to much considerin i had juss lost it and done it twice the first night and 3 the second. what do u think? and whats some good ways i could reccomend to my boyfriend to get me turned on more do u know? (link)
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Usually the problem with women not having enough lubrication is because the man is so sexually aroused that he finishs before she as even really begun. The trick is to pleasure him first, say oral sex, and then after he is statisfied you have another 20 minutes (approx.) before he has another erection. This should give you plenty of time to before sexually aroused and lubricated. Also, let him know what you like. Vocalize in simple terms, lead him one way or moan when he is on a spot you really enjoy. I don't think that sex 2 and 3 times is too much, but it depends on the person. If you are uncomfortable, don't do it...that is the bottom line. Women in general tend to like kissing, etc. so a trick is to watch tv or some activity and during commercials,or breaks, hard core make-out. Making sure to stop when the show returns. This heightens your sexual arousal and leaves you wanting more. This might also help with your arousal, specifically lubrication. I hope this helps. Let me know, ask away.
Jenn
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hi ummmm i wanted to ask you a question about sex and i need advice as soon as possiable. okay so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time march the 5th of this year. and we did it twice that night. okay well a day later we did it three times. well its still hurting me. and bad too. is that normal? what could be wrong? (link)
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I am not sure if is normal, but I wouldn't be too worried about it. The first time that you have sex there is some tearing involved and that takes some time to heal. Especially because you had sex two days in a row. I would suggest that you take it easy for a couple days, and if it is not better go to the doctor. Try some ibprofen, should help. When you go to have sex again work your way up to it, so that you do not aggrevate the hymen. Also, make sure there is a lot of lubrication. You can get something like ky jelly at a local drug store. I hope this helps let me know if you want more information.
Jenn
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How many sit ups should you do a day and when should you do them (be very specific). And when you do them, do you just do them going up and down really fast or do you bend down and like wait for a few seconds and then get up and repeat? (link)
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I don't really know the answer to what time of day, but I do know that a sit-up burns about 1 calorie each. So, lets say you want to lose weight, probably around 2000 calories burned (based on your diet) so base your exercise around that. You want to do the sit-ups slowly and allow the muscles to slowly contract and release. Hope this helps.
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i have little zits on my chest between my boobs, what can i do to get rid of them?
i need them gone by saturday cause i have a pool party adn im nevous to be in a bathing suit.
help? (link)
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Yes, pop the zit and then use crushed asprin (and a little water) and rub it in. The asprin releaves some of the discomfort and fixes the zit. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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is there anything i can find around my house to maybe get rid of my zits and make them stay gone!!
they keep coming back and more of them then i had before. I wash my face all the time to try and stop this insane stuff!
please if you have any idea how to stop them or get rid of the majority of them tell me!!
is there anything around my house?? (link)
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Yes, pop the zit and then use crushed asprin (and a little water) and rub it in. The asprin releaves some of the discomfort and fixes the zit. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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me and my boyfriend keep trying to have anal sex and we stop because it hurts too bad. it like burns. is it supposed to feel like that? how do i get it to stop and will it always feel like that? barely any of his penis goes in and it hurts really bad, so im scared that if he went deeper it would burn even worse. help please? oh, and does it actually feel good? (link)
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You can build up to inserting the entire penis by first buying some anal beads at your local sex shop. They are inexpensive, and will hopefully ease some of the pain. Also, anal sex involves your muscles and if you are thinking that it is going to hurt, it will. Just relax and it will be a lot easier. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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The skin on my face is SO flakey and dry. Whenever I put my coverup on (liquid), it looks awful after about 2 hours. Loads of little flakes of skin literally come off whenever I touch my face. I apply a face lotion at night and even before I apply the coverup...but my face is always terribly dry. What can I do to cure this dry skin? (link)
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I had a similar problem and I was told that I should use Baby Shampoo to wash my face because it is more gentle but cleans your face well. Make sure that you give your face time in between make-up and lotion, just let the pores breathe. Also, you may want to try a cream/powder foundations, it really helped me. Hope this helps.
Jenn
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HOW DO YOU PREVENT THE MASCARA FROM FORMING INTO THE CORNER OF YOUR EYE AND GETTING LITTLE BALLS OF IT THERE.
how do you prevent the mascara from forming into the corning of your eye and getting little balls of it there.
a.k.a "mascara goop" (link)
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Before you apply the mascara gently wipe the wand with a tissue, this way you are getting rid of the clumps and keeping only the liquid portion of the mascara. This should help with clumping, or mascara goop, let me know what you think.
Jenn
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I swear im depressed, i cry alot like everynight, i feel like shit and want to die sometimes...
okay well i was fine until i met sammie, then we were goin out and i really loved her and then we broke up and all and i got crushed, ever since i have no been the same... like now 2 months later(this past sat) she tells me she likes me alot but doesnt want a bf right now, and like now im crying harder cuz now tomorrow is my birthday and i want to hang out with her so so so so bad on sat. and for like the past two days after she told me how she felt she been ignoring me and when i call her she says shes in a bad mood and doesnt wanna talk to me... well i asked her to hang out with me on sat. and she said oh idk i might hangout with chris(her best friend but i thikn more) i swear if i lose her im killing myself, i know ill do it, shes everything to me... i cant lose her... (link)
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First of all, Happy Birthday. And don't let a girl get to you...I have been in a similar situation with this man, I am completely in love with him, but we are not together. I think that the best thing to do is back off a little bit. If "Sammie" is anything like me she would enjoy chasing you, don't be completely unavailable but let her come to you. This will work out if y'all are truly met to be. I hope that this helps. I know that it is probably not what you wanted to hear, hang in there. It will get better.
Jenn
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think of your DREAM house.
and tell me something about it.
something special.
dont tell me "it has a living room"
tell me something different about it.
like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors.
or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something.
or even somthing about the outside.
how all the windows are shaped like bongs.
or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.
thankk yoouuu (link)
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My dream house has a fantastic wrap-around porch. Where my kids can run around on a rainy day, and a swing that my husband and I cuddle on and watch the sunset. Inside the house there is this huge staircase with a banister for my children to slide down. No matter how much that may scare me the first time. I hope that this helps. Let me know if you would like to know more.
Jenn
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I'm planning on getting a new camera. I'm really looking into the Powershots- my friend has one and I LOVE how the photos come out. I was looking at the newest Powershots on the website, and I was wondering which one would be best for me. I would use it mostly for taking pictures with friends, animals, and nature. Should I look at one with a higher optical zoom, how many megapixels?
Thanks (link)
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I love my PowerShot..the downside is that if you want to take a quick picture it is almost impossible to keep things in focus. I have tried adjusting the shutter setting, etc. but it doesn't help much. Just keep that in mind when you are looking for a camera...mess around with the display ones a little bit. Also, look for one with a higher optical zoom...that is the best for your money. Also, if you can afford it a high megapixel. Hope I helped.
Jenn
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when i "pleasure myself", it seems like i pee on myself instead of cuming or whatever happens. so whats the deal, or what am i doing/not doing? (link)
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There is nothing wrong. When you are extremely sexually aroused, you cum...which is similar to urinating. The trick is...you need to look at the odor...if it doesn't smell like pee than it isn't, it is you cuming. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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k I'm new into ordering stuff on the internet and I was wondering if it's safe. There's this thing I want on ebay and ebay looks pretty safe and real so is it reliable? Can I order stuff on ebay without getting scammed? I'm just careful ever since I got scammed on this one time when I ordered something. Plus my mom doesn't trust things being ordered from the internet so it's kind of hard to convince her. -__- (link)
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My advice regarding ebay is to check out the seller. The higher the rating the better your experience will be. When you look to buy something, the sellers name will come up with a number following that...that is what needs to be higher. Now, I am not saying that lower numbered people are not good...but they do not have the experience to back them up. Regrading other web-sites, I would stick with the more well known stores, that way it is relatively safe. I would also following purchase print out the receipt. I hope that this helps, and enjoy shopping on-line.
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AH! People on this site who ask for help frustrate me. Not all people do this but several do. Advice is where people from all different points of view give the honest answer they think even if it's brutal. Yet when some people do give honest answers, the questioner, who doesn't like the answer, decides to give a 1 for not getting a sugar coated answer. If we all said "Yeah, you're right, this and that" blah blah than those arn't advice...so I guess I'm asking why do people do that and is there any way to clarify to people that advice is not always sugar coated and that giving a 1 because they don't like the answer is just a;skljga;lkjg? (link)
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I agree with you...if I give a 1 it is because the person truly deserved a 1. I am asking for advice, so I am open to all suggestion, but I don't like when people make assumptions about me or what I am talking about and offer judgement that doesn't apply. Thanks for the question.
Jenn
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What excatly is an orgasm? (link)
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When you are sexually aroused..it is the height before going down. Think of a hill...first, climax, orgasm, and then declimax. You usually cum during an orgasm...but not always. I hope that this helps, and if you have any more questions let me know.
Jenn
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It's the first time to contact you but I really need yr advice here. I'm 26 years old from Egypt and I'm in love with a women 25 years my senior. She is from TX. We first met in a chat room and we were very nice to each other. Actually I met her after some emotional troubles and depression I was stuck in before our meet with 12 months or more but after I met this women I really found a life should be lived and she helped me to heal my soul. We know each other since last March 2006 and after 3 months we both felt that chemistry between us and she was the first telling me that she die at me and she loves me, and I also was feeling the same way. She only has one 23 years old daugther who's working in another state so my my lover stays alone at home and she told me that she has met before other guys in chat rooms and most of them told her that they love her also and want to marry her and she had told me that before telling me that she loves me. When she has told me about those guys I explained her that there are alot of guys from outside the US who use this way to get marry with women from the US or Europe for immigration purposes.
I told her that I'll not be ready to leave my country now because I have family here I have to take of and I cannot leave them and she suggested to come and live here but I also found it not good idea because life her is not easy at all.
I have a job here and I like it and I'm afraid if I'll move to the US that I'll never find a similar job but I told my lover that I'm ready to work in any job and will not a problem.
She also as most of the older women have worries about the comments of the friends and family after she talked to them and there are some with and others are against. Her daughter has not rejection for this matter and all she wants is to find her Mom is happy in her life after 2 bad marriages she suffered from.
I know that you will find this a crazy idea because the age difference between us but I see her as the most beautiful women on earth and I guess she finds me that kindhearted young man who loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. But believe me, I don't mind with her age or the other people's opinion even we talked about having children and I told her that I don't want kids because this could be dangerous to her life and all I want is she.
So, please give me yr advice and I'm waiting for any other details or explains you might need.
Regards,
M. AAMER (link)
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I don't think that there is anything wrong with an age difference. I think that it might be a big deal at first with friends and family, but they will eventually see that you both love each other and they will learn to accept the fact that you are in a relationship together. I am not sure what to tell you on the whole moving issue, but if she has children and you don't, but I would say that you should make the move to the US. I wouldn't worry about a job, something will always come up. Especially if it was the right decision for you. I hope that this helped, and let me know how things turn out.
Jenn
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I have an account on facebook
& I just moved from my school that I had when I made the account
& I'm trying to change my network to my new highschool aaand it just isn't working
anyone help? (link)
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I know that with Facebook you are only allowed to change your network every 60 days (I believe), so that may be part of the problem. I hope that this helps...I know stinks right.
Jenn
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I can't breath well.
It feels like something is pulling my ribs or lungs together, so I can't breath well.
I have asthma, and I keep taking my inhaler, but it's not working.
I told my parents and they were like "let's wait, and see if it still happens and we'll take you to the doctor"
But it honestly bothers me.
Anyone know what's wrong? (link)
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I had what sounds like a similar problem, and when I went to the doc they told me that it was allergy related. You may want to try an allergy medicine, such as Claritin or something like that. But I do not know all your symptoms. I hope that you are doing okay...let me know. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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my ipod is having problems and when i plug my ipod into my computer it says i can restore it but all my songs and data will be erased. is there anyway to save songs that i have on my ipod and not on my computer onto my computer so once its erased i can easily add it back on? (link)
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No, unfortunetely. When you plug your iPod into the computer it basically deletes everything (song wise) from the iPod and replaces them with whatever is still in your iTunes library. There thinking behind this is that you can not upload other music to your iPod and then import them onto your library. I hope that this helped.
Jenn
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Hey columnists...
I got a DVD from Netflix today, and have been trying to watch it. Unfortunately, it keeps alternately freezing and skipping. I've tried taking it out and cleaning it of with tissues, but so far it hasn't stopped. Is there anything I can do to clean it off, without having to just send it back?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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Well,there are several tricks. If you think that it is just a cleaning problem...use a soft cloth and some rubbing alcohol. Use it from the center of the cd outward. I am not sure if you should try this on a Netflix DVD but also tooth paste to repair scratches. The information for the DVD is on inside of a clear plastic coating that often gets scratched. By using the paste (not gel) you fill the defects and the disc is temporarily repaired. You may have to do this several times, mostly if you clean the cd the paste may also come off the DVD. But that is a minor inconvience. I hope that this helped.
Jenn
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