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I have MSn messenger and all my friends can listen to music on there, like, they always have a song next to their name, and it shows the song that they are listening to. But i don't know how to listen to music on there. can someone please tell me how to get it? thank you. =] (link)
If you do the one below and it still doesn't work, go on your msn contact list and click on tools, options,Then in the personal tab, at the left it would have a box for you to type in personal message and a check mark box beneath it for showing what u r listening to for personal message make sure it's checkmarked.


me and my girlfriend went out like almost a year
and our aniversary** is coming up i dontknow what to get for her
and i really love her..
can you tell me what should i get for my girlfriends??
something not too expensive not too cheap something that can express how much i care and love her...
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In my opinion,I don't think you should give your girlfriend jewlery ,since its expensive and doesn't express as much importantance of a feeling for her.The only time to give her jewlery is to give her a ring ,well thats only if u wanted to be married or something. Otherwise if your just going out, give her something cute, express-able, and quite simple. Usually simple things give a lot of meanings.

Maybe give her something very cute,like a stuff animal or flowers. You can make her something, usually handmade things are more pericous than anything, I bet your girlfriend will love it. or just don't get anything, bring her to a place that has a lot of meaning for you two. Walking in the park,beach,going to movies(etc).

You don't need to buy anything to express how much you love her, Remember theres a saying, you can't buy love with money. You can do something really romantic, for example,a candle lit- dinner, there is many more ideas.The ones I gave you are pretty obvious ones. I can't give you them all , its between you and your girlfriend. Anniversary is the day to remember all the good times you have together and to express how much love you guys have.

Back to the subject. Get your girlfriend flowers. What kind does she like? Lilies, Roses, tulips?
Get her a stuff animal, What kind does she like?
Bear, Monkey, hellokitty (most girls favourite), or maybe a creature of some sort. You can hand make her something, put beads together to make her a necklace? Anything you can think of. My advice isn't really good, but i hope it helped somewhat. Good luck! Hope you and your girl will 4ever be together and always love each other.

~ Ai Mei


Ok, so im 18 and my boyfriend is also, we've been together for almost a year (11 months). We were both virgins when we 1st had sex with each other in march 2006 and have had it casually like every other month since then. It seems as though i have a discharge all the time like im going to have my period, its white, and a little pasty and sometimes mucusy but i dont kno if that just my body getting used to having sex...will it go away? becasue its been like this for like 4 months, and like twice it has been very itchy on the inside of my labias and when that happens the discharge is more brown pasty. I havent had a fever or feel sick at all and my boyfriend says he hasnt had anything wrong like itchy or discharge or anything that on his area.....???? (link)
If your boyfriend doesn't have any werid symptoms then I think you're fine.As long as he doesn't have STD or anything like that to start with, then I think everything is okay.

The discharge you have right now, seems awfully like a yeast infection. No worries ,it's quite normal for girls to have it. It's not a deadly disease or anything, its the way your body cleans down there..Yeast infection is very hard to get rid of. Go to your doctor and get medicine for it. If you want a pill then your doctor will most likely give you fluconazole. Its only one pill ,and after that your infection should be gone. If not there is different type of medicine like apo-amoxi. You can also get a creme for it too.

Since you already have an intercourse, it can be baterial infection. It is quite similiar to a yeast infection . Sometimes doctors can't make sure which one is which ,so they'll give u a swap testing, it won't hurt. The medicine is also quite similar to a yeast infection. Tell your doctor what type of medicine you would like to get. Taking a pill or creme or even something else that your body can handle.Take what will help you cure it fast and easy, but it depends on what type of medicine your body usually gets along with. Get advice from your doctor or pharmist to pick the medicine that is right for you. Good luck. I hope you feel better!


How doo i get my ex GF back ,she dumped me, and i need her back i need help on some stradigies :P thanks
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I don't think you should touch other girls or do something to get your ex jealous. What if she gets mad at you even more, then it would be even worse and harder to get her back. I suggest you should do something romantic ,show her how much you want her, how much you need her. Maybe figure out why she dumped you in the first place. If you did something wrong I suggest that you buy her roses, cards, or something nice and romantic to give to her. You can invite her to the movies or take a walk in the park . I'm not sure that 100% this will help u get her back. I think its a worth a try .! Good Luck!


i dont really understand what it means to ask someone to be your valentine. are you asking them to be your g/f or b/f? or are you just asking them if they will say they're your valentine? and if they say yes, what does that mean? i dont understand the point of asking someone to be your valentine (link)
There is a tale on how valentine came to be.You can believe it or not because there is no certain way to make sure this is 100% true or not. Well. People say a long time ago There was this man and his name was Valentine. He was a prisoner and was ready to brought out for execution. He really really loved this girl ,because many people believe she was the jailor's daughter who always visited him.(sorry i don't no her name though) The night before he was executed he wrote a sorry letter to her and express how much he was sorry,how much he loved her, and how important she was to him. Then he signed his name "From your valentine" (this is why we use this saying today)

Many people have opinions on valentine's day, what it's for and what's it about. In my opinion "be my valentine" means that you really love them ,and they are extremely important to you. That is why valentine is a day to express love and feeling for someone. You can express it secertly or just be open about it. "be my valentine" doesn't have to mean to ask them out, but since its a day of love, it can be.

I hope this helps you understand a little more about valentine's day! Happy valentine's!


i broke up wiht my bf and everytime i see him i regret it and now he has a new gf and he sitll tells me he lvoes me and i love him too but ijust dont wnat to go through all the pain(of us breaking up) again if we do go back out. adn i can not stop thinking about him!!!! (link)
how you really feel about him, it take time to get to understand one person, maybe he might hurt you or maybe he regret what he done and he dont want to do it again. people made mistake in their life. but it good to give them another chance. but i dont want to like let him hurt you again. because when a person did something they could they will do it again if you dont tell them what they done is wrong, and you should telling him, that ifhe love you he wouldnt hurt you, he wouldnt pick another girl to replace you. Hope This helps!

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at my school a lot of people have already lost their virginity. not just regular sex, but from oral and other stuff. i know that theres one guy that would be willing to but i don know if i should. i dont just want to be a follower but i also dont want to be the loser. (link)
well its not the majority of people, sometime people do things they thought it cool but turn out it really stupid, you can have the good if you follow the majority but it can turn worse. if you not that type of person then dont follow them, jsut be who you are, you not a loser, a real loser is a person trying to be someone or do something that they force themself to do it,becuase of the other people thinks that is cool, all i say, is think before oyu do something that u will regret in future.Hope this helps u !

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hey, i need advice, im in love with this girl and she love me, we both love each other, but her family dont like me, i want to know is there anything i can do to impress them?? everything i tried, they still hate me. please help me, i really love her and i dotn want her to love me but run away, and i dont want because of me make her stand up against her own family, please give me advice (link)
If you really love her,and will be willing to give her everything.You should prove to her parents that you love her and can give up everything for her.

To impress them,I suggest you should try to be polite and hard working infront of them.Show them how neat and organized you are.That is a good way for them to trust you.They will be happy that their daughter is with someone that is responsible.Clean and tidy.Well organized for others too see.Hard working will prove to them that you don't easily give up,and will work enough for the person you love,so she won't starve or be in the cold.That will prove to them ,how much you love her,and that you can take care of her.

Remember to show more positive things than the negavtive.If some of these are hard to do -.- then give up.If you really love her.I bet you wouldn't give up right?Good luck!


Hey, how can you loose 10 poounds in 1 month ????? (link)
I suggest you should excerise right after you eat.Then your body will burn fat that ur body doesn't need.Running is a very good way to lose fat.It can also prevent you from diseases too.

If your thinking about going on a diet,that is also a good idea too,but remember its a diet, not starving yourself to death.

Try to limit your food to eating some of each product each day.Remember eat a lot of fruits and vegetables!Its very healthy for you,plus they doesn't give as much fat as meat and grain gives you,they will just give you calories which is good for you. So you can eat as much without worrying how fat you'll get. Remember to excerise after you eat.To burn all those fat and calories!Good Luck!


For certain words int he chinese language, are there more than one symbol for one word, or are some words have two symbols?
Like, how we have "there their and they're", are there more than one symbol for one word? And are there more than one symbol to make up the word? (link)
Chinese words can be combined from other words inside each other.For expample the word big in chinese is also present in the word sun.


hi i was wondering im 13 and i have acne..does it go away when you get older? If it does what age does it stop growing and go away?
Thanks!
I greatly appreciate it! (link)
There is many causes for an acne problems,and trust me,they get pretty distracting. If you want to aviod acne I suggest you wash your face every morning and night.You don't really need an expensive acne cream ,because sometimes they will work just the same.Each face is different.Try using the basics.By buying a type of face wash.For me I use clean & clear.Then after I finish washing my face with it. I use a face cream called Neva.Its not Very expensive only $10 for me to buy.It helps alot! .Acne now for me comes once in awhile and then if i get acne I do the same process and it goes away.Or you can just go to the docotor and ask for acne medicine.Then you will need to apply it every night before you go to bed. Good Luck! I hope my advice helps. Merry Christmas too!

~Trish


Okay, so I have acne and obviously I have to cover it up so I always put on foundation and coverup.. but it doesnt make my skin look good.. so I've noticed that without like foundation my skin looks better but is there any like toner or anything that will make my face less red and get rid of those gay acne scars that are left? Thanks for any advice. (link)
I used to have an acne forehead,with bumps on my faces and some spots are red and stuff.Then I bought Clean and Clear face wash & neva cream.They help a lot.I use clean and clear when I shower then after i dry my hair i put on neva cream,then my face turns smooth and pretty right away.You don't even notice as much pimples.You can get special acne medicine from the doctor.So after you put Clean and clear & neva cream on ur face. At night when you go to bed put on acne medicine.See if it improves.Good luck! and Merry christmas! P.S. Acne scars will go away in time.You need to give it time.

~ Trish


I have "aquaintences" in my town. i've never acutally had a "main group" or real friend. i've never had someone say "aww,,i love you ______!!" in a friend way. and it makes me really sad. because i want to be close with people but i just feel like they dont like me. and i dont know how to open up or be friendly or start convos. how do i do that stuff? im not in the "loop" or anything. and this girl that i dont really like hangs around me ALLLL the time and i think that makes people not like me. i really dont want to be rude to her but seriously i dont like it at all. how can i find friends that care about me? any help, tips? (link)
To find more friends,its easy if you be more open about yourself.Try to be convincing and try to be fun with other people.Then they would notice you,and see how fun it is to be with you.They will surely be your friend.!


i don't know why he left me without reason?
i like him ..he told me he crush on me i told him its too early to say that..he left me now but i know he really care about me...really i never ever hope from someone.. (link)
love that doesn't hurt isn't love.


to stay in shape or burn fat, should you run every day or every other day?? or should you group days like 2 days, skip a day, run 2 days, etc.

thanks!! (link)
I suggest that the more you excercise and run the better in shape you are,and can prevent you from many different sickness and diseases.


Im getting a filling tomorrow for a cavity!! Im really scared. Does it hurt? (link)
Nope,it doesn't hurt.They give you a needle in your teeth.If your scared just close your eyes and think of something else,after the needle you will feel notthin.When they drill in your teeth all you will feel is a vibration.Then they will wash your teeth will cold water,with a rinse,don't worry it won't hurt.Good luck!


what is tofu? is it expensive? and it does it have protein? thanks to any of the answers (link)
Tofu is made from soybean.Which u can find from supermarket and stores.Its very heathly,for cancer and stuff.Which is not very expensive,just a couple of dollars in range.


Is it true that if you take vitamin c pills (1000% of vitamin c needed in one day) and you are pregnant that it can kill the baby because the vitamin c overpowers it? (link)
If you are pregnant, I suggest you should go see a doctor to see what type of medicines you should take,because when your pragnent you should be extra careful with the medicines.If you use to much it can cause damage to the baby.




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