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Question Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 3:39 pm

i broke up wiht my bf and everytime i see him i regret it and now he has a new gf and he sitll tells me he lvoes me and i love him too but ijust dont wnat to go through all the pain(of us breaking up) again if we do go back out. adn i can not stop thinking about him!!!!

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illtryandhelp answered Thursday January 25 2007, 8:06 pm:
if you truley love him and he loves you then you have to fight for him. If he loves you the way he says he dose then he will go back out with you. if you never try then you will always have this question in your head what if? if your afriad of the break up thats like everyone being afraid of dieing we all do it and its bound to happen some day but live your life and youll be happy in the end. So dont worrie if you guys break up in the end think of the good times that you guys had.

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LoveSiren answered Thursday January 25 2007, 7:42 pm:
how you really feel about him, it take time to get to understand one person, maybe he might hurt you or maybe he regret what he done and he dont want to do it again. people made mistake in their life. but it good to give them another chance. but i dont want to like let him hurt you again. because when a person did something they could they will do it again if you dont tell them what they done is wrong, and you should telling him, that ifhe love you he wouldnt hurt you, he wouldnt pick another girl to replace you. Hope This helps!

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angie91 answered Thursday January 25 2007, 7:28 pm:
Dating is to try new things. To meet new people. To make memories through new experiences. I think that you should try and move on. He has. And I think that youre right, if you go back to him, then you are going to have to go through all of this again one day, and getting back together would be hard, and awkward, because he's seen someone else in between. I also think that the reason that he is dating a new girl is because he is trying to move on, and that means that it's probably time for you to move on. (if you need moving on tips let me know).
You need to figure out why you broke up with him in order to stop regretting it. Even if it was for a stupid reason, it was important to you, and your heart felt the need to end it. Luckily you listened to it. And thats what you need to do now. Listen to your heart, and if you think that you reallyl should be with him, then go back to him, but I think it will be less complicated and better if you try and find someone new to make memories with. If you try someone else in between then maybe going back to him will give you an insight. Good luck and I hope you keep your feelings in mind, as well as logic. Love ya!
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MODERNDURATION answered Thursday January 25 2007, 4:59 pm:
well honestly if you broke up with him before why did you? Think about this then think about seeing him again. But as for the time being he is with someone else. Could it possibly be that you just want him because someone els eis with him now or that you just really want a boyfriend? Think about these things before you get involved with him again trust me i've had this experience. Then once you get back with them you realize i dont want them anymore. Or you see them do something completely stupid that you didnt like about them when you were in the relationship and go OHH thats why we broke up and im glad we did. I mean you can still be good friends with him, maybe all you just love him as a brother not as someone whom you share intmate realtions with. Consider this.
hope this helps
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