Question Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 3:55 pm
I have "aquaintences" in my town. i've never acutally had a "main group" or real friend. i've never had someone say "aww,,i love you ______!!" in a friend way. and it makes me really sad. because i want to be close with people but i just feel like they dont like me. and i dont know how to open up or be friendly or start convos. how do i do that stuff? im not in the "loop" or anything. and this girl that i dont really like hangs around me ALLLL the time and i think that makes people not like me. i really dont want to be rude to her but seriously i dont like it at all. how can i find friends that care about me? any help, tips?
KatieKinns702 answered Thursday December 21 2006, 4:35 pm: Finding "true" friends these days is very hard. But easy at the same time.
First thing to do is to find someone in your town; close by,that has the same interests as you.
((its hard to be friends with someone who you have nothing in common with))
Next is to just hang out, go shopping, or maybe even do lunch.
The last thing to do is to aask them for advice about a serious life problem that you are curently expeirencing.
Although it may be hard at first it is a releaf when you finnaly get everything out on the table.
I understand that you may think that "no one" likes you, but it probably because you dont let pople in.
Which is totally understandable. But remember you only get to live life once, so live it to the fullest.
hope i was a help!
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kittykat08 answered Thursday December 21 2006, 4:04 pm: try talking to her one on one, and explain that you are quite bothered by her following you around. Then try being yourself, and finding people who like what you like. Maybe join a club? [ kittykat08's advice column | Ask kittykat08 A Question ]
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