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stuck in the middle!
Well since Christmas is coming up soon, and new years too. I want to throw a party. I’ve got everything planned… but I have 1 little problem-
You see, I met these 2 girls last year. Amy and Laura. Well, I did something really stupid.
I like both of these girls as friends, but then this year, we separated into different school classes. Amy and I have classes together, but then Laura doesn’t see us at all in school.
Well, there are some things that Laura has done, that Amy didn’t like. So pretty much, Amy hates Laura, but Laura still likes Amy.
Now here comes my stupid thing- I told Amy that I didn’t like Laura either! I don’t know why I told her that.
But whenever I do see Laura in school, she thinks I like her, and I do! So we talk to each other, but then whenever Amy comes, I have to lie and tell her that I don’t like Laura.
Well, My problem is… I don’t know what to do about the party. Should I invite both girls?? If I invite Laura, Amy will get mad and will hate me because I lied to her. But if I don’t invite Laura, she’ll find out about the party, and will hate me because I didn’t invite her. I’m really stuck in the middle!!!!!!
I don’t know if I should tell Amy that I’m friends with Laura, but then risk my friendship with Amy. Or just keep lying to Amy?
HELP!
Signed, confused!
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just come out and tell the truth. if amy or laura are realoly your friends then they will forgive you for lying which ever one gets mad is not a true friend and which ever one stays and dooesn't get mad you should stick with. still be friends with them if they get mad but if they don't want your friendship then it's their loss. invite both of them!! good luck! oh and by the way it's your party so oyu can invite whoever you want to invite!
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talk to amy, tell her that your really sorry, you only lied because you didn't want to risk losing amy as a friend-this way she'll feel flattered. then say that you are inviting both, and that you'll spend as much time with her as you can and make enough space so that they don't have to hang out together
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either pick one, or tell amy the truth before the party
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