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I love an older women with 25 years my senior and she also l
It's the first time to contact you but I really need yr advice here. I'm 26 years old from Egypt and I'm in love with a women 25 years my senior. She is from TX. We first met in a chat room and we were very nice to each other. Actually I met her after some emotional troubles and depression I was stuck in before our meet with 12 months or more but after I met this women I really found a life should be lived and she helped me to heal my soul. We know each other since last March 2006 and after 3 months we both felt that chemistry between us and she was the first telling me that she die at me and she loves me, and I also was feeling the same way. She only has one 23 years old daugther who's working in another state so my my lover stays alone at home and she told me that she has met before other guys in chat rooms and most of them told her that they love her also and want to marry her and she had told me that before telling me that she loves me. When she has told me about those guys I explained her that there are alot of guys from outside the US who use this way to get marry with women from the US or Europe for immigration purposes.
I told her that I'll not be ready to leave my country now because I have family here I have to take of and I cannot leave them and she suggested to come and live here but I also found it not good idea because life her is not easy at all.
I have a job here and I like it and I'm afraid if I'll move to the US that I'll never find a similar job but I told my lover that I'm ready to work in any job and will not a problem.
She also as most of the older women have worries about the comments of the friends and family after she talked to them and there are some with and others are against. Her daughter has not rejection for this matter and all she wants is to find her Mom is happy in her life after 2 bad marriages she suffered from.
I know that you will find this a crazy idea because the age difference between us but I see her as the most beautiful women on earth and I guess she finds me that kindhearted young man who loves her and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. But believe me, I don't mind with her age or the other people's opinion even we talked about having children and I told her that I don't want kids because this could be dangerous to her life and all I want is she.
So, please give me yr advice and I'm waiting for any other details or explains you might need.
Regards,
M. AAMER
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if you think its right and u think it will work then i say go ahead and settle down with her but make sure you know about all the circumstances concerning this. Good luck with your decison.
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I don't think that there is anything wrong with an age difference. I think that it might be a big deal at first with friends and family, but they will eventually see that you both love each other and they will learn to accept the fact that you are in a relationship together. I am not sure what to tell you on the whole moving issue, but if she has children and you don't, but I would say that you should make the move to the US. I wouldn't worry about a job, something will always come up. Especially if it was the right decision for you. I hope that this helped, and let me know how things turn out.
Jenn
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as with all things on the internet, they are real in some ways and not real in others. why do you have to go from your chats right to marriage. can you not come here to visit or have her go there to visit and spend time and get to know each other in person before making a lifelong committment? i think you two should visit each others homes first and if that works you can take the next step.
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