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blindish date
ok so there is a guy that i think is really cute, but i've never met him before. well anyway, my friend's bf is good friends w/ him so she said that us four can all hang out so i can meet him and stuff and they want to hook us up. but i've never met him (just been around him) but i think hes really cute. would that situation be uncomfortable for me or awkward? i know it prob will be but what are some wasy to make it less awkward? or should i just not to do it at all...i know backing out is not the answer but what are some things that'd be fun and how should i act? ive never gone on anything like this!!!!
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Okay...I am VERY shy (or I was) but I have "grown" out of it. One of the things to remember is that if he doesn't like you for who you are...then he is not worth your time. Just keep that in mind. But, as in all awkward situaions, there will be periods of silence. During this time...you should ask him about his family, hopes/dreams, and just get him talking and you TRULY listening. This way you will show concern for him and an interest in whatever he is talking about. You may also find that you have more in common than you thought. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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Okay, well first, inhale..exhale. haha. You need to just relax. You're over analyzing this situation and trying to be too prepared for it.
You should act like yourself because you want this guy to like you for you and not some fake image you put up. So just act like yourself, be a little flirty. And since your friends are going to be there (from what I understand) it woulnd't be so awkward but make sure that you don't cling to your friends too much. Talk to this guy and get to know him better. ask what kind of music he likes or what kind of stuff he likes to do. Anyways, just be yourself, be flirty, make some jokes, and don't be too gloomy over petty things.. Have fun and good luck!
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