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hey y'all. My name is breanne, and i have no idea what to put here :)

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Ok put it this way.
I eat way to much, im not even kidding.
I dont eat anything bad though , i eat all healthy foods but i just eat to much of it!
Like for example fruit.
I could sit there and eat it for like 30 minutes without stopping.
Or like cereal, i dont just eat one bowl. I eat like 3
I exercise all the time, but maybe im just bored?
i dont know! i need help!

haha i totally know what you mean, like you could eat alll day no matter what? Someone once told me its called binging? idk. but its where you eat when you are either bored or stressed. It happens, but dont worry abotu it. i mean at least your eating healthy! and you excersize alot so i wouldnt worry about it too much. but i am no health expert, but that's just what i have to say about it.

good luck!
breanne

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guys i dont know what to do, ive screwed up my life these past couple of weeks, im failing everything, my mom cries all the time and thinks im a disapointment, i've lost all of my friends, and i miss my old ones..

does anyone know what im talking about? anyone who can tell me how it worked out for you? how you got over that whole bad period in your life and moved on, started over again?

i know life is up & down, but it feels like lately it's been DOWN DOWN DOWN DOWN, VERY VERY DOWN. NOTHING BUT DOWN.

you know? and it feels like there's no way out, im failing everything, i cant make it right, its too late, ill end up not going to a university and end up on the street...family hating me, no friends.. it just feels so hopeless.

please.. if you know what im talking about, help me through it.


thannkks people. i pray for everyone of you, even though you're strangers :)

okay well first id like to let you know that I know exactly waht you're going through. All of my close friends that i've had for the past 3 years hate me, and dont talk to me over a boy. And I was very down for a couple of weeks, then I took up running. I'm not saying just go out and run, cause that might not be the thing for you. But i am saying to try to find something that relieves stress and kinda takes your mind off things..

that is a temporary fix however. Now You dont want to hear this, but this problem isnt going to go away over night, but in order to keep yourself going and not ending up in a dark hole, work hard on school, focus on that for a few weeks to try and get your grades up. You're not going to end up on teh street, and if you set your mind to it you can go to any university you want to. So keep your chin up through the grades, everythign will turn out okay.

Now for friends, i imagine your in highschool, so I'd like to let you know that friends is the most complicated subject of all time, in my opinion. I'm very sorry to hear that you've lost all of your friends, but reach out to those who you talk to. like aquaintances and be their friend. I promise if you need it they will be there for you. Start to eat lunch with them, and just talk to them in your classes and such, and they can become your new friends.

Now if you dont feel like making new friends, you can try to talk to your old friends and see whats up and whats happened. if it's anything you did, i would try apologizing. If this doesnt work, then the friends werent your true friends to begin with. Heres a quote for you, its one of my favorites...

"Best friends are the people who are there for you unconditionally. They're the people who never question you and support you no matter what the circumstances are. They are the people worth living for."

This is difficult to hear, but think of it this way. At least you are finding out now who your life long friends are going to be.

Your mom will be fixed as soon as you show her that you can focus on teh positive things in your life, and get your grades up.

Now keep your chin up, and dont worry. Everything will be okay, and remember. god is on your side.

Love always,
breanne

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ok, at my school EVERYBODY is rich. im the complete opposide. my dad hasnt had a job for about 4 or 5 years, he finally got a job but his boss always forgets to pay him. all of the girls at my school are soo gorgeous. im not calling myself ugly, because i know im not. i just need some confidence. all the girls here are all preppy beautiful girls who wear nothing but abercrombie. see i cant afford to spend 150 bucks on a jean skirt, while all the other girls can.

there is this girl johanna. she and i are pretty close. she is one of the prettiest girls in school. all of the 6th, 8th, and 9th graders think she is soo pretty. whenever i hang out with her i feel so ugly, not to mention poor. every guy loves her, i mean why wouldnt they?

all i want to know is some tips to get the guys to like ME. and how to fit in with all of these gorgeous rich girls. i just cant think of any ways.

anyone want to help me :/

dont conform. I know exactly what you mean, i mean, i live in the "beverly hills" of texas or what not. Listen, dont feel like you should be as "rich" as the other girls in your school. In the end, you will appreciate it, i mean think about it. They will have no sense of how to manage their money when they are on their own, they will be running back to mommy and daddy for help. Another thing, be yourself!! A guy that is worth liking, and worth havin you, will like you for you. You are beautiful, everyone is. A guy will notice you, but dont try to get them to notice you. Have fun, be yourself, and enjoy your childhood while you have it!
Goodluck,
Breanne

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