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what does it mean?


Question Posted Wednesday January 10 2007, 12:04 am

I had sex with this guy.

He asked the next day "is it everything cool between us?"

What does it mean?


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allishow answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 11:48 am:
he meant is everything going to be weird. are you guys going to be awkward. and prolly are you going to want more. pretty much are you still going to be friends. or are you going to be the kind of people that have sex and pass each other and like stare instead of saying hi or and such.

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pinkpanther8906 answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 3:47 am:
It means that he wants to stay friends and he hope what happend between yall doesnt hurt yall friendship thats all.

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Ahnee answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:53 am:
i think im gonna have to disagree with these two people, but it might not be what you want to hear

i would take this as he's checking to see if you guys are still "cool" with eachother, not "are we ready to take the next step in our relationship?" or anything like that. more as "you understand that this was just a fun thing right?"
But tone factors in here, so take that into good consideration too

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ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:27 am:
He was just wondering if everythings okay...like he wanted to know if you were feeling okay and what not and that you guys still have a good friendship or whatever

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Xenolan answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 1:26 am:
Some people freak out after having sex, and he is worried that you might, apparently. He's concerned that perhaps you may regret it or something. Mostly, he wants to make sure that you won't "blame" him for having sex with you; these days, teenage guys are practically trained to think that girls don't actually want sex.

All he's looking for is reassurance from you that you enjoyed it, and he's inviting discussion on how your relationship has changed. In other words, it's a guy's way of saying "We need to talk."

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