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I dont know whats wrong
I cry like 2-3 times a week for one reason.
A boy,I will tell you my story.
He moved here about 3-4 years ago, he was a new kid so i just messed with him and thought he was cute.[I'll call him "B"]
Then we would talk online and stuff and see eachother around the neighborhood and stuff,so i had a crush on him.
He acted like he liked me, he would call me ,Im me, all that good stuff but he would say he liked my friend but he would like invite me over and stuff all the time.
Then I got over him , next year came around and i liked a totally different boy until the end of the year.
My Best friend came over and was pretty good friends with "B" so we would hangout , which made my crush on him come back.We started talking more again online and on the phone, then we did ""stuff"" and he still continued to call me and talk to me online
yet he would say he didnt like my best friend.
Our school found out about what we did and everyone knows.
Of course , we both deny it,
At the exact time of all the rumors going around i moved out of the nieghborhood he lived in.
He started hating me becuase he thought i went around telling everyone [which i didnt] and we didnt really say much to eachother for about a good month or 2, besides the occasional him taking something from me or flicking me or some boy shit they like to do.
Just recently , maybe a week or 2 ago he randomly started talking to me [honestly i didnt expect it]
online, he said he didnt hate me and we started talking and he even asked me questions about why i moved and he told me to move back and just some other conversation.
After that one night , he never talked to me again.
My friend talked to him and asked about me and said he hates me so much and he said he has ALWAYS hated me.
Which makes me cry becuase i miss everything we used to have [but it wasnt a relationship, it was a friendship with benifits]
I dont know if he was just saying that to get as many people to believe we didnt do what we did, or if he really hates me?
Sorry this was soooo long, i just need help and I cant be sad anymore
and please dont say to move on, ive tried
and tried and tried
it isnt working at all
What shld i do?
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wow that is really sad and i hurt for you girl. he is just a dick and i know that it hurts but he never really liked you or he did he just didnt want anybody else knowing that he did. But if i were you i would save the tears. There are more important things in life and i just wish that i was as strong as you. If i was in your position i would cry myslef to sleep at night. But he is a dick and you are too good for him. Even to good to be friends with him. You got this girl just be strong and dont let it hurt you like that. I hope that i could help=(
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wow it kinda depends
so what did u guys do the reason
your friends with
benifits? <3
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fuck him cut him off completely i know its easier said than done but your letting yourself get all worked up on some asshole who uses you and only see's you as a rebound bitch seriously try not to let yourself dwell on him and remeber all the shit he said about you and stay away from him act like hes another face in the crowd your'll get over him if you allow yourself beleive me i was in the same situation you deserve better it helps to write it down in a diary or right poems and remeber he anit worth your tears because everytime you waste a tear on him it makes your feelings for him stronger and you weaker do you really want him to rule your life i dont think so so women up squash him like the bug that he is hes the bitch here not you it might take a while but your strong and you will get over him and assholes like him will get what they deserve good luck be the leader of your life not the follower hope i helped and there plenty of other fish in the sea hope all turns out well
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WOW. He doesn't hate you, he was using you. He knew you liked him and that you would do "stuff" with him, but he didnt want any1 in public to now prrobably because he really did like your best friend. Its stupid, I know. You know that boys do things like this but they do. He talked to you that one day to mess with your head. He knew he could do it. I think the next time he tries to talk to you that you just ignore him, or if your friend tries to tell ou something about him tell her that you moved on from that, even though you havent she doesnt need to know that. Its ridiculous that she breaks you down by telling you what he said anyways. Try not to think about it as much find something to occupy your time when he comes on your mind, because those tears you wasting could be saved for something better.
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