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I'm really messed up (and my fammily to)
I'm addmiting it i am really messed up, my family has some seriouse issues and i don't know what to!I won't ake the time to tell you all the bad things that go on in my house just trust me there really bad.I think i might be going crazy but i don't know how to stop.I'ev cut myself alot and cry all the time, I make myself sick and through up all the time but i am not fisicly sick i think i am mently sick.I have terrible night mears and wake up screaming and sobing.I habe thought of killing myself, i think if things don't get better i could end up hurting myself vary badly or mabey even killing myself.What should i do?To make this easyer to answer i will give you some more deatails, I really want to lose weight i am 13 and 5ft and 120 pounds, my weight might be helping me lose my mind, i don't like being with other people they make me sick but i want so badly to feel comfertable with some one.I really want to make some friends at my shcool and most fo all i wan things at my house and with my family to get better.
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Honey, you need to seek professional help. The internet is a vast amount of information. There are organizations that will help you AND your family.
I want to ask you about the 'bad things' you mentioned.
Are these things taht are physically happening to you or other children by an adult or another person?
Please be honest. If you are being abused in any way, there are safe havens and houses all over in every major city across the unites states. Are you in the USA?
What are the problems at home that you are dealing with? Your wieght is the least of your worries. You can grow out of that. I would like to know more so that maybe I can give you good, rational advice.
Until then, Good luck and stay away from sharp objects. Read more books!!
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Well first of all, instead of focusing on all the negative things about yourself, look at the positive. When you wake up in the morning and are ready for school just pick one thing that you like about yourself and keep thinking it all day, and then you'll see how beautiful you are inside and out. Also pick out somehting youre good at, and try to excel in that area, whether it be a class in school or just cooking, babysitting, etc. and ifyou become very good at it, it'll make your self esteem go up.
Walk around and be confident. if you arent honestly confident you have to PRETEND. thats what i do. nobody messes with you, and people start to notice how confident, pretty, and easygoing you are. after a while you wont even have to pretend becuase it'll come naturally. nobodys born confident though, so dont worry if it feels weird at first. but trust me people will notice.
if you keep thinking suidical thoughts than i would reccomend calling a suicide hotline (sorry i dont have a number) or talking to a trusted adult.
as for your family, being positive is the only thing you can do. try to listen and talk to people if theyre having a hard time, and focuse on everything good in your life. (as far as i know) you dont have any chronic illnesses, you have friends, and are living in the united states where you have so much more freedm than everyone else int he world. people forget all the little things we have, but the more we pay attention the more we're thankful.
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