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Hello I'm 15 and sexually active and have had my period twice this month. The first time it came early cause I took a morning after pill could this affect my period still? Is it normal for you to have your period twice? Could I be pregnant? Help!!!!!

Dear Twice in one month,

Thank you for asking my a personal question.

Any chemical that upsets the hormonal balance in your body could have side effects. I recommend staying away from those pills. There are other forms of birth control that you and your partner can use that do not effect the hormones in your body. If you see a side effect from a pill like this, then there is damage to your system going on that you cannot see.

KandiiKane says "Anything that can disrupt the delicate hormonal dance that produces ovulation can lead to either skipped periods or periods that come too often."

From what I have read online, it sounds like the pill you took has done this to your body. I read several stories of women who took this pill and had two periods every time.

I would not worry about being pregnant until your next period comes around. If you are really worried about it, wait two weeks and get a pregnancy test. It takes a little bit of time for the extra hormones to show up on tests. If you use a test right now, not only could you get a false positive/negative, you would be wasting your money for another one in a few weeks to check again.

Stress can cause a hormone imbalance too. Worrying about being pregnant could cause you to have all of the signs of being pregnant. I know people that it has happened to, including myself.

So relax, do not sweat it and you will find out soon enough if you are pregnant.

Good Luck!!

P.S. If you are pregnant and need advice, let me know. There are laws that protect you and the unborn baby from any harmful choices that your parents might try to make as a result of your age.

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I just entered a loving relationship and was wondering what can i do to my lover sexually while i have my period. We both are adults and was taught that having sex while menstrauting is gross and harmful. We know now its not but want to try different things. Can we do anal sex? Thanks

Dear period and sex,

Yes, anal sex is one way to step it up. Make sure that you are very slippery and he is very slow and gentle on initial penetration of the anus. Anal sex is very nice when your partner knows what he is doing.

Another option is the shower, for easy clean up and menstrual relief. Yes, I said menstrual relief.

This is why I say that. My periods are heavy and I get bad cramps. I have noticed that having sex during my period actually breaks up the clots and helps them get discharged. A douche-bag is handy when you are finished. I find that my cramps go away after this, sometimes not returning until my next cycle.

I do not know who taught you that having sex while on your period was harmful. I was never taught that. I believe that there is a lot of misleading advice out there, for profit reasons.

Think about all the Tylenol, Midol and other drugs that are sold to women because they have been told not to have sex during their period.

What if having sex during your period is one key to reducing or eliminating menstrual issues? It happens to me that way. How may other women use sex instead of drugs to relieve menstrual cramps?

Good Luck!!

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How would I cite this website in APA
I need it for my reference page at the end of my paper. I'm not asking for the straight out answer, just the layout if you guys know. I couldn't find it anywhere online. And the article doesn't have an author, I think that's why I'm struggling.
Thanks.

http://www.drugabuse.gov/drugs-abuse/methamphetamine

Dear APA reference,

This site will show you what you want to see.

I found this link ranked number two on google when I searched for "APA Reference Writing".

When searching the net, keywords are absolutely 'key', lol, to finding what you are looking for.

I hope this helps! Good Luck with your paper!

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Can a person having hepatitis b take both allopathy and siddha medicines?

Dear from inida,

First and foremost, diet can help reduce the amount of medicine you need to take.

Here is a link that has others talking about their experiences with using diet to help their hep b issues.

http://www.dadamo.com/B2blogs/blogs/index.php/2005/01/16/type-ab-and-hepatitis?blog=27

However you are asking about mixing medicines with pharmacy drugs, so I will tell you that I always warn people against two things when dealing with drugs.

#1. NEVER TAKE MAN MADE DRUGS (there are many more less life threatening ways out there to help with your illnesses)

#2. NEVER MIX PHARMACEUTICALS WITH NATURAL MEDICINES this link explains why . . .

http://atchayapaathiram.com/2011/09/siddha-vs-allopathy-medicines.html

From this site http://ratnaveera.hubpages.com/hub/ALLOPATHIC-MEDICINES-IN-OUR-DAILY-LIFE it says that

"It is very important to learn about the side effects of allopathic medicines. Sulpha drugs are creating allergy problems to many people and excessive use of the same may cause anaemic problem. Similarly other medicines like Paracetamol and Erythromycin Stearate will damage the liver when they are repeatedly used."

http://molpharm.aspetjournals.org/content/74/1/20.abstract

My husband just read a post on IC MAG dot com from someone who claims they cure themselves with this oil.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0psJhQHk_GI

http://www.youtube.com/user/chrychek

Be safe and stay healthy.

Good Luck!

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17/f
I used to really take it to heart when people said something bad about me, but all of a sudden now I don't anymore.
If people physically are immature-like locking me in a room for a few minutes (me the other day) from somewhere now I just shout at them.
Also, in class if someone's nasty I'll respond back-just like say 'well that's not true'.

You see before I'd ignore comments but be angry when I got home that I did not stand up for myself but now I am doing I feel its to much.

So my question is how to be assertive but not look like an idiot eg.shouting my head off.

Dear Is this being assertive,

Bullying is crime. Locking you up in a room seems like bullying to me.

You can let it happen or stand up and say stop it!

Yelling is never a good thing. You can be assertive by reporting the behavior to a teacher, or an adult in your home or the authorities.

Another way to be assertive is my way of doing things, that is to say WHATEVER in their face, and walk away from it. Then get yourself a good punching bag and take out your frustrations on it.

Then there is my mother's way of being assertive and getting people to leave you alone. Tricks and other pranks that leave the bullying parties feeling stupid, embarrassed and wanting to hide.

My mother's way of doing things involved itching powder on toilet paper and Tabasco sauce in their sandwiches.

My mother's way of getting assertive is just another form of bullying and can cause pain. Not only that it seems to work at getting the bully even more angry.

I have found that walking away works the best. Make sure you have some outlet for your frustrations until you can more adequately deal with the insane behaviors around you.

Good Luck!!

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Is chile located within the Ring of fire?

Dear ring of fire,

Yes, Chile is along the ring of fire.

Here is a map of chile's location and a highlighted ring of fire.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Pacific_Ring_of_Fire.svg

Hope this helps!

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19/f
DO NOT JUDGE ME WHILE READING THIS. Long story short my ex-boyfriend and I broke up from September to November. We had been dating for a year when we departed. We started getting back together and working on our relationship in mid-November and I got pregnant. I had my abortion in December. He wasn't there for me at all, the next three weeks I was crying about it by myself. He got drunk and didn't know how to deal with it, because it was our "school break" untill the spring semester. I feel deep down inside there's a piece of me that will never love him the way I use too. He's apologized so many times to me but I get my period every month now and I just cry because I hate what happened between us. I hate myself sometimes too. He loves me more then anything else and I just don't know sometimes. Sometimes I look at other guys and wonder what it would be like to be with someone else. This is not my first relationship, but yes unfortunately my first abortion. I've dated two other guys one for three years the other for a year. I'm young and I need serious advice. I know it sounds bad. When were with each other were always happy and we barely fight anymore. I just don't know.

Dear I had an abortion and now I don't feel the same way towards this guy,

I know how you feel, only I was seventeen and the abortion was forced on me by my parents.

I wanted the child and was so in love with the father. However, circumstances being what they were, we never saw one another again. My parents made sure of it.

I hated myself for letting them take my unborn baby. I hated my parents for taking my unborn baby.

I think even now, at my age, I will never forgive myself for not fighting harder to protect that life that was created in my body.

The hormones and emotions that you are feeling right now are hard to deal with. Maybe it is time to stop and the world and get off. Take a break from everything. Take a break from seeing your boyfriend and dive into something that you can get consumed with for a while. A hobby or interest.

I find books and outdoor activities help take the stress off. You should try it too. Maybe a break from reality will help you get your priorities in check.

Good Luck!!

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subjects of special study or research work

Dear What does subjects of special study or research work mean?,

That question is generally referring to any subject that you have taken special studies in or done research on, in a professional manner.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090904132609AAky7rK


Good Luck!!





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Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and I'm 15 and he is 17 but we're really close with each other. When we hangout we make out and he'll feel me up and finger me but I never do anything other than kissing. This is both of our most serious relationships we've had. I feel like I should do something for him like a hand job but I'm not exactly sure how to. We've talked about having sex before, neither of us have done it, but we both want to. He just thinks we should do littler things first to make it less awkward and he has done just about everything when I've done nothing and he says "you can do stuff too" and I say "I know" and I feel awful because its new to me and idk what I'm doing. Please don't judge me anyone here! I would just like a step by step process of how to give a hand job, blow job, or any way to pleasure him that would be great! If anyone could give me some advice that would be greatly appreciated! :) thank you! Btw advice from woman and men would be great!!

Dear Giving my boyfriend sexual pleasures,

First, thank you for asking a great question and using proper English, punctuation and spelling. Your question tells me that you are mature for your age; I always appreciate that.

My advice to you is search you tube for "how to" videos.

I found several good ones explaining BJs.

Visualization may be the way to go, rather than having someone explain it in text.

Good Luck!!






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Is it possible for me to lose about 10kgs of extra chubbiness by eating healthy, no fast food or sugary drinks, going jogging and doing Wii Fit exercises?

I can't afford a gym membership until August or so but I want to get back into shape so this is my best shot.
Will it work? Any tips? :)

Dear Running & eating healthy,

I believe that you do not need that GYM membership and can reach your goal in a short period of time.

You should do this research on your own, but here is why I say that you can lose the pounds, tone up and stay that way for the rest of your life.

According to research done in the last 35 years, your genetic background may play a serious factor in determining what foods you eat and what kind of physical exercise your body can and cannot handle. This information is steadily gaining credibility with public, but not so popular with institutional organizations like the International Sports Science Association, the American Heart Association and their affiliates.

In fact, there is evidence in mainstream media that blood types have everything to do with disease. The information has been and is being featured on many popular shows.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgHyBYenBso&list=PLAD5199303A8DFA61

Sure, on the surface mainstream information seems to work for the population but it is a fact that it does not.

Here is Dr. Wallach talking about why an athlete has, on average, a shorter life span than your average couch potato. He gives examples of how some athletes die suddenly due to ignorance and following mainstream nutritional and athletic advice. These are guys that had personal trainers with certificates and degrees from highly accredited schools.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHQQtJSOTi0

So many people are starting to turn to this way of living because there is plenty of research and people experiencing it for us to recognize it as the best way to live.

On Dr. D'Adamo's site it is explained that "this is the first science that understands you as a biochemical individual."

I just found this on you tube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u8DuSjrOmcs

I was going to post more for you to watch, but there are so many. I found many people vlogging how the diet helped them and even documenting their progress. Interestingly enough, out of the first 60 videos, I only found two that were against the information.

In my own experience and a decade of experiences with many other people, choosing your foods and physical activities based on your personal genetic background has changed peoples lives for the better, never for the worse. Anyone that has taken this information seriously, agrees that mainstream advice is not for everyone.

Almost all of the people I have helped had followed mainstream advice and ended up sick or seriously ill. I was one of those people that ended up seriously ill and almost died from listening to mainstream advice. Not once, but several times.

After that, I vowed to always pass on this super powerful information. You should know this information in order to decide for yourself what is best for YOU.

The keyword is YOU. Most mainstream information and expert advice has the general population in mind, not YOU as the individual. I encourage you to research everything out there to make your own choices. It is your life and you should be very well informed before going forward with anyone's advice. Mainstream or not.

So take this information and do what you will with it.

This link video will explain why I can look at someone, ask a few questions and know their blood type.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1B3zhf6Z4ZU

I will not tell you how to live your life, what meals to plan or when to eat. It is different for everyone because none of us is the same. What is good for me, may make you sick.

However, you can find advice regarding meal planning on the site that I have linked several times in this answer.

I can tell you from at least ten years of experience that this works for anyone who gives it a try for at least three months.

I am not now and nor have I ever claimed that this information is mainstream. Anyone that tells you I am making these claims is possibly trying to start trouble and should not be trusted.

Just to be very clear here, I am not claiming to be an expert trained by large institutions, nor have I am not have never claimed to be a real doctor.

What I do claim is ten years experience with eating and living by the information in this site. I have seen people with diabetes, on 7 shots a day almost eliminate the need for shots in just two weeks. I have witnessed people naturally lose weight just by following the advice of Dr. Peter D'Adamo.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJnIMFWqKBo&list=PLAD5199303A8DFA61

Losing weight is easy and will not take that long if you follow D'Adamo's research and apply it to your life.

This link will take you to unsolicited comments from people who have actually tried this way of eating. http://www.dadamo.com/resultbase/resultbase.cgi

Click around and read what others have to say. You do not have to take my word for it.

Here is another link for you to browse. http://www.dadamo.com/protocols/index.htm

Here is another link to this site that will tell why this is such a popular way to lose weight and maintain a healthy weight as well. http://www.dadamo.com/program_weight.htm

I can give you links and tell you of all the experience I have had with this subject over the last ten years. I cannot even count all of the people I have seen try everything out there to lose pounds and get healthy only to plateau at a certain point. Then they take this information and transform their lives.

Everyone is genetically different, therefor their bodies process and react differently to the same foods.

It is impossible for me to give you advice on what and when to eat, how and what kinds of exercises you should be doing, unless I knew your ethnic background. Personally, I feel Giving you advice without knowing your background would be very irresponsible of me, even if I was certified with all the mainstream institutions.

Yes, I firmly believe that it is possible for you to lose 10kgs very quickly and very naturally. I believe that you will not need that GYM membership and still maintain your body's ideal weight. I believe this is possible because I have done it and have witnessed others do it many times.

There is a lot of good advice out there, and there is ignorant advice too. Like me, you must wade through the misinformation to get to the truth.

My advice is to research this on your own. I have given you the information. You are intelligent, and will see why it makes sense to know your genetic make-up before knowing what your body can handle.

If you are looking to tone up or use protein supplements you need to see this video!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lax2-crdKHk&list=PLAD5199303A8DFA61

I know Dr. D'Adamo has a lot of critics. But so has all the great explores of our world. How many critics did Christopher Columbus have when he claimed the world was round, not flat?

Having critics does not change the fact that the world is round and it certainly does not mean Dr. D'Adamo's research is wrong.

I have faith in you. Good Luck!!

P.S. To all the critics of D'Adamo this is your sign!! http://www.dadamo.com/science_critic.htm

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is it okay for an almost 18 year old girl to date a 24 year old guy who has 3 year old twins?

Dear dating guy with kids,

You have gotten some great advice. I believe that how you feel about the age difference is up to you. I cannot tell you if that is right or wrong.

I also believe the same about how you feel about dating a man with children. It is is only wrong if you believe it is wrong.

No matter what you do, think of how it will affect the three year old children in this situation.

If these babies get attached to you and something happens to split the relationship, they will be affected more than you or thier dad.

I would take my own advice on this one if anything were to happen to my relationship and I was left with just my small children.

As a parent, I would not date anyone until my yongest child was at least 16 years old.

If you do decide to date this guy, I advise you to never see him with his children until the relationship becomes serious and you are going to take on the parenting role right beside him.

He should not confuse his children with trying to find another woman in his life. He needs to focus on his children and make sure they are growing up to be decent people. The search for a mate will exspose those children to having emotional issues that start at a young age.

So think about this for a while. There are two small children to think about, to put before your needs. What ever you do will be the right thing. Trust in yourself to be responsible enough to make a chioce that will be good for everyone! Maybe those babies need a strong female figure in thier lives. There are too many variables that I do not have in order to give more informed advice.

Good question by the way.

Good Luck!!

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First off, I'd like to say that I know nobody here is a doctor. I'm not looking for a diagnosis, I'm just looking for opinions, maybe somebody here has experienced this.
Also, do not just tell me to see a doctor, that's too pricey for me at the moment without medical insurance.

This may be long because of backstory I feel like I should add but may not be needed.

Alright so, last week I was convinced I got external hemorrhoids. I had pain when I pooped, some blood, and a decent sized bump on my anus after straining during a large poop that was in no way coming out naturally.
Now the thing is, I've always had large poops and slight constipation growing up. There has always been pain because of these large poops and the pain caused me to go a couple weeks 'holding it in' when I was about 8 because I was just so scared of it. My family has never eaten a particularly healthy diet and it doesn't help that the only veggies I can stomach are potatoes and corn. (I'm currently trying to fix the constipating and large/hard poops by drinking more water, eating some more foods high in fiber and taking fiber powers packets or stir in water.

I always strain when I poop because I'm always slightly constipated, and I poop every few days rather than everyday.

For the passed few weeks I noticed a slight bump on my anus when I would wipe after pooping, it didn't hurt or itch. I ignored it - probably in denial of possible hemorrhoids. It wasn't until last week after that particularly large poop that the cut really grew in size and convinced me I had hemorrhoids. Immediately I looked up home treatments and I now have some TUCKS products coming in the mail to help.

Now just a few minutes ago, my 'hemorrhoid' was really itchy. I tried ignoring it, not wanting to irritate it. Eventually it got so bad that I lost self control to I went to the bathroom to gently wipe with babywipes to relieve some itching (it worked). I noticed there wasn't a bump. None. But my anus itches and when I shifted a certain way on the toilet there was a sharp pain on my anus for not even a second and it went away.

Now I'm wondering, do I have hemorrhoids or just a cut on my anus?

From what I understood while reading about hemorrhoids, the bump stayed. It could be removed with surgery or pain could be relieved by applying the appropriate products on it. Or am I wrong?

I'm not entirely sure, which is why I seek some opinions from people who may have experienced this or just know more about it than I do.

Also, I didn't get a REALLY good feel of the bump when I was convinced I had hemorrhoids because, honestly, I was a little too grossed out to attempt to touch it. But from what I could tell by wiping with baby wipes, it was a fairly soft bump. Due to it's size in width, I threw out the idea of it being a pimply because I had had a pimple near my anus once before and it was just different.

I've also tried to look in the mirror but it's just not happening. I can't bend right for that.

Dear Hemorrhoid or cut?,

It sounds to me like you have both going on here. Large poops will agrivate and even cause an existing hemorroid to rip open.

The itching is your cut healing up, at least that is my opinion.

You talked about being constipated and your diet.
You are right. Your diet has been the cause of your issues your entire life. Find relief with the information that I pass on.

Here is some information on foods that you need to know. Corn and white potatoes are not the only cause of your problems. These two links will tell you why what is happening in your body when you consume those foods.

http://www.dadamo.com/typebase4/depictor5.pl?11

http://www.dadamo.com/typebase4/depictor5.pl?324

Here is the link to the main list so you can look up every food you eat and see what other issues you can solve with diet changes.

http://www.dadamo.com/typebase4/typeindexer.htm

I am not an affiliate of the website. I use the list and other information to base my dieting needs on. You do not have to buy anything to use the site for informational purposes.

Good Luck to you!!

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This is about my female teacher and I'm a female too.
sometimes i have caught her looking at me.Sometimes when we look at each other, either she looks away quickly or I have to break eye contact.
When she is teaching, 90% of the time she is looking at me.
When she makes a joke, or makes fun of a student in our class (when I say makes fun of someone, I don't mean that she's mean to the student.) she always looks at me after and smiles. 
One time our class had to bring something for a shared lunch, and most of the boys forgot to bring something, so the teacher said to them that they had to sing a song, so the boys asked what song, and then the teacher said "girls just wanna have fun" then straight away she looked at me...
I brought cupcakes (I know, cupcakes are for younger people, not people in highschool, but it's the only thing I could bring lol) and the teacher had one, then I saw her take a bit of icing off of her cupcake and lick it off of her finger while looking at me then she smiled...like trying to be sexy?
Sometimes when the bell goes, she stands by the door and when I walk past, our bodies touch. There is plenty of room for her to move but she just stands there and obviously doesn't mind our bodies touching? (I'm too shy to say excuse me...)
One time she stopped talking to someone just to say bye, have a nice weekend to me.
When we were in the school library once, she sat next to me. Out of all of the free tables and chairs she sat next to me.
One time when this boy sat next to me, half way though the lesson she comes over to our table sits down next to the boy, and asks the boy why he's sitting next to me.
I don't know I'm just confused, what do you think? What's your opinion?
And I understand the never have a relationship with a teacher thing.

Dear Does my Teacher like me,

Here is my opinion.

Perspective filters can cause the imagination to run wild. It is possible that you have an influence in your life that would cause you to see your teacher's actions as sexual; when she is just a very friendly person who enjoys icing very, very much.

(I know when I get something I love in my mouth, I make faces that would be mistaken for intense pain. lol)

Then again, maybe your perspective of the situation is spot on and you are seeing real sexual gestures.

There are so many variables here. These are just my opinions and they may be right, or they may be wrong.

My advice is this; talk to your teacher about these things you think you see her doing. I believe honesty is always the best policy. If her actions make you uncomfortable, you should talk to her about it and ask her to stop.

It is possible that she is oblivious to her behaviour and would be thankful to you for pointing it out.

Then again, she may be doing it on purpose.

One can never tell the true intentions of another until a line of communication is opened, a history trust is established and lines laid in the sand.

That is my advice. Be open and honest. Talk to her about this and at the very least, get an understanding of what is going on.

Thank you for asking me such a complicated question. I am sorry that my advice is not more enlightening or less difficult to follow. Talking to someone about something sensitive like this takes courage.

Good Luck!!

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Hi,

I noticed you critiqued my answer in this question:

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=612035

I am not sure you are aware of this, but what I wrote is accepted mainstream advice. It is in line with what both ISSA and Venice nutrition teach (the organisations I am certified with). For your information, ISSA is co-founded by Dr. Frederick Hatfield, arguably the most recognised expert in fitness in the world.

Your critique uses non-mainstream science, which is anything but accepted (i.e. it has a lot of critics), and it is promoted by one doctor.

To call me ignorant and then write what you wrote is outright offensive, but worst of all it is very misleading to the person asking the question. The way you wrote it, it looks as though your advice is mainstream and mine is not.

I was going to request an edit on my question to answer your points, but since this is not a debate site, I thought I would appeal to you first.

Dear Hi,

I will gladly answer your question.

I do not believe my answer to a question was a critique on your advice. I never wrote it in a manner that claimed it was a critique or that my information was mainstream.

Some of the advice you gave was good and some of it may kill people. Had I seriously critiqued your advice, I would have picked apart all the flaws in your answer, I would have mentioned your name and pleaded with the advice seeker to ignore your all of your advice.

As it is, I stated "Some of the advice you have gotten is good. Some of it may not be so good for you."

I said that some of the advice you gave was good. I guess you did not see that part.

I also said "For some people, maybe even you, cardio workouts that get your heart racing for 30 minutes will cause your body to hold onto the muffin top you want to get rid of. If I told you to work out 3 times a week without knowing your genetic background, I would be giving you bad advice." This happened to me because I followed the workout advice of the mainstream experts!!

I also said "For some people, maybe even you, soy and shrimp are bad sources of omega 3. That is ignorant advice." I called your advice ignorant, not you. I said this because soy products and shrimp agglutinate the blood in three out of the four blood types and drastically increases the chances of disease susceptibility.

The agglutination that happens in the B blood when shrimp is in the system is drastic compared to the other blood types. After observing this for over ten years in myself and the other blood types in my household, I can give you many reasons why not to follow mainstream advice.

I have spoken with many people who have certificates and PhDs in nutrition, fitness and health regarding Peter D'Adamo's research. At first they are like you. Critical and close minded.

Once they actually follow the eating habits outlined in D'Adamos research, they agree with everything I say. People with PhDs who have practiced for over 30 years appreciate me opening their minds to the information. It has made them better in their fields of knowledge.

I gave advice based on scientifically proven research and my own life experience with others. EVERYONE that has ever followed D'Adamo's advice had seen amazing results.

The key word is everyone! Your advice does not work for everyone and to assume that it does is extremely arrogant!

You are wrong about the information I gave being promoted by only one doctor. There are several doctors out there that are supporting this research.

The use of the word ignorant is only offensive because you have confused it with the word stupid.

Ignorant simply means that you do not have the information required to make an informed decision, or give fully informed advice.

Ignorant does mean that you are dumb. In fact, you sound rather intelligent, just a little under-informed.

I do not recognized experts simply because I trusted the advice of experts and their "ignorance" almost killed me. I especially do not trust people who are programmed enough to believe mainstream advice and reject all others, no matter how many critics it has!

Why do I distrust mainstream advice? Because it has almost killed me three times in my life.

That is right. While I served in the military I did everything right. I saw nutrition and fitness counsellors for almost 3 years. I followed the exact advice that you gave in your answer to that poor naive girl, and it almost killed me.

All the foods that the nutritionist had me eating were agglutinating my blood. All the advice from the fitness counsellors were forcing my body to break down the muscle and making me weaker.

In 3 months I had gained 40lbs and could not get out of bed. I saw three doctors over the course of three months. All three of them did the same things. Took blood, looked at numbers on a sheet and told me everything was normal. Then looked at me and said "I can see you are not well, but the numbers on the paper are all normal." They looked at my diet sheets and what the 'experts' had me eating and doing. I followed every little bit of advice they gave me.

I could not get out bed without vomiting, could not walk very far without wanting to pass out and had bad headaches and blurred vision. It took my father, who read D'Adamo's book, to recognize what was happening to me.

I immediately changed my diet and exercise routines to follow D'Adamo's advice. Within a few days the headaches were gone. Within a few months the fatigue was completely gone and my vision back to normal. Ten years later, I am 215lbs lighter, look younger than I did ten ago and I have so much energy it is scary.

So there is your answer. I am sorry that you felt I was picking on you. I never meant for it seem that way. Generally when someone takes offence to something it means they have issues that have nothing to do with others. You actually felt that you had to attack me over a few remarks I made in an answer to someone else. This tells me you have a rather big ego.

You should educate yourself outside of the mainstream expertise, it will only make you stronger in your field of knowledge.

I felt that you gave some bad advice and I wanted that poor girl to know that it may not have been right for her.

Simple, honest and what I would expect from anyone. I keep an open mind and only talk about my experience, not regurgitate mainstream propaganda when giving advice. How about you?

I think that you need more information in your knowledge base before you can be sure your advice is not hurting people. I have lived it. I know your advice is good for some people, I know for a fact it is bad for me and bad for others.

Thanks for asking me a question and good luck with your journey to enlightenment!

IN ADDITION TO THE ABOVE ANSWER AFTER GETTING FEEDBACK AND A NASTY COMMENT

Your beloved main stream nutrition information is killing millions! Period. If you reject that then you are programmed and ignorant.

D'Adamo's information comes from research that is proven by people who are not out to make a buck in the system. The infomration is there to help people save money in the system and stay healthy.

You regirgitate health and wellness advice that is healthy for some, but dangerously unhealhty for others. I hope you are proud of yourself.

Thanks again!

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i went to a party and hooked up (made out) with a guy i was very drunk and he was sober. he was even helping me to walk and shit. i was aquintances with the ex but never like good friends. i did want to hook up with him. so i asked him if he and the girl were still together and he said no we broke up. so we hooked up and i dont feel bad about it at all. hes a senior and im a freshman. so his ex texted me the next morning saying back off hes mine and i just said i dont want him you can have him but before that i said sorry because we did used to talk. but they arent even together now or when we hooked up. if anyone she should be yelling at it should be him like did i do anything wrong? everyone keeps telling me i didnt because he was sober and still wanted to hook up. advice? thankss

Dear i hooked up with a guy and now the ex girlfriend is pissed,

Pooh happens. You got drunk and got frisky with a single guy. Now the ex is trying to cause drama.

You got flack the next day from someone who has no claim to that land. Imagine what would happen if you started dating him.

Wow. You are better off without getting involved with either of them. It is obvious that she is still attached to him, and may do crazy things to keep him from moving on.

Since he was sober and making out with you, he does not want to be with her anymore. He is a senior and was on the prowl for fresh-man meat.

Keep in mind that he is a senior and will be moving on soon, probably with her right there behind him crating drama for any girl that gets close.

Your best bet is to stay away from him and her, trust me. Your life will be better off without that drama!

Let the incident go and focus on more important things. But ignore or block all communications from both of them.

Good Luck!!

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My best friend has had a history of depression and engaging in risky behaviors. She was doing well for a little while, but recently, after breaking up with her boyfriend, she's been struggling again and slipping back into some behaviors. she has been sexting with guys she hardly knows on the internet, stripping over the webcam, etc. now she's planing on meeting up with her ex boyfriends roommate to have sex with him. But seems to be aware of the consequences of doing it, but it doesn't bother her. I should also add that she's only 16.
I know this all sounds crazy, and maybe it is, but I'm really concerned about her. I don't want her to get hurt and I feel like that's what she is setting herself up for. I love her dearly, and I don't know what I should do as a friend. Should I tell her not to go meet up with this guy? Should I express to her my concerns? What would be the best thing to do?

Dear My best friend is making really bad decisions and I'm worried,

Sexting and stripping on the webcam may be her way of releasing the stress of the recent and sudden changes in her life. Meeting up with strange guys would not be wise, but she is not meeting up with one of these guys.

She is meeting up with someone she knows. What is risky about that? If she is responsible and uses protection, I see no harm in her meeting up with someone she knows to have casual sex.

Life is all about learning lessons. She is struggling because she is in a state of change and transition. She and her boyfriend are not together anymore, That is a big change.

Going to her parents may be a bad thing for your friendship and could be seen as over reacting to a normal situation. She is in emotional chaos right now and is tyring to find herself. Let her do that.

Sometimes to be the best friend in the world, we have to let our friends make mistakes. Confess your concerns to her, but do not try and stop her or tattle on her.

Sixteen is the normal age for girls to start having sex anyway. Just keep being the friend you are and things will work themselves out.

Good Luck!!



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hi, what does it mean by when a boyfriend of 4 years says, ''go with the guy if you want to?'' he only says that if he finds me looking and when he's drunk. sometimes i don't get it. we love each other and we live together and he's also a single father and in his early 50's. so guys does he want to split up or something? thanks

Dear boyfriend doesn't seem to care,

He is fifty. How old are you?

It sounds to me like he is suffering from low self esteem. Where is your relationship going from here. He is fifty and a father. Maybe feels that you can do better than him.

If you really love him, you should be spontaneous with him and show your love all the time!! He needs reassurance that you are not going to go anywhere.

This is a natural thing for a man like him and you can bring him out of this funk. He needs your sexuality, your love, your friendship, your honesty and most of all, your devoted companionship.

Wrap yourself around him as much as you can, when ever you can. Fill his ears with words of confidence and take care of him as if he were the only person in your life. When he says "go with him if you want' you should be returning with a positive comment like "Why would I want to go with him? I have you, you big sexy love muffin!"

He will see that you do not want to run off and stop being negative. Attitude is the most important factor to guarantee good results. You set the mood, you are woman and you are in control. Go get him!!

Good Luck!!

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Can one live on rice, vegetables and legumes alone?

Dear Can one live on rice, vegetables and legumes alone,

It depends on your genetic background.

The A blood type could live on nothing else but greens, beans and nuts, if they chose the right ones.

However, if you are O blood type, your body needs certain animal proteins on a regular basis to run optimally.

Here is a little more about my advice.

http://www.dadamo.com/program.htm

Happy reading and good luck!!


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14/f Hi, I've been working out these past few months to lose weight for grad; I'm 5"8 and 135. I still have a few ponds to go (5-8) BUT, I have a muffin top or excess fat on the sides of my waist. How can I lose 5-8 lbs and the excess fat on my sides before June 24th (date of my grad)?

Dear how to get rid of muffin top and lose weight before grad,

Some of the advice you have gotten is good. Some of it may not be so good for you.

For example. Activity and burning more calories than you take in are good things. However, the type of activities and the kind of calories you are burning can have reverse and devastating effects on your goal.

For some people, maybe even you, soy and shrimp are bad sources of omega 3. That is ignorant advice.

For some people, maybe even you, cardio workouts that get your heart racing for 30 minutes will cause your body to hold onto the muffin top you want to get rid of. If I told you to work out 3 times a week without knowing your genetic background, I would be giving you bad advice.

The following is taken from Dr. Peter D'Adamo's website.

"Dr. D'Adamo explains that the practical application of the blood type "key" is that it enables you to make informed choices about your dietary, exercise, supplement, and even medical treatment plans. With the blood type "road map," these plans can now "correspond to your exact biological profile" and "the dynamic natural forces within your own body."

Here is a link that will explain what you need to know about your body's needs.

http://www.dadamo.com/program.htm

When you are on this site, browse around. Find the blood type lists that are the key to eating right. Once you know your blood type and eat accordingly, your muffin top will gone in no time!

Good Luck!!


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All I wanted to know is what diet your using that helps your skin and think clearly.

Sorry I have not gotten back to you in a timely manner. I have been very busy. I am on this diet.

http://www.dadamo.com/typebase4/typeindexer.htm

You must know your genetic background in order for this diet to work. Basically you must know what your blood type is in order to choose your foods according to your specific needs.

Good Luck!!

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