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boyfriend doesn't seem to care.
hi, what does it mean by when a boyfriend of 4 years says, ''go with the guy if you want to?'' he only says that if he finds me looking and when he's drunk. sometimes i don't get it. we love each other and we live together and he's also a single father and in his early 50's. so guys does he want to split up or something? thanks
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Dear boyfriend doesn't seem to care,
He is fifty. How old are you?
It sounds to me like he is suffering from low self esteem. Where is your relationship going from here. He is fifty and a father. Maybe feels that you can do better than him.
If you really love him, you should be spontaneous with him and show your love all the time!! He needs reassurance that you are not going to go anywhere.
This is a natural thing for a man like him and you can bring him out of this funk. He needs your sexuality, your love, your friendship, your honesty and most of all, your devoted companionship.
Wrap yourself around him as much as you can, when ever you can. Fill his ears with words of confidence and take care of him as if he were the only person in your life. When he says "go with him if you want' you should be returning with a positive comment like "Why would I want to go with him? I have you, you big sexy love muffin!"
He will see that you do not want to run off and stop being negative. Attitude is the most important factor to guarantee good results. You set the mood, you are woman and you are in control. Go get him!!
Good Luck!!
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It means he's being a jerk.
Maybe he wants to break up. Maybe he wants to you to reassure him. Maybe he finds the idea of you sleeping with another man sexy - some guys do.
We can't know.
You'll have to ask him why he is doing this. Of course, he honestly might not know himself.
What we can know is that this is a jerk move. It's either a straight up insult, or an attempt at manipulation. It's not okay, no matter why he is doing it.
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Both of you being with each other for four years you shouls sort of know each other in some ways. I would say he might be going through some issues that he feels difficult to talk with you about referring to your comment about when he's drunk...i would say that every time he wants drink talk it out communicate, spend time with each other and probably he wouldnt need to drink...the love is there it just needs to be rekindled.
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