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i hooked up with a guy and now the ex girlfriend is pissed
i went to a party and hooked up (made out) with a guy i was very drunk and he was sober. he was even helping me to walk and shit. i was aquintances with the ex but never like good friends. i did want to hook up with him. so i asked him if he and the girl were still together and he said no we broke up. so we hooked up and i dont feel bad about it at all. hes a senior and im a freshman. so his ex texted me the next morning saying back off hes mine and i just said i dont want him you can have him but before that i said sorry because we did used to talk. but they arent even together now or when we hooked up. if anyone she should be yelling at it should be him like did i do anything wrong? everyone keeps telling me i didnt because he was sober and still wanted to hook up. advice? thankss
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Dear i hooked up with a guy and now the ex girlfriend is pissed,
Pooh happens. You got drunk and got frisky with a single guy. Now the ex is trying to cause drama.
You got flack the next day from someone who has no claim to that land. Imagine what would happen if you started dating him.
Wow. You are better off without getting involved with either of them. It is obvious that she is still attached to him, and may do crazy things to keep him from moving on.
Since he was sober and making out with you, he does not want to be with her anymore. He is a senior and was on the prowl for fresh-man meat.
Keep in mind that he is a senior and will be moving on soon, probably with her right there behind him crating drama for any girl that gets close.
Your best bet is to stay away from him and her, trust me. Your life will be better off without that drama!
Let the incident go and focus on more important things. But ignore or block all communications from both of them.
Good Luck!!
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He's not dating her so you weren't wrong the hook up with him. She's just being a jealous ex. Don't respond to her messages or anything because you really didn't do anything wrong.
So just leave it at that, when you hook up with someone, someone will always be mad. But it's not like they are dating, so you're fine.
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You are right in that she shouldn't have been mad and the other advisor is right that you should just ignore the ex. His ex was obviously jealous and that's why she said those things, so what happened between you and him is none of her concern if they were actually broken up. Also it doesn't matter if he was sober and you weren't because you said you just made out and it was under both of your consent.
Moral of this is: chalk it up to jealousy and move on. An if you actually like this guy, feel free to be his friend/date etc, because he is single.
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If they weren't together then she is just being a typical jealous ex. I would ignore all her calls and text messages or block her.
Also, I don't know exactly what you mean by "hook up" but when someone is drunk, They cannot legally consent.
As for the ex again, Ignore her. She is only making an ass out of herself.
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