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is he right?
My boyfriend and I went to go see Temptation. We were cuddling and holding hands during the movie. Then the part where the girl starts flirting with the guy that's not her husband comes up and now I see my boyfriend pull away. I put my head on his shoulder and he moves away. then I ask him why he its doing that and he says he had An itch??? during the rest of the movie he is giving me a bad vibe like I did something wrong. the movie end and I'm just sitting. he takes his jacket which I was using for a blanket. Puts it on and the hoodie. asks me if IM coming and then I say yeah let's wait for the people at the end because one of them has crutches. while.I sit I catch him starring up.ag.these girls. I look back towards the screen and then get up. Then I say, "you are smart". He starts walking.ten feet infront me so I take a different exit to the car. An argument follows.thereafter about how the movie reminded him of me.because I don't always answer the phone. And how I told him that I was losing attraction to him. And how he thinks that I have someone else. All is true accept the part about having someone else. I have never cheated on him. For some reason he thinks the worst of me because I don't always answer my phone. please help. What do I do in this situation?
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It's not your fault that he is just assuming that you are cheating on him. You haven't done anything but not answer your phone, that does not mean you are cheating. The only thing is that you told him you are losing interest in him, but that doesn't mean you are cheating. He's obviously not doing anything to try and save your relationship. He's making it worse.
Well, he was in the wrong. He was being extremely rude, the whole entire time.
So I would end it and find someone who won't over react like this. I mean you're losing interest in him so I don't think this situation helped much to show what a loving boyfriend he is becoming.
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You dump him.
Clearly, there is no trust here, and I can't know what might have happened to cause that. Typically, both people in the relationship contribute to that situation.
Regardless of WHY there is no trust, your boyfriend behaved like a complete asshole. He was demeaning, insulting and hurtful. His inability to control his emotional reaction to a movie led him to act in ways that were completely inappropriate. He tried to punish you – not for anything you did – but for what he thought and felt. As though it was your job to make him NOT imagine that you are cheating on him?
Why are you with him if he A.) Accuses you of cheating B.) You aren’t all the attracted to him and C.) You can’t see a movie with him without getting attacked?
Neither of you are happy. You are definitely not being respected, and for whatever reason he doesn't feel respected. This is deal-breaker level of a problem. End the relationship.
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Sounds to me there is no trust, He is making accusations about you. You stated you are loosing attraction to him which makes me ask, Why are you with him? You both clearly are falling out.
My assumption is that he may have interest in someone else, From an outsider: End it it is extremely rude of hom to act so cold. Also taking s different exit? Really?... sounds like he didn't want to be spotted with you. I wonder if maybe there was someone he spotted and he isn't telling you something? Sounds sketchy to me. Either way, If that happened to me..
That would be the last date.
You both sound unhappy
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