I am eighteen an never had my first kiss (never even close). . . . . .nor have i even had a boyfriend. . . i know. . . . . is there something wrong?
18, Female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? MummuM answered Monday October 16 2006, 6:07 pm: There's nothing wrong with YOU. A lot of people think when they don't have a boyfriend, or haven't had their first kiss yet that there is something wrong with them. And sweetie, that is not the case at all. I'm sure you're a wonderful and beautiful girl, inside and out. Sometimes it just takes longer for some people to get their first boyfriend/first kiss. It has nothing to do with you. It's just how everything is planned out.
Lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend/first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12; others when they're 16 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first boyfriend, yet. You're only 16, 8un. You have tons of time for boyfriends, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once. [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday October 16 2006, 3:58 pm: Nothing's wrong at all. I was 18 and a half when I had my first kiss and now, 2 years later, I'm very happily engaged. Many of the people I know that had relationships earlier in their lives aren't even close to that point yet. I started out way behind the game and now, I'd say I'm a little ahead. Don't worry so much about it. Your time will come and it will probably be really special since you've had to wait so long. It will also be really meaningful since you will be more mature than most when they have their first kiss. Good luck :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
7ROCK7ANGEL7 answered Monday October 16 2006, 3:56 pm: girl chill theres nothing wrong
*same here *HIGH FIVE
you probably just havent found the right person
*if your shy:
open up more and be more out spoken
go up to a guy and start a conversation get to know them then maybe sumthin will stirr up in a big pot of good ole love!
Just try to be social with guys and make plans with them or dates. Flirt a little and show you're interested.. and maybe something may start from there. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
aquababe1 answered Sunday October 15 2006, 9:20 pm: Well im 15 and i havent had my first kiss..even though im 3 years younger, i dont know if that makes you feel better or not lol. It sounds like you're just waiting for the right guy, and theres nothing wrong with that. [ aquababe1's advice column | Ask aquababe1 A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Sunday October 15 2006, 9:18 pm: Nahh. I had my first boyfriend when I was in 4th grade. My other friend who there is nothing wrong with.. still hasn't had a boyfriend. But, shes like amzing & pretty & all that. Theres not anything wrong with you.. maybe try to be a little more social with boys? & it will all work out.
NinjaNeer answered Sunday October 15 2006, 8:00 pm: Don't worry about it! Everyone starts things at different times. I was nearly 18 when I had my first serious boyfriend. Plus, boys are far more of a hassle than they're worth until your age. Don't worry about it, and when you least expect it things will start to happen :) [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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