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Member Since: August 28, 2006
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Last Update: September 27, 2006
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hi
im very young and scared.
I had sex one time with a condom, and then another time i got close to having sex [like we did it for 3 seconds] without a condom and he didnt cum in me, one day i woke up with a stomach ache but i didnt throw up.
And lately i think i gained like a pound or two.
Im really scared but how would I know for sure if I am or not without seeing someone?and by the way , i only got my period 2 times in about a year and a half, so i wouldnt consider myself having my period.
Im very scared and Im so young, please help! (link)
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Pee on a stick. It will give you the answer. If you are confused by this, you shouldn't be in your current predicament.
Chances are, you shouldn't be in this conundrum anyway because you reiterate constantly that you are 'so young.' Obviously you aren't too young to know the consequences of sex, so you should have considered that before you did it. The point of sex is not just pleasure, it's reproduction. If you're not old enough to have your period, then it's a biological sign that you aren't old enough to be sexually active.
I would suggest waiting it out, peeing on the stick, and whether you're pregnant or not, learn from this frightening experience.
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i like this guy adn today he was kind of being rude to me like saying, you look like a monkey ( we were doing something about monkeys in class) and you smell like a monkey. and you are retarded. i was really hurt because i like him and i don't like it when he says that. does this mean that he finds me annoying or something? what should i say if he says it again? (link)
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coomer or whatever forgot one thing: he might not like you. I wouldn't base everything on this one instance though. Weigh its importance against other conversations and wait to talk to him again in the future and if he still acts like that, I suggest you plant your seed of love elsewhere.
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ok so i dont know how common this is but my boobs are two different sizes. It's been that way for about 2 years now but i always figured they'd just even out. Im 14/f and one is a 32A n the other is a 34A. Is that bad or normal or anything? (link)
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It's normal. Your body is assymetrical. Some people have one leg longer than the other, one ear higher than the other, or even one side of their mouth bigger than the other. Boobs are no different, so don't worry.
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ok! (sorry if it's a little long!!) so there is this guy that has liked me for a little while. at first i didn't mind because he's really hott and funny, it's just that he has a really bad history [including being in jail...long story] but anyways he's always waiting for me outside of my class to walk me to my next one, he's always saying how he wants to hang out that weekend and he's always tryin to kiss me [when i don't want him to]...he hasn't been totally successfull with that, he's just gotten my forehead and neck [which i STILL don't want though]. after things i've found out, i would NEVER consider dating him and honestly i don't even really want him as a friend, even moreso when there is some other guy that i really like. if people see us in the halls together or anything, they might assume we're goin out which ruins things with this other guy, and also my reputation since this guys rep is totally smashed after last year. how do i tell him i don't wanna be more than friends??
o! and i'm a 17 female if that helps! =] (link)
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Well, to tell you the truth, I thought you were a freshman. This is rather immature for a 17 year old. Just tell him that you aren't interested and you don't want to hang out with him. Or you could just start being a bitch. But I don't think your 'reputation' matters that much. If people are going to judge, let them judge. What matters at the end of the day is the people that you actually care about. And about the guy that you like, just tell him there's nothing with you and jouvenile delinquint guy.
Well the people you care about should know you and it shouldn't matter to them who the fuck walks you to class. Also, you weren't asking for politeness when you posted this petty question on a public advice site. I give honest, possibly brutally honest, advice, so deal with it.
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ill try to make this simple. so me and this kid went out for like 2 months and became good friends. well we broke up but still talked but one day we got into a fight and he made me mad so i told him to stay outta my life and never talk to me again. that was in the beginning of summer. so we havent talked. well during the summer i messaged him on myspace and was like i miss talking to you and he said get used to it and then i was like whatever fuck it. well now that school has started im a freshman and hes in 8th grade. so different schools but they are right next to eachother. but we see eachother everyday and like we just stare at eachother & i really miss him but idk how to start talking to him again after that. but i really miss him alot. i was thinking online just send him a chat invitation and then close it and say sorry my computers messed up and then see if that just starts a convo but idk what to do. i miss him so much. please help. (link)
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You know, I think it would impress him a lot more and he'd be more likely to actually talk back if you went up to him face to face at school or somewhere or at least over the phone. Doing stuff over myspace is impersonal and it seems like you don't care that much. If it's really bothering you, get all your guts together and just talk to him in person.
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I'm a 13 year old girl going into 8th grade, and i am getting a new backpack. I was wondering if an llbean one would be out of style or babyish? If so what other kind do you reccomend, and if not, what color should I get. I was thinking pink but is that kind of childish? (link)
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1. I am in 10th grade and I have an LLBean backpack
2. Why does it matter what kind of backpack you carry??
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well i was looking through the advice collums and i saw youre collum so i thought i'd ask you because you seemed pretty nice.
well my boyfriend is always talking about mymom and that he wants to fck her and stuff and i think thats gross but he doesnt and i try to talk him out of it and APPRENTLY when i was out at a basketball meeting he made out with her on my bed. like wtf, mate??? dont you t hink thats gross?? well i doand he wont stop talking about her boobs and ugh i just want him to stop how do i make him understand i dont want to have a threesome with him and my mom?? (link)
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You are a dirty whore and I think you need serious counseling if you think that you should even try to date this person. Now I answered your question so give me a better rating, bitch!
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Okay so I have liked this guy for 2 years...we will call him ben and about a month ago we became friends with benifits i love him a lot but he is into all this crap like drugs and dealing (im in 8th grade) im like one of the good girls so like this would seem like a total turn off but it doesnt bother me that much because he never does it around me. I also sort of like this guy..Umm.. Brayden he is a prep gets good grades a really good guy and like sooo hott!! and i like him too and everything but he went out with one of my best friends (tara) & he asked her out a couple of days ago but she said no and that day hes like have u ever liked me and im like i think your hott i dont know if i like you? Because i mean me and brayden are really good friends and he said same here...so i was really excited and hes like so do you want to be friends with benifits and i wanted to soo bad! and i said yes but i was already friends with benifits with ben so i had to talk to him and everything...so that night ben was on & we were already planning to go to the movies with ben that Friday & I really want to because I have never made out before & ive always wanted him to be my first…I don’t know why I just do…so me & my friend haley made this whole plan I tell ben that I needed to wait a little bit before we tell anyone about this cause I want everything about tara blown away. So then this Friday when me & haley are going dbl dating with ben & haley’s bf no one will know about it so brayden wont find out thenthe next week I will break things off with ben & then the next week me & brayden can start double dating…I know it seems bad! But do you guys have any coments, suggestions, or advice to give me because ive never done anything like this before & I am kind of worried about it! Thanks! (link)
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I'm not even going to bother reading this novel that you've posted about your middle school drama. You are in middle school. It isn't that serious. It may seem serious to you now, but if that is your biggest problem be gracious that life isn't treating you any harder.
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here is my problem. I am the kind of girl everyone says is really pretty but never gets a boyfriend or one that is high enough to my standards that i would day. I can get the ugly guys but comeon who wants that.
Anyways here is my situation. I met this kid at work and i found out he went to school with me. He is a veryyy atractive kid and seems like a truely nice guy.
He seems like the guy i have always wanted to date until i found out today he is a pot smoker.
My question is does that make him worth dating? I don't know much about him and by the looks of his myspace it looks like he does not smoke very often. I am totally anti smoking and anti drugs and out of all of my friends i seem to be the most outragous when it comes to that topic (i have drank only a small handful of times). So pretty much i am a good girl.
As long as he doesn't smoke around me you know i don't care but is her serously like boyfriend material? like i don't want to get my heartbroken over a guy who was never going to be comitted or whatever.
I am very confused on what to think and how to deal with this because i believe he likes me and i sorta like him too. (link)
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Smoking pot doesn't make someone a bad person. My best boyfriend that I've had smoked pot. Don't judge someone based on that. Oh yea and I, like you, am a good girl. I've only drank like once. So it was pretty much the same situation, and I had the same apprehensions, but he was a good guy so it was fine.
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Ok So I'm a guy, who has had many girlfriends, but for some reason I find lots of guys attractive. I also like to watch gay porn....why is this??? (link)
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Has the thought ever crossed your mind that you are bisexual or gay????
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bitterly sarcastic...how would you define that? (link)
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Sarcastic in a way intended to cut people down. Some people, like myself, are only kidding with their sarcasm, but if you're sarcastic and trying to be mean it's bitterly sarcastic. Sardonic is a word that means bitterly sarcastic.
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what is the word that is used when you learn better with pictures (link)
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visual learner... is that what you're looking for?
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I think i have a huge stomach, I'm not pregnant or anything, but I keep doing crunches, situps and pushups everynight but am not seeing much of an improvement. How long will it take to see results if I'm doing it everynight??????? (link)
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Doing crunches and situps won't necessarily make your stomach any smaller. You have to do cardiovascular exercise (jogging, running, biking, etc.) to burn fat, which will decrease your waistline. Muscle building exercises do burn some fat, but not much, and it doesn't continue burning fat infinitely. The first few weeks will show the most improvement that you'll see, so your best bet to reach your goal would be to start a cardiovascular program.
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i have this ENORMAS pimple that is growing on my chin. it is taking up my whole chin, literally. i'm not exaggerating here. the only problem is that the acne cream i use isn't working. i put 10% benzoyl peroxide on it last night and this morning it is just a HUGE bump. it is still underneath my skin, so there really isn't anything i can do. i'm afraid that it will be there for school (which is in exactly one week), what can i do to make it go away before it comes out? (link)
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1. Be thankful that you aren't in school now. I've been in school for a month, and if I get a pimple anytime I just have to deal with it.
2. It's not that big of a deal, so you have a pimple. Oh well! It happens. It's a natural occurance.
3. STOP MESSING WITH IT!!!!! That will only make it more irritated, and therefore redder, and you might even infect it. You can keep on with the acne creams but don't pick at it or anything or that could be bad news.
Other than that, don't ask me. I'm not a dermatologist.
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how can you make yourself happy? because I can't seem to do it. I'm completely miserable, and I dont think its healthy for me toi be so negative. (link)
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It depends on your situation. Surround yourself with anything that makes you happy. If you like music, try to have some playing a lot of the time. Talk with friends. Bright colors usually boost morale, too. If you think it's bad enough, you may need to go to a psychiatrist to get anti depressants. Good luck on getting happier!
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i made a mistake! jus one small mistak (choosing the wrong highschool ... where i live you choose which onwe to go to..everyone told me not to take this one.. but i did) and now my life is ruined! im miserable! i cry myself to sleep everynight, EVERY SINGLE NIGHT! i hate my life, and all i ever want to do is sleep, just cause crying as much as i do gives me a headache.. so what? i made a mistake! it happens, right? and ok ive learnt from it! "listen to my parents and friends from now on" - its on my "learnt lessons" list! so now howcome he doesnt make it better??! why won't he help me get back on my feet?? OR why'd he make so much depend on just one choice, how could he make my happynees depend on what school i choose? so i chose the wrong one, now i have to be miserable and suffer for it? help me understand because i dont want to stop trusting in him or become bitter towards him, or blame him for my sorrow.. not at all, so just please explain this to me.. if you know the answer.. thank you!! (link)
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It's not God's fault, and blaming him won't make it any better. I have been moved all over the country to tons of different schools since elementary school and if you make the best of it, no school can be that bad. So your friends are at a different school, and you don't know anyone here. So the classes are too hard or easy. Deal with it. Go out and meet someone. Work harder or ask to enroll in harder classes.
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