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not talking.
ill try to make this simple. so me and this kid went out for like 2 months and became good friends. well we broke up but still talked but one day we got into a fight and he made me mad so i told him to stay outta my life and never talk to me again. that was in the beginning of summer. so we havent talked. well during the summer i messaged him on myspace and was like i miss talking to you and he said get used to it and then i was like whatever fuck it. well now that school has started im a freshman and hes in 8th grade. so different schools but they are right next to eachother. but we see eachother everyday and like we just stare at eachother & i really miss him but idk how to start talking to him again after that. but i really miss him alot. i was thinking online just send him a chat invitation and then close it and say sorry my computers messed up and then see if that just starts a convo but idk what to do. i miss him so much. please help.<3
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i think that you should apporach him when you see him at school. tell him how much your sorry for telling him you didnt want to talk to him ever again and that you miss him. im sure he misses you to good luck.
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you could go up to him and say "I'm really really sorry, I didn't mean to say that, I really liked talking with you, I miss it alot. can you please forgive me?" and if it doesn't work then you know what? you don't need him, he's not worth it.
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You know, I think it would impress him a lot more and he'd be more likely to actually talk back if you went up to him face to face at school or somewhere or at least over the phone. Doing stuff over myspace is impersonal and it seems like you don't care that much. If it's really bothering you, get all your guts together and just talk to him in person.
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Well, if you're too afraid to talk to him first in person, just try again over myspace or wherever. Leave him a message just being like,"I know you told me to get used to it, but I really do miss talking to you. It's just, we were fighting and I was upset and I said things I didn't really mean. And it's a new year, and I'd like to start over and be friends again, if you want. Please just think about it and let me know?" ( or something like that ) and just give him time to think about it. If he still doesn't want to continue a friendship, you'll just have to respect his wishes, which hopefully he won't because then that boy can realllllllly hold a grudge. But hopefully, he'll think about it and want to be friends again. Sometimes people get upset and say things they don't mean. I hope I helped.
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When you see him at school, tell him how you really feel. Tell him you miss him and stuff & ask him if you guys are cool. He will take it more seriously if you say it face to face.
i hope i helped =]
good luck!
Jess
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