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Pregnancy
hi
im very young and scared.
I had sex one time with a condom, and then another time i got close to having sex [like we did it for 3 seconds] without a condom and he didnt cum in me, one day i woke up with a stomach ache but i didnt throw up.
And lately i think i gained like a pound or two.
Im really scared but how would I know for sure if I am or not without seeing someone?and by the way , i only got my period 2 times in about a year and a half, so i wouldnt consider myself having my period.
Im very scared and Im so young, please help!
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well, wait a month [if it's already been a month take this advice and use it now] and go to get a home pregnancy test. problem solved. what else could you do if you thought you were pregnant?
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Well, first of all, if you're too young to deal with the consequences, you're too young to be having sex.
Lecture over.
Now, you can definitely get pregnant from having unprotected sex. You never should, even if the guy doesn't come, because there is a good chance of semen entering your body.
The symptoms you have listed don't seem like typical pregnancy symptoms... at your young age, gaining a pound or two is normal. Quite normal. And a stomachache could be caused by everything from stress (which it sounds like you're under) to the flu.
I would say don't worry, because the chances are low that you're pregnant, BUT you should be sure about something like this. If it's been around a month since you had sex, then try taking a pregnancy test. You can buy them from a drugstore without an adult, and although it may be embarassing, it's better than not knowing!
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Pee on a stick. It will give you the answer. If you are confused by this, you shouldn't be in your current predicament.
Chances are, you shouldn't be in this conundrum anyway because you reiterate constantly that you are 'so young.' Obviously you aren't too young to know the consequences of sex, so you should have considered that before you did it. The point of sex is not just pleasure, it's reproduction. If you're not old enough to have your period, then it's a biological sign that you aren't old enough to be sexually active.
I would suggest waiting it out, peeing on the stick, and whether you're pregnant or not, learn from this frightening experience.
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try to keep it in your pants and act your own age.by the way you type i would think youre 13 or so? act your own age and worry about flirting and homeowrk and stuff. will you even go out with this guy in another 2 monthes??? try to actually think maturely once in a while
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Im sure your fine but get a pregnancy test just to be sure. Sometimes fake themselves in believing their pregnant. Just because they are so scared, and that causes stress && stress makes your period late. So, just take a test just to be safe. And ur "so young" yea if u are i dont think you should be having sex. But everyone make mistakes, just learn from 'em.
Good luck =]
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I'm almost 100 percent sure your fine..and if your that worried go take the test. a pound or two is soo easy to gain..and if you barely get your period then that tells ya right there. you'll probably know if your preg. trust me hopw i helped!
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Get a test; Grab a friend and hit walmart or some place of that sort.
Sounds like your just paranoid.
If your "so young" and your that worried about being pregnant you shouldn't be out having sex. Its something special, not something to just run around and do.
You're not going to get much sympathy
on this site, honestly.
Sorry to be harsh, but its true.
Good luck <3
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