Question Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 3:29 pm
i like this guy adn today he was kind of being rude to me like saying, you look like a monkey ( we were doing something about monkeys in class) and you smell like a monkey. and you are retarded. i was really hurt because i like him and i don't like it when he says that. does this mean that he finds me annoying or something? what should i say if he says it again?
mooch789 answered Friday September 22 2006, 12:09 am: If he was trying to flirt with you, he's lame for saying that. Forget about him. If he does it again, he's not interested.
JesusLlama answered Thursday September 21 2006, 8:16 pm: coomer or whatever forgot one thing: he might not like you. I wouldn't base everything on this one instance though. Weigh its importance against other conversations and wait to talk to him again in the future and if he still acts like that, I suggest you plant your seed of love elsewhere. [ JesusLlama's advice column | Ask JesusLlama A Question ]
karisue answered Thursday September 21 2006, 5:37 pm: this could be one of three things. 1) he could still be living in the first grade where boys showed you they liked you by pulling your hair & telling you that you have cooties. or 2) he could just be a rude person, and not really know how to say anything nice or 3) he could be one of those guys who get really nervous around girls they like, and don't really know how to act.
I think he's immature personally, but the bright side is, he notices you, and gives you some attention, even though it may not be the best attention.
And if he does it again, you should really tell him how it makes you feel, and maybe recite that same old first grade quote we heard over & over again by our teachers "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" haha. i hope i helped. =) [ karisue's advice column | Ask karisue A Question ]
Geneva answered Thursday September 21 2006, 5:01 pm: he might not want to be with you if he keeps acting rude, tell him that it hrts your feelings when he says stuff like that.and if he ignores it and keeps treating you that way, you can either ignore it, or tell him to shove it [ Geneva's advice column | Ask Geneva A Question ]
AskPiper answered Thursday September 21 2006, 4:06 pm: Well Maybe he doesn't Know you like him and if he knew he would treat you differentley.Next time go with it and laugh even if it hurts maybe he'll stop [ AskPiper's advice column | Ask AskPiper A Question ]
AsKxoHeAtHeR answered Thursday September 21 2006, 3:59 pm: Well, if he's usually rude to you, then just tell him to stop. If he's usually nice to you and just today was rude to you, maybe it's because his friends were around or maybe he likes you. Sometimes guys are that way. Even though you like him, you can't let what he says to you bother you. Afterall, he's just a guy. If he says it again, just ask him to stop, and if he doesn't stop, just ignore him =) [ AsKxoHeAtHeR's advice column | Ask AsKxoHeAtHeR A Question ]
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