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Stupid boy (it might be long)
There's this guy that I've liked on and off.. for 2 yrs. I don't even know why I like him in the first place. He acts cool all the time but I know that deep inside he's all shit. He pretends to be very confident but actually he's not. I really don't know why I like him despite knowing all these. He gives me mixed signals, or maybe it's overthinking on my part.
These are the signs that shows he likes me
- he held my hand during rollerblading (erm, maybe it's because I don't know how to blade?)
- he playfully threw a dice into my pants when my back was turned
-he told me to go up to his room to change even though his toilet was just a few steps away.
- he smile whenever I go near him
-he avoids eye contact at times
These are the signs that shows he doesnt like me
-he doesn't call/msg/IM me at all
-he doesn't ask me how's life
-he doesn't tell me his personal things
-he doesn't really give a shit about my life
That's about it. So does he like me or not? I feel that he doesn't. So can someone help me to forget about him and move on?
Thanks
P.S : I don't mind long answers. In fact, I welcome long answers. =]
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mk sorry - but i dont think he really likes you. i think that cause the things you said why he wouldnt like you are lik bigger and more important and matter more than the things that would make you think that he likes you. but i also read in Teen Vougue that um if a guy makes fun of you he deffinatley likes you and hes probably insecure - [about the additional info]
but if he tells you youre ugly then i dont really know what to say. if he doest really care about youre life and doesnt tell you personal things maybe he just likes you as a friend or maybe a little more than a freind but not like really liikes you. if he smiles when youre around him he probably likes that youre there. and if he avoids eye contacts maybe its cause he doesnt want to get into an akward convo. just see how he acts around you morre. just talk to him somore and see if he'll start to tell you some of the personal stuff about you. good luck ;] hope that helps. ♥ CAROLiNEE
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It sounds like he's interested in you, but he might not actually like you enough to have a stable relationship. You might be so attracted to him because he acts so mysterious all the time. I think the best way you could find out is to just plain out ask him if he likes you.
gl.
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I was reading your question, and one thing that I thought I should point out is how can you expect him to care about your life, if you think he 'acts cool all the time but I know that deep inside he's all shit, he pretends to be very confident but actually he's not" how do you know that? Some people are really confident, and they arent pretending. If he hasnt told you that he's not confident and that hes only pretending... you know. If you think this about him, how do you expect him to think about you? I realize you probably didnt tell him this, but I'm just saying.
The only way to find out if he likes you is to ask him. No matter what signs, I think the best way is to ask him. If you tell him you like him first, it will make him be more honest withh you. Because if you just flat out ask him he will feel pretty vulnerable and probably say something he really doesnt feel, like that he doesnt like you, when he really does. You know?
*to explain the first paragraph
what i meant is, if you think of him like that,
.. which is pretty lowly. How do you think he would feel if he knew that?
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well i thik that he likes you but he dosnt really care about you.So basically what im saying is yes he likes you,but if you go out with him hes not gonna care about you,hell just lie you.Now if yor smar which jdging from your letter you are you will just find him as a boy that lies you but you dont like.trust me if you go out with him its not gona be what you exspected,and yu dont need that.do yourself a favor ad find yourself a real man !!!!!!!!hes out there.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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he might be trying to play games with your head. he may not like you, but wants you to think that he does like you. stupid boys do this all the time. he may actually like you though, but is shy or nervous to act like it. follow your instinct, and if you think he likes you, go for it!
good luck!
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