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I'm stuck between 2 boys
female..15 years old.
OK..so i got this bf about 2 days ago.I like him but i think i would be ashamed to be out in public with him.but lets backtrack...on new year's eve my friend,her bf(david) and his friend(justin) wanted to spend the night with me so my dad let them..and me and justin hit it off well and i liked him but then i got sent off for six months and just got back 2 weeks ago.ok back on track..ok well now that i have this bf...my friends want to have the same kind of party again so me and justin are supposed to be hooking up and i like him alot but i just got this new bf and that would be mean..so should i stick with my bf or go for justin.
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Well first of all, why stick with a boyfriend you're ashamed to be out in public with? That's just as mean sticking with him because you feel bad for him, then just dumping him anyways. That's at least being honest, and it'll make you happy. Don't just make someone else happy, if you're not going to be in the process.
Just explain to him that you're sorry, but over the time you two've been dating, you've just realized you're feelings are more just friends than actual boyfriend and you're sorry, but hope you two can remain good friends.
Then just hang out with everybody on New Years, have a cool time and everything, and see what happens with Justin. And maybe even ask him for his number and screename so you can keep in touch with eachother and hopefully hang out again soon.
:)
I hope I helped!
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well next time dont go out with some dude you're actually ashamed of being out in public with, because that kind of thinking is done by shitty girlfriends.
dont drag the relationship out if you know it isnt going anywhere, and break up with the poor guy so you can go out with "justin"
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You might not want to keep yourself involved with a boyfriend if you are not entirely devoted to him, and you're feelings for him are not strong enough to keep you from hooking up with someone else. Maybe even ask yourself this- "Do I want a relationship, or a hook up?"
God bless,
Megan
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Are you seriously asking if you should cheat or not, because the obvious answer is no.
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If you're thinking about possibly hooking up with Justin, then don't stay with your boyfriend because it'll only end up breaking both of your hearts if you cheat on him. However, if you think you can contain yourself at this kind of party, then you may want to at least let your boyfriend know whatsup. Ultimately the decision is yours and you should do whatever makes you happiest. Good luck. -Angel
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