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my special friend has a thing for my boy friend
14/f okay so i have this friend and she likes my boyfriend&&shes really really pretty she als0o has down syndrome... but not very severly any ways shes like my best friend and im so jealous of her and im afraid that my boy friend likes her i dont wwant to be mean to her because of her problem... shes also really popular ok once she was like yahh if he was here right now i would so make out with him i was like wtf thats my bf... should i drop her as a friend or should i dump my boyfriend or WHATT!?!?!?!
sincerely---confused
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Perhaps you should talk to her about this.
Tell her how it bothers you that she is saying "If he was here, I would make out with him."
What kind of friend is that?
That sounds like the kind of friend I once had.
But you need to talk to her and tell her that it's YOUR boyfriend and you don't want her to ruin your relationship, and that you care and love your boyfriend.
If she is a true friend. She would understand, and stop saying all those stuff.
But if she doesn't, then might as well find some other good friend that won't treat you like that.
Hope I helped :]
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i know exactly how u feel not to long ago my boyfriend broke up with me ,well 30min. later my best friend was dating him. my advice to you is dump her as a friend ask her if she knows that stuuf like that hurts your feelings ask her how she would feel. 0i hope i helped you and good luck.
brandi
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rachel :- stuff like this happens with two of my friends like all the time. obviously this girl isnt a very good friend. she doesnt care whether or not this guy is your boyfriend or not. if you really like/love your boyfriend then dont end it. this girl doesnt deserve your friendship and your boyfriend. hope this helps!
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Well listen, she obviously is not a good friend at all. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you really care about him and that your "friend" keeps making you feel insecure about the two of you. Ask him if there is anything going on between them. And ASK nicely, do NOT accuse him. There is nothing worse than making the guy you care about mad, because you are accusing him of being untrustworthy and a cheater. So tread carefully. And after you talk to him, and if he tells you there is nothing going on and that he wants to be with you, the next step is to go to her and have a chat. Tell her that if she really is a friend, then she wouldn't be hitting on your boyfriend and saying she wants to make out with him. Let her know that you think she has alot of nerve acting like she is your friend, and then going around trying to be with your boyfriend. Tell her that he wants to be with you, and you care about him, and you would rather have an amazing boyfriend, then keep a friendship with a girl who only cares about herself. Also let her know, that if she had some girl trying to be her friend and get with her boyfriend, she would probably be really pissed too. After that, don't talk to her anymore. Don't be overly hostile. Be direct and straight-forward with your feelings. Now be careful of this girl. Since you guys are no longer "friends", she might find even more ways to try to sabotage your relationship. Watch her carefully, because she seems very manipulative. And do not be surprised if she tries to make a big deal out of you not wanting to be friends with her. She might try to tear you down, by getting people to feel sorry for her. That is why I said to not be too hostile. Best of luck, and if you need anymore advice, just note my inbox.
~Sherah
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heya!!...i'm 14 and i had a problem something like that a little while ago...with my boyfriend and my best friend and she is realli pretty aswell but i asked him about it and he said that he didn't like her and i trusted him and i found out that like he really doesn't...so i think you should just ask your boyfriend just say you were worried because you don't want to lose him...i'm sure he would understand!!...and talk to your friend nicely about it and just tell her the same that you love your boyfriend and you lover her and don't want to lose either of them as like boyfriend and friend!!...good luck!!...xXx...!!
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try talking to your friend, ask her to stop playing around with YOUR boyf and to leave you and him alone. if she doesn't get the picture then diss her.
if he seems weird around her more then 2 times then ask him a few trick questions around your friend.
if there is still no answer then leave him as it is
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