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Hello everyone! Whats happening? Nothing much here. I am here to answer any questions you choose to ask.I take this very seriously. So i guess ill tell ya a little about myself i have brown hair, brown eyes, skinny, 5'2 and i love to dance and cheer. well i guess that is enough about me lets heresome about you. :)

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im in eighth grade and i and my best friend decided to cheerlead. Cheerleading is starting in 2 days and i am so worried now. I have absolutely no idea how to do a cartwheel. I found some directions on google..but i'm still not being able to do it. I can't do the splits...not anything. I dont have to try out for cheerleading, but they have a, b and c teams. (a team is best, c the worst) It would be so humiliating to have to cheer for the c team.
I am looking for advice on how to improve my flexiblility, do a cartwheel and do the splits. Thanks for anyone who tries to help...i rate!

Hey, ok i hope i help you. im a cheerleader and it helps to stretch alot it makes u become more flexible, and when u practice on stuff think positive, and just keep trying it over and over. i hope i helped and good luck with cheerleading.
Brandi

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What should you do if you have had a steady boyfriend for about 7 months and really like him, but this new guy came along and is interested in you and you kind of like him too? Should you break up with the one and go for the other and see how it goes? or what?
Age- 16
Gender- Female

No! I dont think you should because guys come and go.If you have been with one for 7 months then obviously you all like each other a whole lot.This other guy is new, and is probably trying to impress people but i think u should stay with your current boyfriend.
I hope i helped and goodluck :)

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Ive been going out with Jon for almost a year weve had are ups and downs around six months of going out one night he told me he didnt think i really loved him we had plans that night to go to a christmas party i was all ready to go but he just left me at home all night and hung out with his friends instead i was so upset i called my two bestfriends crying he just left me hanging they told me to break up with him or they wouldnt be my friend anyore so i dumped him the next morning my friends were always jealous that i didnt always hang out with them anymore but i made sure i hung out with them alot.My friends promised them would be there for me during the break up but they werent they became best friends and ditched me.jon is one of those guys most would call a player hes had alot of girlfriends done alot of things but this year everyone has told me hes so differant with me.He use to dump his girlfriends all the time but he hasnt dumped me yet.anyways onto my piont.One day we had gotten into a fight he told me i only think about myself that everything has to be about me.that i dont show him i love him i just say it.he said he didnt mean to get mad and that he loves me and doesnt know what he would do without me thats hes never felt this way about any girl before.Today was Patty Murphy Day(senior skip day)he skipped hes not a senior he said he had plans i said i didnt want to talk to him if he skipped ,my friend ashley brought me to a store today to pick up food before my game he happened to be outside i said hi walked away he got out of his car and said i told you youd talk to me i kissed him he said i love you tree times i didnt say anything back he drove off..It hurt to hear he doesnt think i care about him if i didnt i wouldnt be with him for a year how do i show him i care more what do i do?and as for the i love you thing i think i just shouldnt say it if he doesnt think i love him what about you?thanks so much

It sounds to me like you really do love him.I think from the way it sounds he really loves you to. I think you should call him and say "We need to talk." and meet somewhere. Talk to him about it tell him you have never felt the way you feel about him for another guy. That you really love him, and if you didnt you wouldnt have been with him for a year, and tell him how you feel. Ask him how you could show him that you really love him and care for him. I hope I helped you and good luck! =)

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Well long story short--my friend knew I liked this guy..and well she made a move on him..blah blah blah I got mad at her..it's been about two months. REALLY STUPID..I know. But I don't want to be mad anymore..but I can't just all of a sudden talk to her..it'd be weird. Please help. I miss her!

well! just call her and say i want to apologize for getting mad at u for such a stupid reason and i dont want us to throw away our friendship over a guy. can we please be friends again? i hope i helped ya and good luck with everything.

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Okk. Please Please help me. I've liked this kidd for like 2 weeks. and today he asked me out. of course i said yes. but omg! it is so awkward talking to him. like how can i make him less shy and our talking less awkward??????
Will rate!
pls help!

Try talking on the phone with him, and being yourself. When he sees u being yourself he'll say i can be myself to. Just talk to him and stay around him alot. That way you all will get use to each other and wont be shy.
i hope i helped you.
good luck
brandi

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*heiwa* (japanese) means *peace* in english, correct? thanks

i dont know i think it does though i hope i helped

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Hey! Well, I am getting my cartilage (upper ear) pierced on my ears, and I was wondering if it hurt of if I should look out for anything or something like that. Thanks.

No it just kinda stings, and itll be a little sore and red. Just make sure you clean it with procide. sorry i cant spell but i hope i helped ya.
later

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My two best friends, (lets call then K & D) are always there for me. We do everything together and always have fun. We have been getting into fights lately. I hate it soo much. There is a new girl in our class (H) and she has been hanging out with us this week. Well D speaks this launguage called "Gibberish" and ironically, so does H. D&H have been sitting next to each other and talking it and me and K are getting worried. They could be talking about us! We all got in a really big fight today during science. But, we made up. What should I do about the new girl situation?

LOVE.

ok here is what i think. You should tell your friend how you feel, from the information you told me it sounds like you all have been best friends for a while so i think she would understand. If the new girl isnt a snob you should go up to her or write her a note and say im not trying to be smart or mean but it seems like each day me and my friend is fighting and gradualy pulling apart and i dont want that. I think they would understand.
well i hope i was a help to you.
goodluck with your friend and the new girl. i hope everything works out.
brandi

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13/f almost 14
I think i'm getting my period. >:|
Lately, I've had white stuff in my underwear and REALLY bad cramps [i got sent home from school for them today; along with the fact they made me puke.] Also; My boobs got bigger in the last month. What do you think? Do you think I'll get it soon? What should I do if I get it in school?
Thank you.

yeh it sounds like youll get it pretty soon. when you get it youll know u can feel yourself bleeding. if you start at school just bring pads and go to the bathroom often because you shouldnt bleed reall heavy on the first day.also were a long shirt just in case you do. good luck i hope i helped
Brandi

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14/f okay so i have this friend and she likes my boyfriend&&shes really really pretty she als0o has down syndrome... but not very severly any ways shes like my best friend and im so jealous of her and im afraid that my boy friend likes her i dont wwant to be mean to her because of her problem... shes also really popular ok once she was like yahh if he was here right now i would so make out with him i was like wtf thats my bf... should i drop her as a friend or should i dump my boyfriend or WHATT!?!?!?!

sincerely---confused

i know exactly how u feel not to long ago my boyfriend broke up with me ,well 30min. later my best friend was dating him. my advice to you is dump her as a friend ask her if she knows that stuuf like that hurts your feelings ask her how she would feel. 0i hope i helped you and good luck.
brandi

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Ok here's my situation.

I have a best friend.

He's totally beautiful inside and out. Well, we've been friends for a while..a long while.

I've recently had (cliche!) my eyes opened to see that I've started caring for him more then just a best friend.

He's everything I want in someone.

We've both had our hearts broken,been stepped all over..and we both are pretty lonely.

The only thing that's stopping me is, I don't know how to present this question to him.

I want to go out with him!

But I don't want things to get weird.

He wouldn't hurt me intentionally, I know this.
I've thought of a letter... But that's just to formal for a best friend.

I'm not to good wtih words. I don't know what to do. Please help,. Thank you.

i think it would be perfectly fine to ask him out by letter because i know how hard it is to ask someone out face to face. But if you rather ask him face to face that would be fine to .Tell him how you feel ask him how he feels ask him if he feels the same way you do or if he just likes you as a friend. I think from the information you have told me you know everything about him and your really close friends and if he doesnt feel the same way about you that you feel about him you all will come through and your friendship will still be the same. i hope i helped you. good luck. brandi

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well i like this guy and he already knows i like him i also have alreaddy asked him out but he didnt say yes or no he just kinda stop talking to me i mean not like he doesnt say hi or anything he does its just that he wont say nothing about if he wants to go out with me or not. and now my friend who is his older brother said that he likes me but that hes just afraid (i have boy problems i never last with a boy cuz i kinda cheat in them)how can i show him that its different with him that i really like him!!!!



~will give 5'S~

ok, her is what to do tell him that he has to trust. If he still doesnt tell him to give you a chance you wont let him down and tell him if by any chance you let him down or your trust breaks tell him he doesnt have to talk or trust u ever again.
well i hope i helped you.
brandi

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