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Falling for my best friend.
Ok here's my situation.
I have a best friend.
He's totally beautiful inside and out. Well, we've been friends for a while..a long while.
I've recently had (cliche!) my eyes opened to see that I've started caring for him more then just a best friend.
He's everything I want in someone.
We've both had our hearts broken,been stepped all over..and we both are pretty lonely.
The only thing that's stopping me is, I don't know how to present this question to him.
I want to go out with him!
But I don't want things to get weird.
He wouldn't hurt me intentionally, I know this.
I've thought of a letter... But that's just to formal for a best friend.
I'm not to good wtih words. I don't know what to do. Please help,. Thank you.
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i think it would be perfectly fine to ask him out by letter because i know how hard it is to ask someone out face to face. But if you rather ask him face to face that would be fine to .Tell him how you feel ask him how he feels ask him if he feels the same way you do or if he just likes you as a friend. I think from the information you have told me you know everything about him and your really close friends and if he doesnt feel the same way about you that you feel about him you all will come through and your friendship will still be the same. i hope i helped you. good luck. brandi
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Wow. All I can say is if only a girl thought of me that way. You have it all. You sound like a very sincere compassionate girl. A soft heart. I've been stepped on to many times and after awhile it creates a fear in a person to approach others. You become enclosed meaning you start saying little. Alright, here's my advice. Obviously you care very much about this guy. I don't know if you communicate with him alot but this is what i would do. Get him to do things for you. If your walking in a school hallway with him and you have books, accidentally drop one or two so he can help you. If you have homework, ask him to help you. What ever your need is ask him for help anyway you can. That way he will know you depend on him. You trust him. You like him. Hang out more often. Once you begin to get close you can ask him out. Trust me, there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. You just don't hear it often but there is nothing wrong. You can write a letter but you know what, a letter shows no emotion or character. And it will not help with your lack of words. Approach him face to face. I know its not easy but once you did it, it will feel so much better and and you will find yourself opening up more and more. Hold your head up, keep a smile on your face, and feel confident. Best wishes and take care.
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Awww this happened to me once.Just say to him that since you guys ahve been friends for awhile now,you want to maybe takes things to the next level,if he agrees then ask him out to dinner or a movie.If he thinks that you guys should just stay as friends,i know it will hurt but at least you guys can still be friends.It shouldnt be weird for ya hun,if you guys are best friends he shouldnt make you feel weird or uncomfortable im sure hell understand where your coming from.Youll do fine,the worst thing he can say is no,just take a chance.
♥ danielle
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rachel :- ohkay ... you just need to tell him how you feel. if he doesnt feel the same way, or if he does but it doesnt work out the your friendship should be strong enough to overcome it. i hope this helps!
♥ us
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