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so emotionally confused (break up)
my boyfreind and i or i mean ex- boyfriend and i had been dating for a year and 1 month until a few weeks ago... We lived together for 9 mths and bought a CAR together ... we wrecked the car in dec. and since then everything changed he was once in the marine corps and decided to go back i support him with anything but then out of the blue he decides he wants to be single going into the marines ... we lived together we had a car together i was pregnant with his child he promised me marriage and a family ... we were common law married in the state of texas he told people i was his wife or we are getting married he even started looking at wedding rings (he was recieveing jewelry store flyers in the mail) and he decides he wants to be single he doesnt want me anymore ... he says hes not sure if he will want me when he returns from basic ... i am totally confused and depressed. He still tells me he loves me and sees me everyday but doesnt want to settle , doesnt want a girlfriend ... WHAT DOES THIS MEAN CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ADVICE PLEASE????
I am f/20yrs texas
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i can understand where your coming from. he says he loves you but then leaves you, he says he doesn't want to have a girlfriend but yet he says he loves you.
all that i can say is that he loves you but he doesn't know how to confess up with it. if you love him and he loves you then try talking to him, saying things like that you love him, and that he and you know that your meant to be together, but if you don't want him anymore then follow your heart and decide your future with the new baby.
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This is a very complicated situation, and I bet it's way hard for you to deal with everyday knowing that your common law husband wants this.
I don't know what the right thing to do would be except to try accepting what he wants. What confuses me is that he's telling you that he may not want you when he comes back. That truly makes me think that this guy shouldn't be able to come home to you after not being sure of wanting you and considering himself single while he's gone. And why make you wait for him to decide for you and your child?
I say that if he starts considering himself available, you start moving on with your life instead of waiting for him to come back. I think that if he's not for sure whether he wants you anymore, then thats a pretty big sign that maybe it should be over for good. You've got a child now, a very special person in your life, and it's ok to feel sad about your ex-boyfriend and your situation. But, I think that you could do better with another guy who would never question the relationship reguardless of any situation.
-TheTeenGirl
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hey you sound like me right now, i am a 19/f and my boyfriend of 2 yrs just out of the blue decided he did not want a girlfriend right now. although i am not good at this and i probably should take my own advice, but just let him be if he really does love you he will come back. dont believe everything he tells you. my ex told me he loves me after we broke and we had already bought a house and lived together and like you were going to get married and something changed and he all of a sudden did not want to be in a realtionship. i wish i could tell you what to do but i am also struggleing with depressin feeling of loneliness but like i said dont talk to him dont see him for a little while see how things go if he really does love you he will back.
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