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so me and cody have been dating for like 20 days. and me and him are as close to perfect (probably not the best word to get my point across) as a couple can get, until it comes to hangin out. like at school hell talk to me and well hold hands and he doesnt care what his friends think. but we had vacation and we made plans 3 times to hang out, HE made them, HE broke them ..
friday he said to call when i woke up, so i did and his mom said shed have him call me. well 6 hours later .. he hadn't called .. so i called and she hung up on me .. cody NEVER called to apolgize or say he couldn't. now hes in maine till vacations over. and his fones off ..
i left him a voicemail sayin it kind of hurt my feelings (he ignored my call, like it rang and he pressed ignore, so i know he had his fone, so i know he got he voicemail) and to call me. its 2 days later and he hasn't called. but he'll call me sunday before school and apologize and have an excuse .. he always does .. and i always believe him ..
everyone says dump him .. but i cant. i love him .. i just dont know what to do without messing it up and gettin him pissed off .. HELP?!
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One of two things are going to happen:
You break up with Cody because you recognize that Cody is a wimp. He is a wimp because he is trying to get you to dump him because he doesn't want to..too much effort on his part.
OR, Cody dumps you. It's your call, but I think the signs are pretty clear that he is not in love with you. Most importantly, I hope you believe that you deserve better than Cody!!!
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first off, anyone can apologize to a voice mail. get him face to face or actually talk to him on the phone and tell him that him blowing you off really hurts your feelings, and since hes your boyfriend he shouldn't be doing things like that. its a lot harder to come up with excuses on the spot and when he can see that you actually are hurt it might give him a change of heart. but i don`t think you should dump him without knowing for sure he knows how you feel and you both have truly talked about it. but he might just be a jerk and not worth your time. and if thats the case then dump him and move on.
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well first off how old are you? this seems like sumthing i went through in liek 7th 8th grade....wellhear is excuse first but honestly i think you should let him go, if he didnt want to hang once tahts dumb. but if he says he wanted to he should of tried to!
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hes a little piece of crap and you should dump him before he dumps you. i know it may be hard for you to do but you gotta do it.
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you love him. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. he is going to dump you anyways so get over his <3 soon.
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