Hey, ok so i recently just got a boyfriend and i love him! but i feel like he likes me more in a sexual way than he does emotionally. should i do something?
K3587 answered Monday March 6 2006, 10:38 am: Deny him sex, or anything sexual, straight up when he wants it. If he leaves you, that is all he wanted. [ K3587's advice column | Ask K3587 A Question ]
lorawhat answered Sunday March 5 2006, 1:52 am: talk to him about it. see whats up and how hes feeling about the whole relationship. but if thats too hard because i know talking to your boyfriend about something like that is tough, then just stop putting out for a while and see how he reacts. if hes chill with it and still wants to hang and everything then you know he`s into you for more reasons than just sexual ones. give the guy a chance, chances are hes just really horny. i mean c'mon, hes only a guy ;) [ lorawhat's advice column | Ask lorawhat A Question ]
bittersweet17 answered Sunday March 5 2006, 1:00 am: if you love him& he loves/likes you then he won't rudh you into anything. don't let him push you into anything you don't want or you are not ready for. take things slow and when you both feel that yall are ready emotionally than maybe you both can deal with the situation. [ bittersweet17's advice column | Ask bittersweet17 A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday March 5 2006, 12:52 am: If he tries to have sex or just do sexual things then i`d get rid of him..
HectorJr answered Sunday March 5 2006, 12:17 am: Yeah you should definately do something. Get to know him more as a person, for who he is, what he thinks and how he thinks. Hmm if you do see any kind of signs, like what he says or might do [too much touching maybe], then I would just confront him clearly and ask him if he thinks of you that way.
Personally, if that is the case, then I wouldn't keep things going like that. I mean I've heard too many guys think and say [no this does not include me] that 'the ultimate goal in any relationship is sex.' So I'm not sure, things might be around those lines for him, but if thats the case then I would suggest you get out of it. I mean unless that is what you are aiming for, then yes, do something about it. Hope that helped and good luck. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
xcheerbabex108 answered Sunday March 5 2006, 12:06 am: If he pressures you like that, I'm not sure you should stay with him. But, don't judge him just yet. But if he does pressure you, if I were you, I would dump him. So, to answer your question,just wait and see.
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