Question Posted Saturday February 25 2006, 2:01 am
My step father has been forcing me to have sex with him for a few years now. When I was 8-9 he brought home a porno tape and showed it to me. I called my mom and told her that it was a sick tape and he threw it away. After that, my dad has brought porno tapes for us to watch and has had sex with me various times. I hate it when this happens, but I've been afraid to tell anyone!! He taps my ass and touches it and stuff. What do I do to make it stop?!?!
Nallie answered Monday February 27 2006, 1:43 am: This is an awfully difficult situation for you! Of course your Mother has to be told, and if she doesn't do anything about it, the court could find her guilty of child abuse too.
Think of it this way, sexual preditors rarely ever stop doing what they are doing unless they are in jail and have no access to children. Most people who do these things will never get better.
I agree with the other posters, go to the police. Tell the police that you are afraid. They will have to offer you protection from him. It is their job and they know what to do!
Think about how terrible this is and how it makes you feel. He will do this (and probably already has) to another child. I am sure you wouldn't want someone else to go through what you are. Most of all while the focus will seem to be on how terrible of a person he is, don't forget to ask for help for yourself. If you get the right counseling now it will help you for the rest of your life.
kelseyjo answered Sunday February 26 2006, 5:11 am: ive never been in that situation befor but if you have no one at home you can tell than look for other members in you family that you can talk to. and if you still cant find no one to talk to than talk to you school consolur. it might be hard to do but this might be the only way for it to get stoped.(good luck) [ kelseyjo's advice column | Ask kelseyjo A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Sunday February 26 2006, 4:44 am: You need to tell someone, anyone, right now. Tell a teacher at school, a counselor, an aunt or uncle, or somebody. I wouldn't tell your mom because she'll likely be in denial about the whole thing and it'll be buried under the rug. One way or another, the police have to know about this. They will know what to do. You can't be afraid to tell people about this. If you don't say anything about this, it's going to continue. It will lead to problems in the future with men and a guilt complex to where you'll believe this whole thing was your fault. Tell someone. Now. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
christina answered Sunday February 26 2006, 1:44 am: Are you dumb? Call the cops.
What the hell? Yes it is. Call the cops and file a restraining order as well as a sexual abuse complaint. He can go to jail for that. Calling the cops = GOOD HELP.
I don't understand why you rated me a 1, but whatever. Go ahead and be raped...Just when you don't call the cops don't be mad about how he keeps doing it because there's no one to stop him. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
smallbutsweet90 answered Saturday February 25 2006, 2:52 pm: aw im so sorry to here that, that must be really hard. as hard as it might be you need to tell somebody. the sooner the better. tell your mom, if she doesnt believe you then i would call a child abuse hotline in your area, many websites such as www.seventeen.com have infromation on places to help. Sexual abuse can cause many other problems and should be stopped immediatley. i hope everything works out! if you need anymore advice feel free to ask!
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VainTaraLynn answered Saturday February 25 2006, 7:17 am: Wow! You NEEEEED to tell someone ASAP. Call an abuse hotline, tell your mom, counselor, uncle, aunt, sister, brother, anyone you have tell SOMEONE. if they dont believe you MAKE them believe you. Call the police if it goes to extremes. or straight up refuse. When he forces you tell him if he doesnt stop your GOING to call the cops and have him arrested. & there will be nothing he can do about it. Take control & stand up for yourself. Dont let him abuse you like that. [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
tasuki answered Saturday February 25 2006, 4:48 am: You need to tell somebody. That is the only to stop it. What he is doing is incest, rape, and abuse--it is very horrible and very illegal. You should not be afraid to tell anybody because it is NOT your fault. He is a sick man abusing his power over you, and you basically had no say in it. Go to your mother or a school counselor right away.
JazziJazz answered Saturday February 25 2006, 4:46 am: The only way to stop it is to tell someone! He does not have the right to force you to do anything with him that makes you uncomfortable.
Tell ANYONE your mom, your uncle, your aunt, your teachers. Anyone you trust can help you. Dont be afraid to lay your trust in someone they can help you. Good Luck [ JazziJazz's advice column | Ask JazziJazz A Question ]
xoMarisox answered Saturday February 25 2006, 4:31 am: The only way to stop this is to tell someone. Tell your mom, you teachers, your guidance counselors, your friends,your friends mom. You need to tell someone soon because this can get a lot worse. You can call a hotline or something. You need to tell someone before it gets worse! I hope I helped and I'm always open to talk! [ xoMarisox's advice column | Ask xoMarisox A Question ]
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