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what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink? (link)
its actually not that cold, and your constantly moving so you get pretty hot. whenever i go i like to wear jeans and a tank top or cute tee with a little jacket over it. that way if i et hot i can just take the jacket off. hope i helped!


My step father has been forcing me to have sex with him for a few years now. When I was 8-9 he brought home a porno tape and showed it to me. I called my mom and told her that it was a sick tape and he threw it away. After that, my dad has brought porno tapes for us to watch and has had sex with me various times. I hate it when this happens, but I've been afraid to tell anyone!! He taps my ass and touches it and stuff. What do I do to make it stop?!?! (link)
aw im so sorry to here that, that must be really hard. as hard as it might be you need to tell somebody. the sooner the better. tell your mom, if she doesnt believe you then i would call a child abuse hotline in your area, many websites such as www.seventeen.com have infromation on places to help. Sexual abuse can cause many other problems and should be stopped immediatley. i hope everything works out! if you need anymore advice feel free to ask!


To be blunt, I have a ton of hair down there that goes all the way up to my anus. is it supposed to go that far back? is there anything i can do to get rid of it? f-16 (link)
yes this is completely normal. every girl is diffrent and some just have more hair than others. its easy to get rid of- i would recommened shaving (but you HAVE to use shaving cream) or waxing (though it can be harder to do) hope i helped!


15/m ....i am about to go a little further with my girlfriend ....and i was wondering if most guys shave their pubic hair or not...? (link)
I would recommened talking to her first. most guys i know "trim" it. because its too much for a guy to shave it all off (its a little odd) but no one wants a forest. anyway, i would talk to her. if you dont feel comfortable doing so i would just trim it up. hope i help!


i was just wondering, how can you improve your singing voice. i know you dont have to be born with it and i know you dont like drink milk and drink waater but like idk i want to be a good singer but idk what to do? (link)
the only thing to do is practice! join a choir, get private lessons. practicing on ur own can damage your vocal chords even more. and the hwole drinking milk thing, i dont kno where you got that but thats completely wrong. drinking milk doesnt effect how good you are. you just shouldnt drink milk before a concert because it coats the vocal chords. lol but yeah o would say practice =)


HEy yall in a few days im getin a ipod nano and i have some question

DO you think its worth the money??
Ill rate high (link)
personally, i dont think the Nanos are worth it. They just came out and yet a number of my friends have already sat on theres, left it in there purse/pocket and they break extremely easily. for only 50 more dollars you acn get an ipod, with actually arent nearly as big as they used to be, which can do so much more. i think ipods are awesome i just dont kno if a nanos worth it, plus they only hold like 500 songs. hope i helped =)


hey were not sittin on the floor but were sittin pretty close 2 it...does that help ne? (link)
yeah.. thats awesome! i just bought nickelback tickets yesterday =) im so excited!! i think i would wear a cute skirt, but agian as i said jeans are always cute! and the hair, u probably wont get to sweaty so if u want to straighten it you could! hope i helped! =)


okay so im going to a nickelback concert on tues. and i need to know how 2 wear my hair and what to wear. im about 4 10 muscular, skinny. i have brown curly hair but i straighten it EVERY day..its a little longer than shoulder length and its layered...PLZ HELP!!!
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omg i love nickelback they are amazing! i am exactly your size too lol! depending on where your sittin (or if u have floor seats) i think depends on what you should wear. i agree with the other people that i would leave your hair curly, OR if you really want to straighten it i would definatly bring a hair band so you can pull your hair up if you get hott. i would wear a cute tank, or one of your faovrite shirts with a skirt or a jeans (can never go rong with jeans) well have an awesome time!


is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old? (link)
not at all, its not about age its about the person. i hate when people judge by age honestly it doesnt matter. my boyfriend and i have been together a year and when we started dating i was 14 and he was 16. and one of my best friends her and her boyfriend are in a very serious relationship and shes 14 and hes actually 17. so i dont think age matters at all. hope i helped =)


okay.. this may be long..
I really like this guy. We are best friends to like, the fullest extent. He is also my ex-boyfriend. He is known throughout my school as "the flirt" because he flirts with EVERYONE. Well, he is always telling me about girls he thinks are hot and who he likes and how his relationships never work out and like, how he wishes he could just have a good relationship that isn't shitty. We tell eachother everything. He came over a little while ago and we were hanging out and he started kissing me. To say the least, we began to make out. He came over again a few days ago and we were hanging out in the same place and we were really close, and cuddling and stuff like we did the other time but he went in for a kiss and i told him i promised myself i wouldn't make out with him. he understood. ive been trying to get over him. so we just hung out .. cuddled and stuff still but didn't make out. we kept getting closer and i couldnt help myself..we ended up making out again. but in between that, he kept saying things like "i dont want to love you" and then he was like "i don't want to makeout with you but i can't help myself" and i was like "why" and he was like "i don't know. i don't understand myself.. but i can't stop myself from loving you" and this was basically in between breaths and he was kissing my neck and stuff. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO (link)
ha i know exactly how this is. oviously he has feelings for you, as you do for him.yto be honest hes probably always loved you, but is just scared he will hurt you, or you wont like him since you guy have already been together. next time he comes over try talking to him, like a ery serious talk. tell him out you feel and tell him you just cant help it. hopefully you guys will have a good talk, and you can talk about other things such as what if you two got back together, but how you would want him to be committed to you, and not flirt with everyone. try talking to him about these kinda things. really express yourself and im sure he will understand. good luck! hope i helped


i have to to go to a wedding in february.. does anyone know any stores where i can find cute dresses? um. preferably a little above the knee? (link)
Macy's Junior department always has really cute dresses. If you want something a little more fancy i would look at Davids Bridal or Jessica McClintock
hope i helped!


ok why does he fight with me wen he supposivly loves me and doesnt wanna hurt me? most of our fights are for stupid reasons... and HE causes them most of the time. i dont get it. now he wants to take a break with me. i dont want the break at all. i miss him. wut should i say to him wut should i do? (link)
My boyfriend and i are very similar. We fight all the time. and sometimes it gets to be too much. Fights usually are for stupid reasons, but as long as u both try to work them out that shows you both really try to make this realtionship work. As hard as it is breaks can be a good thing. It lets you both take some time alone to think out everything, and take a break from eachother. My boyfriend and i took a break, and when we got back together the break was definatley worth it. it showed us how much we really did love eachother. It gives you both a chance to make sure you want to be 100% to eachother. As hard as it is, this break is always a good way of bringing you two closer. Make sure you dont cling to him to much, but still try and talk to him and hang out some. hope i helped!


Ok I am a 16/f I need to know how to lose a lot of weight. I weigh about 198 (I had a baby) and I am 5'6". What can I do to get down to about 130 lbs? Any advice? Things I can do in my living room or around my house? Please help! Like I also need it not to take like forever! HELP! (link)
definatly eat as healthy as possible, you cant go wrong by that. crunches help a bunch, they'll help tone your muscles and get rid of all the extra fat. exerise tapes are awesome, i would definatly recommend thoughs. you could even run up and down steps, really anything phsyical to get your body moving. good luck =)


I need a program where you can make pictures all one color. Like purple, pink, blue, etc. I also want one to make them more pixelated. [Like with dots]Please help me with this/ If you help I'll rate 5's.. (link)
if you want something free:
go to google and type im picasa 2 and you can download it for free and its awesome!!
if you want to pay i wouldnt recommened the print shop its awesome it does everything! hope i helped =)


Hey, I'm the person who posted the question about triplets and quarter notes in the song "Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again" from the Phantom of the Opera. My friend listened to me sing the song, and she said it sounded too uptight and exact. She said that I should swing it a little to sound more natural. What is swinging and should I do it for this song? (link)
well i love that song number one =) but yeah. well she probably means it doesnt flow. instead of just singing the notes sing the "song" look more at it as a whole, and really show expression in not only your face but in your voice. to help is flow, sometimes making your hand go left to right in a figure 8 helps, then once you got the hang out it you wont need to do that anymore. hope i helped =)


Okay I LOVE to tap dance. But I have a sort of large body composition which does not look good in those short, tight clothes. What should I do? Do people like dancers with a little (Or a lot)of meat on their bones? (link)
hey- nobody prefers a skinny smaller person or bigger person, its all about the dancing. i mean if i bigger person is very talented and knows how to move, than awesome i would way rather watch them. so yeah =)


Hey, does anybody know where I can find lyrics by Hollywood Undead? I looked on google, but cannot find them. Any help thank you! I'll rate. (link)
go to www.azlyrics.com
they usually have everything =)
hope i helped


heyy guys, well my one friend is really short and skinny but thinks shes "fat" (of course thats not the big problem because everyone has insecurities) but anyway she barely eats and obsesses over her weight (but she also has OCD) she takes medicine for her disorder but she wont eat her lunch at school. Well i have 4 or my closest friends and she is one of them. Right now my other close friend let it slip that the other was barely eating and her mom came to our school, and basically embarressed her by making her eat her whole lunch. Well afterward i was walking down the hall and my friends went into the bathroom to put their makeup on and found the other friend sticking her finger down her throat trying to make herself "throw up" We told my homeroom teacher who tries to fix things but doesnt. I am sooo bothered by it and I've told my friend, and we've tried everything and being patient. Its not to the point where my friend needs counceling but im afraid it will reach that point becuse she has been dropping a lot of weight and shes not even 100 pounds.(she wasn't to start with either) im sorry this is kinda long but i just dont know what to do. really any advice would pretty much help (the nice kind) and ways to help me relax would be appreciated! thanks soo much guys if you even get to this part and ill deff. rate HIGH!

xoxoxo (link)
lets just say im in a VERY similar situation... no matter the size people come down with anarexia with is an ACTUAL desiese, not just bein "self concious" no matter the size. instead of pestering her about it, talking to her *calmly* about her eatin habits, and what she wants you guys to do, i promise it will help!
hope i helped =)


Hi im 14 years old. And on thursday dec.7th i had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but it ripped. It had that stuff called spermacide on it. But im not sure if any of his sperm got in me,because there was a not big but a normal sized spot on my sheets. I just got off my period like 3 days before we had sex. Im not having any syptoms that im pregnant but im having little pains once in a while at the bottom of my stomach. Im not only scared that im pregnant but i dont know how to tell me mom && dad. They dont even know im having sex. What is the percent chance that im pregnant? and any other advise will help. Thanx alot. im so scared.

always- scared.confused.
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Alright, i wouldnt panic! i have been worried about get pregnant, though i'v never had sex but lets just say close to it. i think its mainly self concious i got little pains to, and was totally worried. i did tons of research, and the MAIN symptom of pregnancy is if your nipples start changing. symptoms usually take 2-6 weeks to show up at all, so any pain your having has nothing to do with that. thou the "pre-semen" does contain millions of sperm so theres always a possibility, but dont panic its really really rare. With you just getting off your period, you egg has BARLEY made it out of the lil sack, so then its not likley you could be pregnant, but dont forget there is always that possibility. if you have any more questions about early pregnancy symptoms feel free to ask. but the BIGGEST to symptoms are your nipples changing & morning sickness. good luck! i hope everythings alright!
and.... here are some good websites to check out::
http://www.surebaby.com/
http://www.babycentre.co.uk/general/7063.html
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/symptoms-of-pregnancy/PR00102
http://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy-symptoms

if you need anymore let me know =) good luck


What are some really good songs to help you hit higher notes and to help vibrato? (link)
Definatley wicked songs like No one mourns the wicked. anything where glinda sings usually its high and vibratoy lol (s/p) also think of my from phantom of the opera, many songs from phantom are good for those 2 things.
hope i helped =)




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