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Confusing..
okay.. this may be long..
I really like this guy. We are best friends to like, the fullest extent. He is also my ex-boyfriend. He is known throughout my school as "the flirt" because he flirts with EVERYONE. Well, he is always telling me about girls he thinks are hot and who he likes and how his relationships never work out and like, how he wishes he could just have a good relationship that isn't shitty. We tell eachother everything. He came over a little while ago and we were hanging out and he started kissing me. To say the least, we began to make out. He came over again a few days ago and we were hanging out in the same place and we were really close, and cuddling and stuff like we did the other time but he went in for a kiss and i told him i promised myself i wouldn't make out with him. he understood. ive been trying to get over him. so we just hung out .. cuddled and stuff still but didn't make out. we kept getting closer and i couldnt help myself..we ended up making out again. but in between that, he kept saying things like "i dont want to love you" and then he was like "i don't want to makeout with you but i can't help myself" and i was like "why" and he was like "i don't know. i don't understand myself.. but i can't stop myself from loving you" and this was basically in between breaths and he was kissing my neck and stuff. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO
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he probably has feelings for you but doesn't know how to tell you besides kissing and making out. you obvisously have feelings for him too. but if you don't wanna be in a relationship with him or whatever you should stop yourself from cuddling and what not. he would probably get the idea. but if your okay with all of this, then you should tell him that you like him. if its awkard just to get out there and say it then just keep doing what your doing. but make sure he doesn't think that your just a girl for kissing and making out and make sure that he knows you want to be taken seriously.
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Well, i dont really think you have to do anything. you are basically boyfriend and girlfriend..right?
i mean, you could talk to him about all of this since you two are obviously really close. ask what he feels.
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ha i know exactly how this is. oviously he has feelings for you, as you do for him.yto be honest hes probably always loved you, but is just scared he will hurt you, or you wont like him since you guy have already been together. next time he comes over try talking to him, like a ery serious talk. tell him out you feel and tell him you just cant help it. hopefully you guys will have a good talk, and you can talk about other things such as what if you two got back together, but how you would want him to be committed to you, and not flirt with everyone. try talking to him about these kinda things. really express yourself and im sure he will understand. good luck! hope i helped
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Well i understand that you are best friends, it has happened to me. They are usually the best relationships or the worst. But from the sounds of it you are very attractive and he does care about you. But he is a guy, and slot of guys just want sex. Now i am not saying he does, but you should put that in perspective! Maybe you should tell him how you feel, if he is the best friend that you say he is, he would understand.
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