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gross my one friends slept over last night and my parents went out adn didn't coem back till one. So, we were really bored nd decided to listen to my dads old records. When we went into his closet.. omg. I thought i was going to die, I saw this DVD for porn. I thought it was a nightmare, it didn't seem liek reality to me and it still doesn't. My parents are the furthest thing from pornos. Now, it's the next day and I can't even look at them. What should I do?
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Well your parents obviously get horny just like you do at times. I think the best thing to do is to let it go. I'm not saying to act like nothing happened, because it did. But simply don't try to think about it as much. ]
I think you should try your hardest to put this experience out of your mind. Even though you don't like to think about it, parents are still people, and people have sex. People use those kinds of movies to get in the mood, and that can hardly be looked at as something that's bad or disgusting. There was definatly a reason why that type of movie was hidden away in the closet.... Spend a few days doing things out of the house and see if it helps you to not think about what you saw so much. I wouldn't reccomend going through your parents' closet again, though... ]
Don't freak out, some people use videos like that to get in the mood, i don't know why, but it works for them. Parents can hide secrets well. believe me, and its just better if you put it out of your mind. I'm thinkning of becoming a sex therapist, and i know use those all the times, give them to couples, i would not particularly do that but eh, whatever. Just don't think about it, or you could ask them , and embarass yourself and them. Hope i helped, good luck ]
It will pass. Really. Parents are normal people and, though we all tend to think of them otherwise, they have regular sexual urges.
You will just have to learn to accept that they have a private life that you shouldnt really know anything about.
Its hardly a big deal anyways so try not to let it bother you. ]
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