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what is the movie donnie darko about? (link)
It's hard to explain,and in a way it's pretty much up to your own interpretation.You have to watch it a few times to get what's going on.I pretty much think that it's about how what we do effects other people in ways that we'll never even notice,or that everyone dies and ends up alone regardless of what they do.By what happens at the very end,it seems like it's telling you that we shouldn't worry about dying.

But yes,on the surface,it's about this kid who imagines seing a big talking rabbit named Frank,and Frank makes him do bad stuff.



ok my dad wasnt home so i snuck a reeses peanut butter cup, even though i wasnt supposed to have one and i dropped it and my dog ate it...is he going to die? please help me i am so scared right now...hes a wire fox terrior, 1 year old and weighs about 18-20 pounds if that helps...please help me danielle (link)
It could die.Chocolate is poisonus to dogs,so you might want to call a vet or something.

Nice going with sneaking that peanut butter cup,ninja.


Well as some of you know i cheated on Scott, and after i did i felt really bad i cried. i am in a really tough spot here i am not a cheater i have never cheated before in my life this is the first time...now i don't know what to do..everytime i talk to scott all i can think about is what i did..and me and timothy keep missing each ohter's calls so we haven't talked since all this happend. i like both of why.i want to date both of them but i know i can't...i am supposed to go and see scott friday but i know i won't be able to look at him without thinking about what i did...and i dont even know how timothy feels about what happend....what am i going to do? (link)
In my opinion,you should break up with Scott.If you're willing to cheat one someone then obviously that person that you're cheating on them with has something that they don't.But it's your choice.You have to really sit and think about which one you can see yourself being with more.If you choose Timothy over Scott,you don't have to tell him that you cheated on him.I would because he really deserves to know,but it'll only hurt him more.


im a 21/f and have been married for a year but with him for 7years. how do i ask if another women can come in the bedroom? (link)
It doesn't look like you've gotten a guys opinion yet,so here it is.

I wouldn't like that at all.The way I look at it is that I'm with who I'm with,and I don't want to be having sex or anything with anyone else.I'd feel pretty bad if my girlfriend asked me to do something like that.It would be like saying "you aren't good enough,so let's bring someone else in."Besides,I wouldn't want whoever I was with to want to have sex with someone else(that goes for you and him).On the other hand,he might love it since he'd be having sex with two people at the same time.


Okay well, I did something really bad. I was just on a cruise for two weeks, and before I went, my boyfriend broke up with me. But then, I was in florida for a week before I went on the cruise, and he came all the way down from PA to tell me that he was sorry and didn't want me to hook up with any other guys because he loved me and would always love me. But then, when I got on the cruise, I met this realllly cute guy, and we started making out and stuff by the time the two weeks were up. And he started to really like me, but I'm not too sure if I like him, because I love my boyfriend with all my heart. The boy on the cruises name is Tom, and my boyfriends name is Matt, by the way. And I'm a 17 year old. (link)
I would forget about Tom,and stick with your boyfriend.You'd be forgetting about everything between you and your boyfriend and giving it all up,just to be with some bastard that you met on a cruise.

Then again,I don't think that you deserve your boyfriend.He came all the way down there to tell you that he still loved you,and what do you do?You end up acting like a little skank.



I hate the way my body looks and I have for-pretty-much-ever. I've tried so many diets, and working out, but nothing has ever worked. the thing is, I'm really not fat. I'm just chubby. I'm 5'3 and weigh 140.

I've had an eating disorder before, and it wasn't really that bad. I was anorexic when I was younger, I finally got over it, and now I'm buimic. Now just trying to eat makes me throw up.

How bad is bulimia? And how do I get over it?

Love,

Arlo (link)
Ignore that Brybry skank or whatever.Don't do it "until you're skinny"and then get hospitalised for it.Just don't do it at all,it's very unhealthy.And 83 pounds isn't hot,it's gross.

Anywaysss,there's nothing wrong with your weight.Beauty isn't all about weight.I know that's how it seems,but that's not how it really is.Someone is going to care about you for who you are,and think you're beautiful regardless of weight or anything.And it's not like you're obese or anything,so I would stop worrying about it.

You're basicaly killing yourself.If you're comfortable with that,then keep doing what you're doing.




Please help me ot I am thinking of getting one but I need to know this.
Thanks! (link)
Yes,it does.Just download the songs off of limewire like you normally would and then load them onto some music program.I use iTunes,so I would recomend that.You just have to load them on there,open the program that came on the software with the Zen Microphoto,select the tracks you want from the player,and just drag them into the folder.


Okay i downloaded bearshare and i guess i can`t use it because i have some sort of spyware on my computer..

Can somebody help or tell me some other music thing i can put on here if you help it will be greatly appreciated..
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You probably got the spyware from Bearshare...

Anyways,download either Limewire or Ares.Last time I checked,Limewire didn't have any spyware at all.If it does,it's nothing to worry about.Ares is a good alternative to Limewire,but be careful which one you download.Search for the regular version and download that.When I first got it,I downloaded something that was called "Ares Lite",and you could tell that there was something wrong with it since it was full of advertisements and barely gave any results when you searched.If the main screen says "Ares is a free program",or something when you start it up,then you're fine.


What does cached mean? Like what does it do? You know when you search for something on Yahoo and next the the link of whatever your searching it says cache. I just wanna know what does it do and it is good or bad (link)
It's when your computer stores a duplication of the original values from a website that you visit.Once something's cached,you should be able to acess the site faster since your computer can just take the data from the cache instead of recomputing all of it.


Well April 3rd will make it 3 years I got my period and this is my 2nd time for the year i've got it. This year was really hetic for me and the first time I got it this year, my grandma got really got sick. So in the first time in almost 3 years I got cramps. It has never really happened b4. So today I stayed home and got this nasty diarhioea. (spelt wrong). So I also vomitted this morning and my mom tells me that when I get married the cramps will ease up and then she says when you have your monthlys your body is cleaning yourself out so it will happen. I used midol and it helps but I was wondering...is my mom talking bout the sex? Does sex ease the cramps? And does your body really need to clean out during your period? (link)
Yes,sex is suposed to ease your cramps.I'm pretty sure that your body doesn't have to clean out or whatever your mom told you,but I'm not positive.


whats the term for women who like to get hurt ?

Like they go after abusive men ..i cant remember the term but i think it has -miso it in somewhere

ill rate !

thanks ! (link)
The only thing that comes to mind is masochist,but that pertains to both men and women.


What are the steps to get a girl from hardly noticing you to her going out with you? I am ugly so don't count on looks helping me here. I also don't want this to happen "That ugly guy keeps saying hi to me and talking to me. Its so weird. Next time he says hi to me I am going to say don't look at me"
So detailed guide in how to start. (link)
Honestly,a lot of girls these days are just bitches and they go mostly by looks.Personality is usually only a plus for them,so you have to find a girl who doesn't really care for looks but likes you for who you are.

With that said,just try talking to her and get to be her friend and whatnot.After you've talked to her for a while and it seems like you both feel comfortable with eachother,try to get her screen name(if she has one),or get her phone number.Just keep talking to her until it feels like you guys are starting to become friends,and then ask her if she wants to go to the mall or movies with you or something along those lines.If you go on a few dates and it seems like things are going well,then you can try asking her out if you want.Just try not to make it seem like you're trying too hard to get with her.


I have an ipod mini. It's 3 years old now, so Im wanting to buy a new music player. Overall my mini has been very nice. I've had battery trouble and have never liked that fact. It bothers me and so Im not sure if I should get another apple.
Can anyone tell me other brands of Mp3's and which ones are the best. Which ones are better than apple? Which ones have the best battery life(By hour and by which one will overall last the longest)? Which ones actually work how they say they will?
I want at least a 1,000 song capacity. Thanks. (link)
I have a Zen Micro and I really like it.There's a newer one that's out with a color screen and it has more space and can hold pictures.That's called the Zen Microphoto.There's also a new one out called the Zen Vision:M,which is pretty much a remake of one of their older MP3 players but it's more compact.That holds about 120 hours of video,around 15,000 songs,and photos.There's a few other models but I don't think they're that great compared to those two.Just go to http://creative.com/products/mp3/ if you want to check them out.


My step father has been forcing me to have sex with him for a few years now. When I was 8-9 he brought home a porno tape and showed it to me. I called my mom and told her that it was a sick tape and he threw it away. After that, my dad has brought porno tapes for us to watch and has had sex with me various times. I hate it when this happens, but I've been afraid to tell anyone!! He taps my ass and touches it and stuff. What do I do to make it stop?!?! (link)
Call the fucking police,dumbass.Unless you enjoy being fucked by your step father,that's your only choice.


15/m..i am soo in love with my beautiful amazing wonderful spectacular...and i could go on..but she feels the same about me..we have been dating for three months now... and the thing is my mom does not want me deating until i am 16...so my mom lets me have her over and everything but is always saying that we are not dating we are just really close friends who kiss and hug and cuddle and hold hands...and it is really hard for me to see my girl cus my mom doesnt want me to see her a lot....what can i do to get her to except the fact that i love her and i am going out with her. and to loosen up and let me see her more? (link)
Just tell her exactly what you said.Let your mom know that you really love this girl and you want to be with her.Tell her that you're both smart and you aren't going to do anything that you aren't suposed to.You could also ask your girlfriend if she'd be okay with talking with your mom,so that your mom knows how she is and that it's okay for you to date her.


Hello, I'm a female 17 years old and a JR. in High school. Also I'm from Pennsylvania,& that will help with my question.

Sometime last week I was assigned to write a Persuasive Essay, since I have one of the higher grades in class the teacher thought it would be appropriate that I tackle a harder issue to discuss, which lead her to assign me the Death Penalty.

I need some reasons why people support the death penalty and the reasons why they support it. I have a few reasons picked out but I would like to see if there are better reasons out there and see what other people's thoughts are.

Also, please don't answer this if you disagree with it. (link)
The death penalty is supported because it cuts down on the amount of harmful people in the world.If someone does something very wrong(such as killing another person)and they end up getting caught-you take their life so that there's one less murderer that we have to deal with.

From another stand point(in the case of murder)it could be seen as a more "he did this,so we're going to do it back" type of thing.Think Hamurabi's code of laws.

Penalty of death could be used as an example to showcase what happens when you do a certain crime so that people know that they shouldn't do it.

Some people could believe that life in prison is just stupid.You figure that they're going to end up dying locked up in a cage anyways,so why not just kill them and get it over with?

Finally,some people just flat out think that it's the only way to punish someone for what they've done.They don't feel like jail is good enough punishment,so they kill them.



heyy does anyone know a site where you can read books online for free? is there anything like that online? i dont even know well, thanks in advance everyone :) ill rate 5s (link)
Go to Wikipedia.com and scroll to the very bottom of the page.There's a section that says "Wikipedia's Sister Projects",and under that section there's a link that says "Wikisource".Just click that.

Just as a warning,I'm pretty sure that they only have books who's copyrights have expired.It's illegal to distribute books online for free otherwise.


My family doesnt care if I am starting to do real good in school that i have been coming home every night and that i have been usualy calling them telling them where i am going!

Im not doing anything bad no drugs no alchohal or anything!

My family always puts my down.. my sister came N my room went through everything nd ripped up things she gave me. My dad calls me at a friends yelling at me saying I didnt tell them where I was going BUT I DID.

My dad tells me im still doing drugs nd going out drinking like every day but im not! and how can I be if im usualy always home because they dont let me do anything!

I dont even want to bother talking to them because they always put me down or yell at me and tell me everything thats wrong with me but NEVER anything positive.

My sister wrote on a peice of toilet paper saying "I dont give to people that steal. I DONT feel sorry for you." I Havent even taken anything fomr her in 2 months because I have changed my old bad ways..

WHat should I do! IM tired of being treated like this! (link)
Judging by what you said,I'm guessing that you used to do some things that you shouldn't have been doing.Your family obviously doesn't trust you for it,and that's most likely why they don't let you do things.Just sit down with them and tell them that you've changed and that they can trust you.Ask them what they want you to do to show them that you really can be trusted and that you deserve to be trusted.Also,just tell them that you don't like the way that you're being treated.Don't come off as agressive though,just have a calm talk with them.


My sunday school teacher says it's wrong being a vegeterian.
Well... to my friend she showed scriptures and stuff sayign that it's wrong to be a vegetarian. and i'm like what's the heck.
so anyway i found a scripture that says it's okey being a vegetarian and that's a sin to be racist against people who are vegeterians.
So anyway I plan to debate this whole thing out.

Can you please give me some supporting vegetarians scriptures or a website which can tell me where to find a debate on this topic? (link)
When you think about it,being a vegetarian would make more sense than not according to Christian beliefs.Eating meat involves killing,and I'm sure that you think it would be stupid for your god to want you to go around killing the things that he put here so that you can eat them.

As a vegetarian,you aren't harming any form of life-hence the reason why there should be nothing wrong with it if you go by the Christian belief system.Anyways,you can't even consider it a sin unless the bible explicitly states that it is one.

Your Sunday school teacher=fail.


how long does resident evil 4 take to beat? (link)
It has a decent length.The only reason that it has two disk on the Gamecube version is because of the graphics and the cutscenes.In terms of length it's probably on par with the other games in the series,if not a little shorter.It has a lot of replay value though,especially on the PS2 version since it has some extra content.




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