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Sorry, rather long.
Okay well, I did something really bad. I was just on a cruise for two weeks, and before I went, my boyfriend broke up with me. But then, I was in florida for a week before I went on the cruise, and he came all the way down from PA to tell me that he was sorry and didn't want me to hook up with any other guys because he loved me and would always love me. But then, when I got on the cruise, I met this realllly cute guy, and we started making out and stuff by the time the two weeks were up. And he started to really like me, but I'm not too sure if I like him, because I love my boyfriend with all my heart. The boy on the cruises name is Tom, and my boyfriends name is Matt, by the way. And I'm a 17 year old.
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Maybe Tom was like your rebound. I think you were just in paradise and you felt bad, but maybe Matt is special to you. I would go with Matt. Hope everythingg works out.
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Well first of all, Matt breaks up with you before the trip, then drives down to Florida before your cruise to let you know you can't hook up with anyone, and then throws in "I love you". If he breaks up with you, he should at least have the decency to give you some time instead of tie you up on your vacation. If Matt can't stand thinking about you with some other guy then he should have thought before breaking up with you in the first place.
You shouldn't feel too guilty about Tom, because think about it, Matt just happens to change his mind right before your cruise? The gesture was cute, but it takes a lot more talking and less lines to prove he's genuine.
From past experience, if you get back together with your boyfriend too quickly after a break up without talking it through, it's bound to happen again quickly. If you decide to give him another chance, find out why he broke up with you in the first place and what made him change his mind. Hopefully he doesn't give you the "because I realized I loved you" line again.
Cut yourself some slack since it was your vacation and "I love you" really isn't a reason.
As for Tom, a vacation fling won't last, especially when everyone's scattered across the country again. Keep in touch with him though, in case you guys ever meet up, even as friends. :)
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I would forget about Tom,and stick with your boyfriend.You'd be forgetting about everything between you and your boyfriend and giving it all up,just to be with some bastard that you met on a cruise.
Then again,I don't think that you deserve your boyfriend.He came all the way down there to tell you that he still loved you,and what do you do?You end up acting like a little skank.
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Wow, you sound like you've had a lot going on in the past two weeks. Seeing that your 17, that's hard for you. Your almost a full grown adult.
But you need to make a decision. Which one do you love the most. Has Matt treated you better than Tom or has Tom treated you better than Matt? It's for you to decide. I have no power over who you choose because I really don't know them. But I'm glad to help you. =]
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