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Spring Break
My friends and I go to South Padre for spring break every year. Well this year, my boyfriend’s first baseball game of the season is 2 days after we leave. He said it was really important to him and that he can't come with us which I understand but going without him is just going to plain out...suck.
We've been together for 2 1/2 years and he's been able to go before because our spring break used to be the 3rd week of the month, now it's the first week this year. And there weren't any "big" games scheduled during that time so he could get out of them.
So now I'm not sure if I should go or stay. If I go I'd be thinking of him the whole time and might not be able to enjoy myself. If I don't go I'll be missing out with all of my friends. But there are other beaches we can go to around here but I don't think it'd be as much fun without EVERYONE. Oh the dilemma...
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I think you should go with you friends because then you can have fun with your friends and some alone time. And then maybe the next weekend u can go somewhere with him.
Hope you have fun either way!
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Well this is a tough one, but you have to think about what is more important. Staying here to be with your boyfriend and ONLY your boyfriend and missing out oon everything and then when they come back they will be talking about what they did and you will regret not going. But on the other hand if you leave and go to South Padre your boyfriend will have nothing except for the baseball games in his mind. He will also be busy all the time with his big games so he wont have much time to think about you. I think you should go but its up to you!
Kate♥
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well if he has been there for you and missed out on things for you than i think that you should stay there with him and tell your friends about why you are going to stay home with him. there is always some other time to go to the beach but there is not always going to be another ball game
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Is there any way you could wait a couple of days and go to South Padre after the game? That's the best option because then you would be able to see his game and he would be able to go on the vacation with you. If that's not possible, I think you should just go without him. If you've been together for two and a half years, obviously your relationship is fairly stable. One disagreement over a vacation isn't going to make or break it. You might not have many more oppertunities to go after you leave home for college. Just go on the vacation and have fun with your friends. If he's able to go after the game, that would probably be better for everyone.
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The whole point about spring break is to have fun, enjoy the time off, and hang with your friends. Perosonally, I think you should go because you may not have many spring breaks left.(depending on what grade you are in) Bring a picture of him, call him every night but don't force yourself to stay home because of a baseball game. Tell him you wish him the best of luck. Also, don't change your freinds plans by going to a beach closer to you, that may cause a bigger problem. Well, i hope i helped and i hope u have a great time!! xoxo
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well i think you should still go. just get a phone cardand call him every night befor you go to bed. it might acually be fun going with out him just you n your friends
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i would go without him. i mean you can't do everything with him. im sure you will have alot of fun there with your friends! or maybe you can convince you friends to leave a few days earlier so that he can go for a few days too?
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