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My boyfriend has an abnormal willy
Everytime my boyfriend (who i have been with for 1 and a half years) gets a boner, his penis is bent, like a banana. If i try to have foreplay with him, this makes it difficult and i want to laugh. Im not sure what to do. It makes intercourse unsexy and turns me off. He just doesnt give me the pleasure i need. Does anyone know what to do? im thinking of breaking up with him because i need to laugh everytime he gets horny. Please get back to me as soon as possible!
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Well if the sex isn't right then maybe you should consider talking about it before breaking up with him. Breaking up with someone because they can't satisfy you is not the right way to go. If you really care about him and the relationship is good, then maybe you should focus on fixing the problem, instead of totally dismissing it. He has a curved penis, and this has been a problem for many girls. They have problems finding the right position that works best for the both of them. I suggest looking on the internet for websites that will show you which positions are best for you. and next time you get down and dirty, turn the lights off and experiment with these new ideas. Laughing would probably not be the best thing to do, so maybe turning off the lights so you don't have to see it will be better. But sooner or later you are going to have to see it, so honestly, if looking at his penis makes you laugh, then maybe you might be a little immature. All I'm saying is, everybody is different and so our their bodies. You would probably be very offensive if a guy took off your bra, looked at your boobs and started laughing his ass off saying something like, "Holy shit! Your nipples are HUGE! HAHA" So be considerate of his feelings. Hope I helped.
~Sherah
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You know you pretty cruel to break up with someone if the sex isn't working and you haven't tried anything. You should search on the internet and find sites about how to get pleasure from a curved penis. In fact it may and should be at times (for people find out how to get aroused by a curved penis the right way) pleasurable then straight ones. You need to tell him how you feel, but be nice about it he may be ashamed about it. You can laugh a little , but don't be so rude about it also. Hope i helped!!!
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it is called an errection and its because of mens' hormones. there is nothing you can do to help that happen. the simplest thing you can do is just not look!
kathryn
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This is common.. This isn`t weird or abnormal..
I think you might need to try other positions maybe it`ll help..
But if you got to laugh about his penis all the time then i`d get rid of him..i find that very childish && you`ll probably never have a good relationship because you`ll want to get rid of every guy you see naked pretty much..♥Dez
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Abnormal? It's fairly common actually.
Look, if you can't deal with it, then cut him loose and give him the chance to find someone who can. If you aren't getting any pleasure out of sex, neither is he. Most of the fulfillment and and enjoyment in sex comes with MUTUAL satisfaction.
You CAN talk to him about it if you actually think there's a chance to save the relationship and your sex life. Try new positions, etc.
However, if you can't get over you need to laugh at him, it's probably time to end it.
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This is a fairly common anomaly, but if you can't see past that and don't get enough pleasure, the relationship is in trouble. There's someone out there somewhere that won't mind, and obviously another partner somewhere that can pleasure you. It seems as if you two aren't meant to be. Good thing you realize it now before marriage. This might sound petty, but I'd have to end the relationship If I were in that situation.
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hmm seems like something that he cant help. i mean if he could and it was effecting your sex life so bad im sure hed do something to change it. but yea thats not something he can change. i dont see why you would break up with him because of it. he didnt do anything wrong...maybe try different positions or something. if you have been with him for a year and a half i highly doubt that is the real reason you wnat to break up with him...maybe you are just looking for a lame reason to break up with him...? i dont know. but its up to you whether you break up with him or not...but if you do it and thats the reason...dont expect to be able to come back to him in a few months whe the next guy dumps you...im sure he'll find a girl who likes his bent penis. its up to you if you are willing to give up a year and a half of your life. but none the less i wish you luck.<3
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you shouldnt break up with him cause that. the whole time i read that question all i could do was laugh. relation ships should nt be based on sex
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I think it should be easy enough not to look at it. You can close your eyes or look at his face instead. But I don't think the fact that he can't please you is entirely the fault of the way his penis is shaped. He might just not be good at sex. Or it might be you. It helps to fantasize while you're having sex. Talk it out with him. I'm sure you can figure something out. If you can't, break up with him (though that's a little shallow, frankly).
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honestly mine is like that too and my girlfriend loves it shes says it makes it feel much better during intercourse but hey its ur choice if u wanna breake up with him just cause of his penis not to be mean but i think thats kinda low well i hope everything works out for the better
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