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Hi, I have this really great boyfriend and we both are really into each other. I am 14 years old and was just wondering, is it slutty if I let him finger me and if I give him a handjob?
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It doesnt matter about other opinions because its you and your boyfriends relationship. If your ready to move up a step then great and just go for it. Its not like your telling everyone that you gave him a handjob and he fingered you but if people do know it should matter to them because its about you and him. Hope this helps!
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Hmm. Some people may think it's slutty and others may not. I think it all depends on experience level and perspective and all that fun stuff. I don't think it's really worth focusing on what other people will think of it before making a decision like that. It's not about other people, it's about you and your boyfriend. If you want to do it, go ahead. Have fun :-*
P.S. You can always just not tell people who might think it's slutty, too...It's nice to be able to tell people stuff, but in the long run, why tell the people who'll just end up judging/criticizing you?
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Well.....I would say it this is the experimentation stage that will eventually lead to the real thing and possibly an unplanned pregnancy and or STDs.
Although I know it's common, I still think it means a girl (especially) at 14 lacks self control. So don't call it "slutty" just an inability to say no.
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Not at all in my opinion. If you both like each other and are ready for that step go for it.
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