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my boyfriend?!
he is always making me uspet even over little things. im really over sensitive so i just leave it alone.
today he told my firend he didnt like the "rules i was giving him and all i asked as these so called "rules" was he didnt smoke or drink and didnt ignore me when friends were over and he goes and tells my best friend he is mad at me cause i asked those "rules" so he lied and told me he was never mad and yells at her. so now she hates me and he is mad at me and im crying my eyese out. i dont know what to do. please help me im crying. :) thanks a lot.
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Well i think that u should sit down a really ask your boyfriend if he has a problem with your rules and ask why. And if he still gives you the same answer like he doesnt have a problem with them than tell him that if he ever does she should come to you about them not ur best friend. And as for your friend i dont know why shes mad because if he wanted to lie to you and say he never said that than it isn't her problem anymore, and she should tell him that if he didn't want her to go back and tell you that he was havin problems then he shouldn't have told her and he had no right to come back and yell at her when he should've just come to you in the first place.
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okay well if that boy was stupid enough to lie and wats so bad about thoses rules?? i would do this call him or better yet to his face tell him wats uP! tell him that u dont care if he smokes or drinks but just nit around you! and if he dont like it tell himm goodbye!!! and as for you friends talk to her !!!
tell her wat wa up !
hope i helped xox lindsay xox
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You're over-sensitive? Well I think he's a pompous jerk. Tell him that. Stop crying.
Allright, so nobody should come between you and your best friend. It's time to make your boyfriend, your ex-boyfriend. If he can't respect you or your friends, get rid of him. Can you just imagine him meeting your family? Not pretty, right?
A nice guy will take your family out to dinner instead of just the two of you on Valentine's Day because thier reservations got cancelled; a nice guy will open the door for your friends and answer thier never-ceasing questions about the two of you; a nice guy will follow whatever "rules" you give him, because he thinks you're worth it.
A nice guy should replace your crappy ex-boyfriend.
Apologize to your best friend for your bad taste in boyfriends, then move on to a nice guy that is really close to deserving you.
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heres my solution it may not be perfect for you but i think itll help. first of all shes your best friend so she probaly doesnt hate shes jus upset because mayb she feels you dont believe her or mayb he just embarresed her in front of ppl ( think about it if your friends b/f blew up in your face how would you feel) let her know u understand.and as for your b/f make a compromise about mayb the whole drinking thing like maybe sure you can drink (add in you rather him not but..)either hes gonna do it and he might feel like your trying to rule. if you think its a lasting relationship try to work it out but then again if he cant give up a bit of booze is he really worth it all??
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you probably dont want to, but i think you should dump him. if he cant meet with your few needs then how is he going to love you? i know its harsh but you can find someone who wont do the things you don't want them to and will make a point not to because they care about you enough. and if he's going to lie then you will never be able to trust him anyway
i hope i helped ...cheer up :)
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I dont fully understand your question but I understand that its probably because you are crying, you have a headache and you can`t really think too straight. But I dont think your boyfriend is even being fair to you because if he had a problem he should have talked to you before your friend. The reason he lied&yelled at her could have been that what he told her was a secret that you weren`t meant to hear OR she made it up. Its really hard to decipher what really went on and whos actually lieing and everything but I wouldnt blow up over this at your boyfriend but if your friend really hates you she isnt a real friend. Im sorry if this is an unclear answer. If you want you can im me... (barbi bliss x)
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then she is not really ur friend and brake up with him if he dose not like your rules then how od u know that he even likes you? all well but i have been through the same thing and i did nothing and about a week later he broke up with me and dated my friend
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