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Oh Boy.
Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.
But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.
How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.
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well i dont usually answer these type of questions but i have too once founs yself in a similar situation...why dont you try to get a couple of your friends(guys and or girls) to goto the movie with you and invite him...decide to see a scary movie and have your friends help you set something up that makes you have to or wind up sitting next to him, and since its a scary movie try to get close and at the real scary parts(or if its a lame movie at the most scary parts)act scared if you have to and jump at lot and grab him(like his hand) or try your best to cuddle with him....then youll just have to wait and see where it progresses from there...let me know if i helped you in any way....goood luck
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since you have similar interests talk about those. DO NOT go to the movies! You will not talk at all and when it's over you still will not know him which is exactly what you're complaining about now. Find an activity that you both like and go do that. Make it casual, hanging out, not a date so there's not pressure. If you learn more about each other and like one another, it will happen. For now, friends first.
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well ask him for his number or his aim, that way you can talk to him outside of school. also, you should probably let him know you're into him because he could just be clueless. this will help him look at you as more than just any other girl and possibly help him open up to you. you should definetly open up to him also (don't cross the line though by telling him very personal things), but things like "we'll me and my mom got in a fight today and this is what happened.." just little things like that will help you talk to him better. another problem could be that you just get nervous. brush it off take a breath and just go for it. even if you don't get what you want, atleast you tried and you won't be in this situation. ♥adina
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Say something to him like, "So what are you doing this weekend?" or, "What are you doing tonight?" Then ask him if he wants to hang out with you someday .. like go to the movies or something. Or if your really outgoing .. Just straight out tell him, "Hey I like you!" lol.
Other than that, I don`t really know what else to tell you, but Good Luck !
♥ Allie. Hope I helped !
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you kould like ask him to go out to lunch or movies...you kan try to mkae you conversations more meanningfull...
&& hope i helped
if you need anything else feel free to ask...!!
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