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Q: Okay usually I have no problem talking/flirting with guys. And I usually never fall for the popular type.
But now I'm head over heels for Adam. We have a few classes together and share some similar intrests. I'm also the cheerleader for his basketball team. We talk occasionaly in class but I never know what to say around him cause he's more of the popular sort. When we do talk; its really flirting. He smiles alot and so do I. We make each other laugh alot too. However; after that its like we don't even knew each other.
How do I make things idkk .. more pumped? Hah, like how do I get us to talk more without it always being me saying " how was your day " then getting a one word answer.
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since you have similar interests talk about those. DO NOT go to the movies! You will not talk at all and when it's over you still will not know him which is exactly what you're complaining about now. Find an activity that you both like and go do that. Make it casual, hanging out, not a date so there's not pressure. If you learn more about each other and like one another, it will happen. For now, friends first.
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Q: ok i have a friend thats been through a lot & i dont wanna be friends with him anymore. hes always threatening to kill himself & pushes things on me & if i juss ignore him he'll do something really stupid & i'd feel guilty. i don't know what to do. please give me some ideas.
thanks
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I actually had a friend kill themselves. We were like sisters but you know what...there is nothiing you can do to help someone when they really are that depressed. It doesn't matter how many good things you say to them they will still find a way to hurt themselves. This however, sounds like this "friend" is just trying to get your attention. My best friend dated a girl like this who threatened to kill herself if he broke up with her. BULL! Listen to me honey, first if he was really your "friend" he wouldn't put you in this position and threaten you this way. You need to do what's right for you and clearly this person is not a positive influence on your life. He is not bringing you any happiness, only dragging you down. Let him go. You don't have to be mean but make sure he knows you are serious about not wanting to be friends anymore. But honestly this will never change if you continue to let him control your emotions. Chances are his threats of suicide are just that, empty threats and the sooner you move on the better. Even if he is serious about suicide it will just hurt you because there is nothing you can do to stop it. But I don't think he is serious and what you need is some positive, strong friends that will support you and not mess with your emotions. Leave him behind and don't feel guilty. His behavior is his responsibility and not yours. You owe it to yourself to not have someone like that in your life.
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Q: ok i have a friend who has a bf with herpes and he supposively hasnt had any breakouts for a while now and she gives him oral and she thinks shes not gonna get herpes because of him not having any breakouts...is that true?..if its not then i'll tell her to go get tested....im really worried about her
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It is always better to be safe than sorry. There are many free clinics where you can go get tested. If you really care about this person you will talk to her and tell her to get tested. Just because you are not having breakouts doesn't mean you are not contagious. Be safe, get her tested.
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Hi, I'm very mature and smart. People are always asking me for my advice and opinions and I've never steered anyone wrong. I hope I can help you too.
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Gender: Female Location: Texas Occupation: Student of Psychology Age: 19 Member Since: January 16, 2006 Answers: 3 Last Update: January 16, 2006 Visitors: 702
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